13 Years on Getdare
 

It looks like it has been over 13 years on Getdare and I have really enjoyed this site. I thought I would try out the AMA. A lot of things are covered in my profile but the condensed version is I'm 40, from Canada, submissive, and enjoy jogging, gaming, and reading. Let's see if this was a huge mistake. :P

Well probably a lazy question but by now and looking back for 13 years what is/which are the main difference/s happened in gD?

Do you miss something of "old times" of getDare?

Does getDare helped you to explore your kinks and sexuality? If so, how?

Not a lazy question at all.

Looking back. I don't feel like the site itself has changed much. There are some new people that have brought a lot of positive energy and some old ones who are a lot of fun.I think what has changed more is me, I spend a lot more time on here now then I used to. I have built a routine around reading the dares and truths, then popping into chat. I don't do as many of the dares as perhaps I used to, but I suppose now I am looking more for connection than activities, so what has changed is more me.

Do I miss the "old times"?-No, there was a lot of novelty when it was all super new and surprising, but I like that I've been able to make some connections and have people that I can interact with on a casual and regular basis.

Getdare has helped me explore my kinks. I have met several very patient switches and dommes who have taught me a lot. I've always enjoyed reading the content and found it really got me thinking about what I like and what I don't like.

What was the fuckest - dirtiest experience of yours? Describe feelings and things around it too.
And what improvement do you think this site need?

There are two that come to mind.
On Canada Day I got a little out of hand. I was drinking wine...perhaps a little too early in the day and started my usual routine of reading dares, porn and camming. I'm not even sure what got me started but there were a few people watching me on cam and perhaps something was said but I found my self naked and bouncing on a fitness ball. This was weird because I'd never done this before, it was a little exciting but I help very self conscious about it. From there things progressed to bouncing on the ball with a dildo and more people started watching...between the 3 sites I was on maybe about 35 people? I was starting to get really into it...and getting lots of direction. I bounced so hard that I started to leak...people were calling me "slut" it was intense. Some of the tasks involved putting on nawty girl Halloween costumes, others involved tieing shoelaces around my cock. By the end of the afternoon I was exhausted and a little shameful. It was an amazing experience though.

I don't see any improvements needed for the site. However, a video chat option might be nice, or a random dare select could be fun features.

That's a great story haha. What sites do you cam on?

Chaturbate, Cam4, Omegle, and any others I just happen to wander into.

Congratulations on your 13 years!!!!:pirashoot:


What is your favorite number? And why?

When did you last get drunk?

Have you ever paid for sex?

Who in your life do you miss the most?

What color underwear do you have on?

What porn did you last watch?

What is your wildest fantasy?

What kink that you have do you think others would consider the weirdest?

When did you last have sex?

What sex toy did you last use?

Have you ever used drugs?

Do you smoke?

What is your favorite travel destination?

Thank you, it's been a trip. :P

What is your favorite number? And why?

When did you last get drunk?

Really drunk? Canada Day-That was a mess

Have you ever paid for sex?

No

Who in your life do you miss the most?

My best friend in Calgary

What color underwear do you have on?

errrr....is was blue when I was wearing it.


What porn did you last watch?

It was a cfnm scene. :P

What is your wildest fantasy?

Lately I really have been into predicament fantasies, the idea of being caught or trapped somewhere without clothes, or potentially exposed. If has changed, for the longest time I was really into pegging...(maybe i still am a bit)

What kink that you have do you think others would consider the weirdest?

On this site nothing is really that shocking. But I do get turned on when people gang up on me.

When did you last have sex?

February

What sex toy did you last use?
A purple dildo

Have you ever used drugs?

Yes-though not for many years. Use to enjoy pot and occassionally mushrooms.

Do you smoke?
No

What is your favorite travel destination?

I love the mountains and I love the beaches in BC.

I hope I answered those ok....thanks for the questions.

I realized I never filled out one of these:

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
95% Rope bunny
94% Experimentalist
90% Degradee
75% Submissive
72% Non-monogamist
71% Primal (Prey)
62% Boy/Girl
59% Switch
59% Brat
53% Masochist
48% Slave
47% Pet
43% Vanilla
42% Ageplayer

Got some time to kill this weekend.

Save me from my chores today and AMA! :P

Feeling bored so I thought i would dust this off. :P

How did you find people that wanted to watch you do dares? Especially on omegle most of the time people just DC the moment my ugly mug pops up :)

I've been on and off the site for a bit, only really took it "seriously" once (and intend to now). In my experience, there's seamed to be a lot of either fake/troll accounts, accounts just asking for dares then never responding, obviously fake "19 y/o females", etc.

Over your 13 years, curious how you've adapted with all that. Do you just simply ignore them? Block them? Play in to it for your own fun?