new partner
 

Hi Guys, gals, and others.

I have just starded dating a girl (30), this is my first ever relationship or even date. i am 27 i am curioise how do i intrduce someone in to to this part of my life, the kink and then what every this site counts as, not as active on here anymore but i come back every now and agian. like how do i know then the right time is

whats the best way to approce this subject. any tips advice ect will be helpful

First of all good luck to you with your new partner!

I know how it feels trying to introduce someone to your kinks, as I had to do it with my girlfriend, and it took me some time to be able to tell her everything. She still doesn't know about this site, more because It would come across as unfaithful to her not that I'm ashamed.

When you start to feel comfortable, maybe try slowly introduce her to one of your kinks, for example, I told my girlfriend that I enjoy being edged, and made to wait before I get to cum. This was new to her, but she tried doing it and we worked on getting it right, and now she enjoys teasing me. At that stage you can start to introduce more things, like then I mentioned chastity cages etc...

At the same time, give her an opportunity to experience her kinks, even if it's not something you think you'd be into, give it a go, make her feel comfortable sharing hers. At that point you may open up to each other, and take turns trying each others kinks and having fun, that way you can work out whats best for the both of you.

At the end of the day you should be comfortable sharing this information with your partner, and if they're not into it then maybe it wont work out. If you feel judged at all or are worried shell find it weird, don't, because if your into something and dont get to experience it then you wont be happy long term.

Considering one of your likes is giving up control, maybe that could be where to start. Giver her a coupon that says something along the lines of 'the bearer of this coupon gets to be in control of me for one day', and explain to her that you'll do whatever she says wether its how you dress, where you go, what you eat or wether its sexual related to. and then afterwards say 'hey, today was fun, we should do it more often'

Hope this helps!

From our current conversations given, we have not slept together yet, I think she might be kinda dominant but I think will have maybe a bit of a switch in her. So I hope we can talk about it after we get more intimate I like the coupon idea thanks for the advice.

UPDATE:

its going well we recentey strated have sex, and slowly talking about getting more creative with i things its still new so taking things slow, in evry sence we wnet on 7 dates and slept over once before we had sex, which as its my first relationship and i am happy with that.

kink world is new to her so we take it slow and explore toghther its kind of exciting, its new to me in partner pratice so its fun exploring what i thaught i might like and what it achicly as this probably will not line up.

Best of luck and best wishes!