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Pretty informative post Nix!

Second....

Few things If you are meeting anyone in Real life.

*Make sure you get to know as much information about them as possible. Are they trustworthy? Are they willing to be honest and patient with you?

*Ask Questions!!! IS sex involved? If so TESTING IS IMPORTANT! Don't be foolish people. Get it done. Stds and Hiv happen and some people WILL NOT BE HONEST with you. Get your papers. Even if you are submissive BE SMART in this! God forbid you leave without protection and find weeks later you are sick... What will you do then? Along this comes Birth control. CONDOMS! CONDOMS! CONDOMS!

*First meeting should always be in a PUBLIC place. Well lit and full of people.

*Make SURE someone Knows where you are going and why. Friend or family It doesn't matter. With in a half hour into the "date" if things aren't going well excuse yourself and text said person. Actually Text them regardless and tell them You are ok or not. Have them call for emergency. Leave. This is one way I have played it with my girls. Another is if they don't hear from you call the cops but I think that is a bit dramatic. Especially if you are meeting in a Public Place.

*Make sure they are aware YOU have the right to end the "Scene" at any given time. Safe words are important and should be given. If this is not an option to said Dom. Leave. Your comfort is important above all others.


*** I will add more as it comes to me ***

On your note about real-live sexual encounters, I'd like to add something. To anyone that gets that far in their relationship, don't even make it something about trust. Don't make about the relationship, make it about something practical. A lot of people that have STD's don't even know they do. Worse than being lied to about it is finding out that your partner was infected and didn't even know it. Even if someone tells you they're clean and is absolutely honest about it, if they don't know then they don't know. It's as simple as that. And waiting a little while for test results is well-worth not getting stuck with a deadly disease.

Mommy Nixie is awesome <3

Very good point!!! Practicality

*slips $5 in Nixie's panties* Oh wait! Not that kind of tip. :o

OMG I loe your tips. They have helped me so much. I have been thinking about waxing instead of shaving now since the pimples from shaving were so bad. I found a sugar wax recipe that I was going to try. Any tips on waxing??? :D

Hmm There is a certain wax to use "down there" Personally I suggest Going to a salon for the first time and Watching how it is done. Ask them questions. Watch what they are doing. How they do it. Realize that if you do this yourself, It is GOING TO HURT. By having someone else wax this doesn't allow you to "flake out" and you are pretty much stuck. When you go in they will give you the aftercare and such. In order to be properly waxed most salons suggest you wait until the hair is about 1/4 inch in length. Yes ladies and gents. This means dealing with a pain in the ass grow in. :D Good luck!

:O im so using the shaving one :D Good job, Nixie! look forward to more ^^

Nixie: How do you get spotted felines to stop being a perv? (Real question)

I cannot answer this oh adorable frisky one. For I am just as perverted and creepy. It is only that No one Has yet to catch one to this. ;) Soo shhhh



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*spontanious orgasm in pants*

Does this really work? ^ :p

I ♥ You for that...

NIXIE! Does the pimple thingy really work? O_o im going to try it tonight!

Stretch Marks and I have an ongoing Battle. One in which I am DETERMINED TO WIN THE WAR! I am Hiding mine BY tanning. But if they are dark there is this stuff you can get, I'm gonna gross you out. It is called shark oil. Yes It stinks! BUT It fades them to skin appearance. When you "rub" IT in do so vigorously, So the skin is RED. Best bet is to do it at nite. So you don't smell like a fish tank all day.

Used coffee grounds. Duh Nix that is VITAL information!

Thanks to Ninjota I have learned the benefits on doing simple exercises daily. I highly suggest if anyone needs help for anything in that arena to ask him! He really is helping me a lot!

Its not a forever be gone thing but it'll go for a few days :) Wet used coffee grounds. Take em and slap em on there :) Massage them in if you need. Should tingle. I'm gonna do this Wednesday Night since I have a shoot on Thursday. Will give exact details on what I do then. Oooootaya?! Need to Look good in my new skimpy umm *cough* yeah....

mmmmm I lovers Coffee It makes a Happy Nixie!

I love you for posting this!

Would back this up, it's very tru, keep your razors seperate - and guys - that applies to your face too.

Damn was refering to post about razors but as usual my connection collapsed during sending.

Stretch marks:

I tried the shark oil a while back but it grossed me out too much... and it's so sticky! I don't doubt that it would have worked if I'd kept it up... but I couldn't do it.

I had terrible stretch marks on my hips and thighs (had to apply concealer on them when I was modelling, to make myself feel better even though I knew no one minded!) but they're nearly gone now - I applied Bio Oil (a thick oil but not fishy) two or three times a day for six months, and since then have moisturised twice a day with Palmer's Cocoa Butter.

I've heard that olive oil works well too - the trick is keeping the skin supple so it has the chance to heal, so whatever you choose, it has to be every day for best effect.

OHHH Thanks for this!!!!!!!! I'm gonna need to buy some
With the shark oil I suffered through it... Eliminate them?? NO it did not. I'd love for you to tell me if the Bio oil gets "rid" of them. I realize it really isn't possible to make a scar disappear. BUT I'd love to. THEY DRIVE ME CRAZY I hate wearing a bikini and feel hopeless with them at times.


HAHAHAHAH I do get rather hyper.


*Goes to buy Bio Oil*

No, I don't think they'll ever disappear completely... it took a few months for the redness to fade, then they went white, then slowly faded and shrank to thin, pale, silvery lines. The ones on my hips go pink again for a while if I put on any weight (because that's where it gathers on me..) but the small, faint ones on the sides of my boobs have faded to just thin impressions in the skin.

I've been told that once the marks have faded a bit they can be tattooed over (I assume with a design or pattern, rather than block colour)... so that's always an option if they're really getting you down...

I have at least 10 that run for most of the width of my back. They were purple at first, then pink, and now they are just white, and look kinda like scars, the ones I have a fairl nasty, but I got used to them after a while, and I think people think I got stabbed, so they don't ask about them.

LOL this was my solution!!! I did tattoo over a bunch on my hip. And it was weird the ink too fine and I didn't "feel" any thing it was very strange to be honest.

The ones I have on my bells are horrid. I need to figure a way to get the skin to tighten up. Just haven't figured it out yet. I WILL THO. Believe me I will. :D

How do you get the skin on your back looking nice, I find it is covered in small marks.

You could try one of those "firming" moisturisers, I think Dove make one that's supposed to be good.


What sort of marks?

For stretch marks, moisturise like crazy...

For small spots/blemishes, exfoliate gently, every couple of days, with a gritty shower scrub or a long-handled brush.