Ruin an orgasm--then share how it felt!
 

Ruined orgasms are something that many people aren't familiar with. For some people they're just annoying. For other people they're incredibly intense, frustrating, and emotional experiences. If you've never heard of them or have never had one, now is your chance to experience something new!

For this dare, you're going to have a ruined orgasm, then share with the rest of us how it felt for you. This dare can be done by both guys and girls.


Detailed instructions are as follows:
1. Masturbate (however you prefer to do it)

2. When you feel yourself getting close to the orgasm, get prepared.

3. The moment the orgasm starts (when you feel the first contraction of muscles), IMMEDIATELY stop masturbating. Pull your hand away, turn the vibrator off, spread your legs, stop humping the couch....basically, remove all stimulation whatsoever.

4. After you recover from the experience, post on here describing it. What did it feel like? How did you feel afterward? Were you sensitive after as though you had actually had an orgasm or not? Make sure you share both the physical and mental sensations.

Then once you recover from your ruined orgasm, treat yourself to an actual one :)

Bump...450 views, and no one brave enough to try it yet? :P

*raises eyebrow* just seen this for tha first time here ^^' but.. I'm pretty sure I stop all stimulation right away anyway O.o *frowns* there are other things I do to ruin my orgasm if I'm told too... not sure.. hang on..

*goes away to try this*

Oh XD hehe okay no, your right, I don't stop right away ^^' but naturally I only carry on for about a second, certainly no more than two seconds once I start to orgasm, then I just rest my hand at the base of my cock. I just can't stand to keep pawing once I actually start to ejaculate and the first burst of cum actually comes out, (ofc scientifically orgasm occurs fractionally before that :p) but, and I've just gone and watched a bunch of videos of myself to confirm this, I do tend to squeeze and rub up and down the lower half of my shaft a couple of times once the flow begins to ease.

That said, having just ruined an orgasm in the name of science X3 I can't say it was particularly irritating or frustrating or anything, a potion less pleasurable than when I'm just doing what I want I confess but not hugely so and certainly not an intense emotional experience X3 well.. Haha, anymore than coating yourself in your own seed is already! Shame, I was quite looking forward to that X3 hehe, thanks Bassplayer ^^

Outstanding job to both of you! Many people don't realize how much they continue to rub through the entire orgasm. It's a VERY different sensation if you can make yourself stop right past the point of no return...

I actually like ruined orgasms, lol, and I've done it a lot. A lot of the appeal of it for me has to do with the mental aspect of it- I like the thought of being controlled and denied, even if it's only me doing the denying. However I do actually enjoy the physical sensations of it as well.
The first time I ruined one was by accident. I was supposed to be edging for a certain amount of time without coming, but I accidentally got too close to the edge and couldn't hold back; I'd quite all stimulation but came anyway. A lot of times when I masterbate I keep edging as long and as many times as I can until I can simply no longer hold back and something I find exciting, yet challenging to try and hold back, is that when I get to a point I can almost always come untouched. I get SOO worked up and then I just let go and spread my legs, squirming, my pussy burning and almost painful, and then it just happens, my pussy starts clenching and I come. I love it (though in the moment in definately can be hard still to get myself to leg go, because the stimulation feels so good and I WANT an orgasm and so there's a litle bit of mental pouting and struggle that goes on knowing and getting myself to give that up- which honestly, for me, can itself be a turn on and so hot, lol). XD the thing is though, it's generally all the buildup and the drawnout, extended duration of arousal before the actual orgasm that, for me, is mostly the part that feels physically satisfying and delicious. XD The ruined orgasms themselves can very in strength from time to time, depending on circumstances and also how long I'd edged first (usually the longer the better), sometimes very week, others stronger, but either way I do usually feel satisfied, not left feeling frustrated or anything (I wonder if that varies from girls to guys?), though I can often come again sooner and get really horny again sooner than I sometimes might after a full orgasm.
As to how sensitive I am right after, I can't really think right off if I'm as much as a full orgasm. It doesn't really seem like it, and I wonder maybe for me if it's partly because when I masterbate to full orgasm I often rub my pussy hard as I ride it out, which often leaves my a little sore afterward, whereas when I let go and come untouched that obviously doesn't happen. I am sometimes extremely sensetive *before* I come when I've been edging, and just the slightest touch to my pussy can be very intense. The actual orgasm after I've gotten to such a point can also be a little painful sometimes, but in a good way, it's kind of hard to describe the difference from a regular orgasm, but it seems harder clenching, yet with less pleasure, it feels like my pussy (not just my vagina but labia and everywhere) gets really tight.
Anyhow, tmi? ;-) LOL If you want, next time I ruin one, I can leave you a report afterwards as to specifically how that time went, heh.

I found something pretty cool....

I stopped (so ruined) for about 5-8 seconds then carried on again, that is pretty intense. worth a try :cool:

My girlfriend ruins my orgasm sometimes as a kinky thing. It leaves me frustrated and still horny.

She often does it and then continues stroking after I've been ruined. This is "Post Orgasm Torture". Go look it up, it's pretty interesting...

Interesting. For some people it's not a big deal at all, and for others it's incredibly frustrating and intense.

Great detail InDenial....I think you're the first person I've met that actually enjoys ruined orgasms!

This is pretty interesting, as this happens sometimes by accident. (Nobody can be perfect every time).

I just never thought of doing it on purpose. Hmmmmm.

You can masturbate forever doing this. Jk.

It was fun but I hate just making it stop:o

It takes a LOT of self control to do it to yourself!

It really is, but its a fun dare.

What? Is that post orgasmic torture we're talking about now? God >< I love the idea but that would seriously be extremely, extremely punishing for me >_< haha, I've tried several times but never been able to do it a tiny bit to myself.

Lets just say...I dont have that much control.

It obviously takes some control to do this to yourself and it's also very frustrating. On the other hand ruining orgasms allows me to have multiple orgasms. I've had up to three within two or three minutes. They weren't the greatest of course but still. I used to think this was only possible for females. Do any other dudes (or mistresses) have any experience with male multiples?

I just did this dare.
I edged a lot today so I was hard pretty quickly and edging very fast. I had girl doing this to me but it was the first time I did it to me myself. I had a really hard time stopping contact between hand and cock on time ! It was very frustrating to feel my cock bumping and my sperm squirting without feeling pleasure. Gosh it did not feel good ! I was not up to post orgasmic torture at all !

Omg ok so I tried this like five minutes ago. I started off using my favorite rabbit vibe;) and I got their to the point of no right before the point of no return and then I edged several times(force of habit) anterior that I went all the way and jut stopped and it felt as if I had just failed miserably and I wanted to keep using my vibe;) but overall it was defiantly something to try again!!!

Interesting to hear from people who have never had to do this before....

Anyone else care to share?

Anyone else up for giving this a try? It's a challenge to do it yourself...

Hiya,
I am only beginning to "get-into" ruined orgasms - but have tried every evening for the last week. Did it last night, with the best results so far.

Like most men (I guess), at first I found it almost impossible to stop jerking once I reached the point of no-return, but yesterday I was able to stop, take my hands away, as soon as I felt the pressure to ejaculate building.

After 30 seconds or so, I resumed a few gentle strikes of my cockhead. Again, as I felt ejaculation approaching, I took my hands away, leaving my cock twitching.

I did this again and again. I think I managed six repeats. Then a small drop of white sperm oozed from the end of my cock. Again I rested for 30secs or so before resuming a gentle stroking.

This time as ejaculation approached, despite taking my hands away from my cock, I could not stop my cock oozing a full load of cum. I did not shoot a load, it just dripped out.

There was no orgasmic moment, just a pleasurable feeling of release as the sperm ran out. Overall, very pleasant, but without that feeling of complete satisfaction.

I've done it a few times and it feels horrible afterwards, you remain very horny and frustrated :P

I hate when I'm ordered or having a dare to ruin my orgasms... I've just done it now and is still very horny...

Great dare! :D
I kind of have a fantasy of being tired up and for someone jerk me off but stop just before I ejaculate and to repeat this many, many times. Gave this ago with loads of self-control and it was absolute torture.

Ruined orgasms are a useful punishment when used correctly :)

Been a while since we had any takers--who else is up for ruining and sharing? :)

I was recently ordered to ruin an orgasm into a glass of ice and ice cold water. It really does take away all of the good pleasures hah. Not to mention its a pain to aim yourself into a glass :O
I've had normal ruined orgasms. They aren't so bad, it's still pleasurable getting to that point but then it goes completely as you feel yourself ejaculating, but without pleasure. Then I'm like why am I doing this lol? But it's too late by then xD

I was once dared to cum 3 times in a row. There was no way I could do that normally, so I had to ruin the first 2 orgasms. Best strategy for someone who hasn't done that before starts with getting right to the edge. Then use one finger to lightly stroke the spot on the underside of your penis just below the head. As soon as you feel yourself start to ejaculate, take the finger away. This is much easier than trying to stroke all the way to orgasm and take your hands away at the last second.

I tried it, and after i ruined my orgasm, 5 seconds later i started stroking and it felt like..... im close to an orgasm again, but then this sensation left..i think thats the secret how to come twice really fast. What are you thinking about that?

Interesting to hear so many different experiences...

Very unsatisfying to say the least, sometimes my mistress will continue jerking after ruining my first orgasm until I have another, so tense

It took away all the pleasure from cumming but on other hand my cock was hard & throbbing in no time so its not all bad ;P

I've experimented a lot with ruining my orgasms and have read some articles about. I will speak about males only. As i know, there are described some different techniques we can use and not all of them provides the same effect. I guess, the purpose of properly ruined orgasm is to ejaculate without any sexual pleasure, so that man is still aroused, cock hard, full of sexual desire and almost immediately able to reach the full orgasm. I like this way of ruining the most and it was completly described in the first post here - edge few times, jerk carefully and put hands away when orgasm starts building. If it goes OK, the sperm just slowly flows out without any cock twitching and with no satisfying sensations. I love this and would like to repeat this again and again till my balls would be totally empty. However there's a problem, I've found no way to be able to repeat this more than about 3 times at once. It always turns into some kind of semi-full orgasm when dispite of I'm not touching myself any more, the cock starts twitching and the sperm is more splashing than flowing. Then the cock fades and sexual desire disappears like after normal orgasm so this means game over for couple of minutes. I'll try to exercise more and hope one day I'll experience a real dry orgasm...
The other methods of ruining based on stopping the flow of sperm by force (squeezing the cockhead or the base or thumbing the pee hole) don't work on me. It's unpleasant, a bit painful and after that I feel like after a normal orgasm, just without ejaculation (in fact there is an ejaculation, sperm is directed to bladder).
Thanks everyone who's read this till the end and sorry for my English...

added: techniques for killing the pleasure of the moment of orgasm like cock and ball spanking, putting ice cubes and others are great as some kind of torture for stopping the immediate physical sensations of orgasm. But after some time the cock gets soft and the object feels really satisfied almost like after the full orgasm. This can be also called ruined orgasm, but i prefer the way described above - with hard cock and no release of sexual desire after that.

Very interesting overview--thanks for such detailed information!

Pretty awesome i just tried this and it made me mad when all the sensation went away and I was so sensitive afterwards this was amazing

Hah, most people don't use the word "Amazing" to describe a ruined orgasm :P