Ask a Male Dominant ANYTHING!
 

A very scary getDarian (the one you really shouldn't mess with) suggested I do this so everyone can get to know me a little better. :D

I can't always promise my answers will be serious, just letting you know in advance, I just can't help myself.

So go ahead, ask me anything you like.

Ouuu :)

How did you find gD and how do you enjoy it so far?

1) I was looking for some ideas for dares/games I could play with someone else. I'd not long discovered BDSM and identified as a switch whilst I was exploring and came across getDare. I lurked for a while before setting up an account. Standard.

2) It's great. I like chatting to all the kinky buggers on here. I feel at home.

Ta for the questions :)

M.V

I already know how you got your name... but they might not...

1. What is the reason you like this site most?
2. Fav movie
3. Fav song
4. What does your fav shirt look like?
5. When was the last time you sang?
6. What is your fav meal?
7. Most daring thing you've done?
8. When was the last time you made someone laugh?
9. Last time you made someone cry?
10 a thing that you arent sure why it turns you on?


Hi MV. Glad you are doing this. Still appreciate your honesty. LOVED your brat blog post *thumbs up*

Thanks very much, I've actually learned a lot more since writing it thanks to the helpful folk on here :)

1) Definitely the Lounge Games :p and I suppose the people are alright too.

2) I'll go with favorite movie franchise as I can't possibly choose between them which is the Bourne Films. I love espionage and prefer Bourne to James Bond because he has no gadgets and is intelligently resourceful.

3) That's so difficult. It depends on what mood I'm in. Overall I think it has to be Your Song by Elton John. It's beautiful and reminds me of good times in relationships and Elton John is just a national treasure.

4) My favorite shirt is a Hawaiian shirt that I never wear. I got it for a work party and it just looks so stupid next to my other white, blue and black shirts. Always makes me laugh. I look good in it of course and it comes in super handy for those Club Tropicana beach RP scenes!

5) Properly sang - New Years Eve, high on beer and Jäger bombs. Not sure I'd call it singing, but I was having a good time. I hum and whistle a lot outside of being drunk to save everyone that torture.

6) KFC - Boneless bucket. Just can't resist those 11 herbs and spices. It's finger licking good you know?

7) Most daring thing was sex in a car with my GF cuffed to the steering wheel. It wasn't the quietest car park either.

8) Oh last night with my younger Brother. It's a stupid in joke that won't make sense on here. I have a dry sense of humour and he likes how offensive and non PC I am whilst keeping a straight face. I also have a silly sense of humour too which works just as well on him.

9) When I used to work at my last job. I was a Manager and told someone they couldn't have red hair after they spent a fortune getting it done. She cried a lot - I used to work in a really boring place, personally I have nothing against hair dye.

10) Humiliation. I have no idea why making someone feel embarrassed gets me so fucking hot, but it does. - Probably some deep hidden regressive memory from my childhood - that's usually the reason for fucked up shit.

Woo, thanks for all the questions :)

You're welcome!

Ffff of COURSE you would like KFC. The bromance continues. :/ lol at least you didnt say a graphic t. ^__^


The car park cuffs = win

More:
Fav book?
Fav sex position?
Longest relationship?
Fav holiday?
Best quality?
Worst quality?
What do you think you smell like naturally?
Facial hair?
At the beach do you swim?
Would you ever do improv games?

I have to ask ... who is this VERY scary person that nobody should mess with?

What’s the most annoying noise?
What’s your haunted house story?
What did you Google last?
What’s the dumbest thing someone has argued with you about?
If money and practicality weren’t a problem, what would be the most interesting way to get around town?
What’s the longest rabbit hole you’ve been down?
What’s the saddest scene in a movie or TV series?
What’s the most frustrating product you own?
What inconsequential super power would you like to have?
What qualities do all your friends have in common?
What odd smell do you really enjoy?
What’s the coolest animal you’ve seen in the wild?

KFC is the most delicious food in the world!

It was pretty awesome :) Just kept worrying she was going to knock the horn and alert people's attention to us... yikes.

1) The Spy Who Came in From the Cold by John le Carre. It is my favorite book ever. It's about espionage during the Cold War and tells a brilliant story of an agent sent over the wall. So many plot twists, just a joy to read. As usual the film left out all the good bits. :mad:

2) I really only enjoy a few so I'll just name them all; If I'm on top missionary with her legs over my shoulders, I believe it's also referred to as the 'anvil position'. Also Doggy because then I can tease/spank her butt and really pull her hair. If I'm on the bottom the only real one I like is the rider position.

3) Longest relationship was 7 years. Almost did the whole marriage and kids thing but BDSM came calling and she wasn't into it.

4) New York. It's like being on a film set 24/7. The food is amazing, and the portion sizes are CRAZY! Just so much to do, fab time. I'm not great at doing nothing for a week, I like to be busy and have my brain engaged.

5) Probably my humour. If you don't think I'm funny then my positivity. I'm pretty positive I'm funny though.

6) My worst quality is my stubbornness. I can really resist if I don't want to do something, often to my detriment.

7) I think I smell like a testosterone filled whiskey? Yeah lets go with that.

8) Yes, since I left my proper job I can not be bothered to shave. I keep it trimmed and well groomed though. Proper manly. Roar!

9) No I prefer a pool, with a man bringing me drinks and young scantily clad ladies fanning me with huge palm leaves. :D

10) I don't know? In what context? Probably? I'll try anything once. if it's not fun I just won't do it again.

Thanks for the questions :)

Describe yourself to us: (Basics; hair colour, eye colour, body type etc.)

What age did you first get into BDSM, and how? (Roughly of course)

If you could change one thing in your life right now what would it be?

What was the last movie or show you watched? Did you enjoy it?

WhatÂ’s your ideal first date?

IÂ’ll ask some more questions later xx 😊

You really don't want to know. She has scary clown porn on her phone which she uses to scare people into getting what she wants. Cross her at your peril!

1) A baby crying aghhhh.

2) I have a haunted house story? I actually do... when I was younger I lived with two other guys. We all spoke about a feeling we got at the top of the stairs like someone was trying to push us down them. Also when I moved out I was on my own and moved everything into the front room to make it easier the next day. Whilst I was sleeping I kept waking up to things falling over and moving. It was pretty crazy.

3) Haunted House Stories. :p

4) A board game when I worked in a shop. You know how modern board games have a slit cut into the board to help it fold into a box? Well the guy returning it said it shouldn't be like that, how we were selling faulty goods and that he was going to speak to the authorities. It took me a few minutes but he walked away knowing he was a dick.

5) I'd fill the town up with water and go around in a submarine. It would be cool to bump into spongebob as I was picking up my groceries.

6) My 7 year non kink boring relationship. I thought that stability and 'normal' was the way to go, everyone else I knew was doing it. Figured it out before it was too late though, Phew.

7) P.S I Love you when she gets that first letter. OMG I sound like a chick. Erm something sad happened in Terminator 2 I think.

8) I have a nice big suitcase, but when you fill it up with clothes the weight of it stops the wheels moving. How fucking stupid is that?

9) My inconsequential super power would be never to grow nose hair. It's gross, has to be dealt with and hurts like a cunt when you pluck em out.

10) They all laugh at me. Erm with me. They all laugh with me.

11) That smell just after you blow out a candle mmm.

12) In the wild? Oh gosh a squirrel maybe? I don't really agree with zoos but there are some really cool Lemurs at London Zoo and you can walk through their enclosure. That wasn't in the wild but probably the coolest animal I've seen up close. They also have a sloth!!!!

Thanks for the questions :)

1) Fucking handsome. Hair; short platinum blonde, Eyes; greeny/blue, Body Type; normal(ish), Etc: 8 inches.

2) Technically I got into BDSM when I knew it was BDSM at 29. However I had been doing stuff all my life without realising. Stuff with friends after school, tying each other up, doing naked dares etc. Then in relationships general tying each other up and teasing. Nothing extreme. Yeah didn't start looking into BDSM until I was 28/29.

3) Have my own place again. I moved home to start up a business. I miss walking around everywhere naked!!!!!!!

4) Homeland Season 7 on Netflix. It was alright, they seem to have got progressively worse and unrealistic but I like the main character, she's mental.

5) Something really, really simple like a bar or if the weather is nice a picnic. I mean it's a first date, lets not go crazy.

Thanks for the questions :)


Excellent :)

Asked to put a smile on Butterfly's face...

Ever worn a tutu?
If so what color?
If you were forced to wear a tutu what color?
What would you do to the person who forced you to wear said tutu?


To regain your machismo ...
Ever played a sport?
Do you like rugby?
What football team do you support?
Rugby?


I'm late in saying: I've actually read the spy who came in from.the cold. I took a full year long in depth course on cold war in university. Great book.

Let's try and make her smile then :)

1) I'm sorry to say that I have never worn a tutu.
2) Please see answer above
3) Well if I was going to embarrass myself I may as well go the whole nine yards and go with pink.
4) Well as they seem to enjoy seeing me slightly embarrassed I would return the favor. I would take them on a little trip to a shopping mall and anytime we heard a PA system announcement, on public transit or whilst in a shop I would make them stop and repeat the announcement very loudly so everyone looked at them. I think that would be worth it.

1) Yes, I played football (soccer) mainly but various sports at school. I played as a defender which is where all the manly men play.
2) Not particularly, it's all a bit too posh for me. I did play it at school though.
3) I support the greatest team that play in red... Arsenal FC!
4) I don't really follow rugby well enough to support a team.

Well who'd have thought it. Yes it's a brilliant book and the cold war is fascinating :)

Thanks for the questions :)

1) The ability to learn from mistakes and improve themselves whether in kink or in their lives.

2) The ability to communicate clearly and in good time any wishes or concerns.

3) The ability to be their for their Dom offering support and comfort as this is often looked at as a one way street.

Thank you for your questions :)

to your skills above.... ... appropriate...

1) greatest life advice?
2) if you had a song today?
3)what is a goal you are near to reaching?
4)do you have anything left on your kink bucket list?
5)if so, what?