31/transfemale/switch seeks any age/any sex/master in any location
 

Hi,

I am a 31-year-old trans female switch (leaning submissive) who is currently seeking a dominant for something which can hopefully turn long-term. Yes I was assigned male when I was born, I don't identify that way now and don't use male pronouns. If you're looking for someone fit, it's not me. I'm around 308 pounds and 6'2". I am trying to lose weight and you can help me through it but that's a long road ahead. I'm not looking to switch with someone really (though that can be discussed), but I may do things with other subs at the same time.

My avatar is me.

About me:

Outside of getdare, I study computer science at school with a concentration in game programming. A lot of my interests are electronic, like gaming or watching gaming streams on twitch, TV shows, etc.

What I'm looking for:

I don't really mind gender or age that much, if we match then that isn't as important, though under 18 is obviously not OK and very much older than me might feel weird. I would very much like this to be a 24/7 control type of thing, possibly with rules and such. I would want daily communication. This is important and without some type of daily communication I would find it hard to stick to rules I don't like. With that being said, I usually take direction really seriously and will do my best to follow what you say. (If I'm in a playful mood and think you're being easy on me I might get a bit bratty though!)

I currently live with family and have to be mindful of that when I'm home (some weekdays I will have the place to myself, but evenings and weekends just confined to my room with family home).

Areas to work on

I'm currently in the process of losing weight. Just over 300 pounds but I've lost like 12 this last month. I don't have a lot of control over the types of foods available but some motivation to stay in my calories or maybe some rules.

I've recently been doing more with pet play, specifically kitten play, but pretty inexperienced. If this is in your interests and you can give me tasks or rules or even consider me a pet that would be a huge plus.

I've been having a rough time keeping with denial since my last mistress, who I followed near-perfectly. If you want me to be denied, as long as we keep communication open I'll do my best.

Beyond that I'm open to pretty much anything. I'm very inexperienced with CBT but I can do spanks and things. Stuff I have is linked to in my sig, I don't have a lot. My chastity cage isn't good for long-term wear, it falls off.

Not too interested in

Age play, diapers, piss, scat, messy, all of that just doesn't interest me that much. I also don't want to stink up the place since i don't live alone or ruin things. I tried dabbling with diapers and hated it.

Although rules are welcome I don't really want to mess up activities I enjoy. My twitch streams I watch go until late into the nights. I'd rather do playtime and such but I don't want to be given bedtimes or something that conflict with those if I'm not doing anything else. Relationships with my online friends are important.

If you're interested

Preferably send me a PM so we can chat more and tell me what types of things you'd be interested in. My full likes/limits are in my signature, though it's possible there's more I haven't listed there. If so I will tell you. I can be into most things if not listed.

31/Transwoman*/United States
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*I live my life daily as my preferred gender, but sometimes I may ask or accept dares to help my transition

You're awesome, best of luck in finding someone!

You should probably post in this thread too since nobody can see your signature..

Kara is super sweet and amazing! She makes the cutest kitty and anyone would be lucky to have her!!!

I have received a response and an testing out a dom who was interested.

Edit: He says he was too busy, so looking again

Good luck with everything.

Thank you. I'm definitely still looking, but I have recently started a new job and things would be a bit busy for me right now.

That's a well written ad. I wish you the best of luck finding someone as well as with the new job!

Just an update as I can't edit the original post. I am no longer looking, I have someone now.