20/FtM/Submissive AMA
 

Hi there, I've been lurking for a while and thought this would be a good way to introduce myself. Like the title says, I'm a 20-year-old FtM and a submissive. I've only ever been with vanilla partners before, but I've been interested in kink for a long time and have been exploring it on my own for a few years now.

So, AMA.

What led you to exploring kink?

You seem very creative, what inspired the style of your likes and limits list?

The wealth of knowledge on the internet definitely helped lead me to it. I was one of those kids who had a really weird kink before I even knew what sex was, so when I got older and started looking at sexual communities online, I found that I just fit better with kinksters. Through those communities, my mind was opened to a plethora of kink possibilities that I decided to explore.


Thank you! This is a tough one to answer succinctly. I'm super into all sorts of roleplay-- I've been roleplaying (non-sexually) online for about a decade-- and that bleeds into my kink as well. I've developed multiple sexual personas over time, but the one I use the most nowadays is my doll-self. When I'm out irl, I go by a different name and behave very differently, but when I'm here, I'm Angel the DollBoy (dollification being my main roleplay kink at this time), a submissive toy who is always getting into kinky situations so that I can become the best possible doll for my future owner. I guess a lot of people here are like that, in the sense that they behave totally differently in non-kinky contexts and use online spaces to sort of craft their sexual identity. Some of those sexual personas are closer to their regular selves than others.

Anyway, for me it's only natural to incorporate roleplay into that, since my sexual persona is essentially a roleplay character. So I wrote my likes and limits post in that style because it felt right to write it "in character," so to speak, and an Owner's Manual seemed like the best way to do that while still communicating my likes and limits as clearly as possible. And I'll be honest, I also think it's kind of hot.

Thanks for the questions!