23/NB/Mostly Sub - Wanna know smth?
 

Heyya!

With me being on here for just over 3 years now I thought why not create an AMA

As an little incentive, each question asked will be an hour of plugtime for me, just to get some more training again c:

Looking forward to what you all want to know ^^

How does being bi-curious and non-binary look for you? Which gender are you "curious" about?

What is your favourite kinky outfit, out of those you own?

How much money do you estimate that you've spent on kink (toys, outfits, etc.)?

Oh yeah, that can be kinda confusing how it is stated!
Im curious about guys. It's always a bit of a struggle for me as I'm kinda interested in doing things but I'm, aesthatically speaking, not a huge fan of the male body.
So the bi-curious tag is in relation to me bein AMAB ^^
But overall the attraction comes from more than just the gender. I dont really like thinking about titles like this. Non Binary is also an umbrella term for me as I'm not identifying on the binary spectrum but maybe genderfluid would work better to describe me.

I'd probably have to say my bunny outfit! Was able to wear it to a few events and have some really nice memories with it c:

It's a bit hard to differentiate what outfit is considered kink and what isn't as I'm wearing Dresses, skirts, heels and stuff just normally in public.
With toys and so on probably around the 6 or 7 hundred mark. Having 3 Lovense toys really increased this number quickly C:

Let’s add a few hours to your plug time :D

1. Do you have a favorite dare that your have received?
2. Why did you decide to join GD?
3. How would you describe your journey in kink since you joined GD? What has changed and what has stayed the same?

I'd probably have to say this https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showpost...84&postcount=4 task I got from lucy. Haven't done it quite yet but it hits so many things and fantasies and its written soooo well!

I first found gD for the storys I think, so for reading those and quite quickly found some fun threads and dares to do as well c:


I'd say it didn't change too much. I was able to try out a lot more things and had some fun conversations with like minded people so yeah c:


Thanks for the questions! c:

Kaiyo says I should ask them some questions here, which is perfect because I already wanted to ask some!
1. What is the biggest plug you managed to use?
2. What is the longest you've worn your clover clamps for?
3. How old were you when you got your first sex toy, and what was it?
4. What's your favourite toy?

Biggest as in the thickest or longest :think:
The longest is probably the Lovense Ridge with around 15cm insertable length.
As for the thickness, my Lovense Hush and the Plug with attached cock ring are both around 4,4cm thick


around 10-15 minutes, not sure as I haven't worn them recently until my pain limit :think:, also depends on how evil you clamp ^^

I think with 17, I ordered of a german site a small metal plug and a 3 in 1 anal toy, but that was really weird XD

hmm, if we are talking insertable toys, I love the Hush and Edge, Edge ist stronger but the Hush allows more movement and stuff.



Thanks for the questions and sorry for answering soooo delayed ^^

I just realized you had a AMA, so I hope you enjoy my questions 😊

1. How do you educate yourself about new aspects of kink?
2. What's your take on kink and mental health?
3. How do you manage risk in more intense forms of play?
4. What's the funniest thing that's happened to you during a kinky scene?

RIP ME! I had it all written out so nicely and accidently closed the site and realised it too late :C


Well anyway thanks for the new questions!

Mostly via reading online. Though, if someone I know has experience in that, I'll be talking with them to get some info and stuff ^^


Not sure how to really answer here, it can be taken in many diffrent directions.
To help your mental, aftercare is verrrry important! I love cuddle, especially lap pillows, and head scratches. When playing online i usually snuggle up with a hot cocoa and watch something on youtube as aftercare ^^

Haven't done much with a lot of risk. The riskiest was probably rope bondage, especially suspension. Obviously research into what to avoid is needed, and someone experienced to supervise when just starting out. Other than that lots of communication. I Love the traffic light system for safewords.

Nothing toooo funny happened so far. We had a funny reaction when the rigger at a shibari show ripped up my pantyhose on stage. It was very funny to see the reactions in the crowd

1. What/How does the carrot feel?
2. Favorite spanking impliment?
3. Normal everyday object that you use of kink the most? (Ie. A spatula for spanks, pillow for humping)
4. Favorite butplug for the hours of pluging you now have to do 😈

good XD Haven't used in anally yet, only fucked my throat with it quite a bit. It gets thick quite fast ^^

It's nice and squishy but still has a nice firmness. So it's a lot of fun to play with ^^


hmmm thats a good question.
When spanking myself, I like using the paddle, as hitting the spot is the nicest and most controlled with it.
When being spanked I'd probably go with my selfmade Biothane thingy XD Its four layers of Biothane and around 25 cm long c: It leaves very quickly very nice marks!


Probably a wodden spoon i think. I bought one for use as a spanking implement cause hygiene and stuff. I'm not using many everyday objects now that I think about. Clothespins would have been the choice but not really using them anymore as I have a few diffrent clamps by now C:


Well... for the easy way out I go with my small metal plug, though that's just to get some time done without impacting me much XD
I love using my glass plug or the Satisfyer Rotator aswell though. They are just veryy comfy ^^ The Hush is always a nice choice aswell but its quite big c:

I love that someone mentioned the AMA forum now...

1) What is this carrot you speak of? Can you share where you got it from?
2) What is your cutest outfit you can put together?
3) What is your go-to outing look? It is cutesy, stronk, gamer, fashionista, what type of style do you go for most often?
4) What is the dare that has challenged you the most?
5) What is a dare you received, possibly multiple times, that is just... boring ... at this point?

If you had a chance to pick a place you could live for a year, where would you go?

What is it like living in Germany?

Also, what are some of your favorite animes? I would love to know as another anime fan.

It's even linked in my signature! Here its again https://neotori.com/product/the-carrot/
I bought it at an anime convention while dressed up as a bunny though xD


I bought myself a frilly white skirt, a pink, off shoulder knitted sweater with straps with a heart buckle, and white overknees, thats probably the cutest at the moment


Changes from day to day!
For lazy days its usually a pair of high waisted cargo pants with a shirt or sweater, maybe a croptop if I feel confident enough.
On other days I love wearing a skater dress or just a cute skirt with overknees.


[QUOTE=buttinup;53411874) What is the dare that has challenged you the most?[/QUOTE]
Hmm, a good question!
I'd probably say the custom transformation dare. It had quite a few parts and took quite a few hours. Wasn't that difficult though
Here's the report to it


I'm changing my PM dares regularly so it doesnt happen there. And well, I'll get very annoyed with some of the workouts in my thread but thats part of the fun, isnt it XD
I tried a few edging dares but thats just generally nothing for me, not really boring just not my thing




Maybe Japan, would love to discover the countryside and travel around


Niceish, not really sure what to say here xD There are advantages to other countries and disadvantages to others


Tsurune! and Given! are very good. Can't go wrong with Haikyuu, Free, Yuri on Ice or Your Lie in April either though!
I love Major and Dia no Ace aswell. A cute little romance like Konbini Kareshi or Nijiro Days is also very nice C: