Give my partner control for my 21st birthday!
 

Hello! My birthday is coming up in about 6 weeks (yes I know it’s a bit far still, just wanted to get as many ideas as possible) and I’m so excited! It’s my big 21 :)

I’d love to get ideas for my birthday on what to do to keep me occupied and have a good time! I’d like to give control over to my partner, even though it is my special day. If you have tasks, rules, or anything else please list it!

One of my dislikes is oral, but I want to learn to love it! If that can be incorporated some way I’d like that. I want to learn to love to feel of his cock in my mouth, I’m just not there at all yet! I know he would really like that too.

Thank you!! :)))

First of all congrats on tskein the step to make your specialbday his.

Question is do you wsnt it to be just that day or a week after that too wirh the rules Submission etc.

Whats the Problem with oral for you.
Is it your gag Reflex or dont you like cum etc. Pleas Tell US so we csn tailour our tasks to thst

I’m open to it being for longer than just one day! Probably no more than 3-4 though.

Gag reflex is a little, but my biggest issue is the taste of skin. Thinking about it, I don’t think I’ve ever tried his cum as I haven’t been able to get far enough to actually finish him in my mouth. I’ve tried some gels before to help with the taste and it doesn’t help. Ideas on this would be appreciated! :)

Hm thsts an interesting case thsn. I have to read a bit

But i want you to do a quick test. Your bulet vobe i peobalaby coated in Silikone. Put it in your mouth and suxk on it. Describe how thr two Feelings differ in therms of tast ond comfort.
Thsn do the same with teo ore more fingers as a comparison


I would recomend doing Multitalent days.
srting of the night before your b day.
Undress completly. And get in bed with your bf. You will stay naked for the time of your Submission.
Obly time your alsowe do tress if to leave the house.
But you will dress only with one layer of normsl clothes so a Shirt but no bra skirt but Mo panties. A jacked tof warmth is alowed.

My bullet vibe is actually a light metal I believe. With the fingers, I have the same issue of the taste but after they were fully coated in my saliva it wasn’t as bad. Still don’t love it though

He will definitely love me being naked the entire time! Wish come true for him ;)

Good. So we have somthing to work with.

Well there are a coupel of things to try.
Fist to coat your fingers/dixk in aomrhing like chocklat souce.

Second flovered condoms

Third miricoul berrys.

Ehat are your paßt ercpeeisnxed with Submission in regards to him

To celebrate your Birthday you can give your BF 21 cock sucking vouchers.
Every time he uses one of them you stop what ever you are doing and suck on his dick for atleast 1 minute.

Do you have already an idea if you will spend this day only as couple or will there be a bigger party?

I’m not sure what miracle berries are, sorry

Honestly we haven’t done too much, mostly just bondage and light denial. I’d like to start doing more though

He’ll love this!

We’re just planning on it being the two of us

Hm.
Well i so he is pretty unexperianced with it.
Oh your into denial aswell thst csn be a good push.

Rule two. Dont cum from self Stimulation your slowed to edge.
When you want to cum from other Stimulation you ahve to aske and get perission to cum orjerwise your not slowed to cum

https://mberry.us/blogs/blog/the-fru...ool%20right%3F


They csn be bought on amazone. They chsnge the way you experiance flavours. So perfekt for what you need

Game changer! Thank you!

I’ll be sure to give him control of my orgasms that weekend!

Then I would say you can make him over the next weeks more and more suggestions he can choose of for that day:
Search 21 sexy/slave outfits and let him choose what you will wear that day
Offer 21 different meals and let him choose what you will cook him
search 21 pictures/videos that turn you on and let him choose which one he wants to recreate with you

Now to the fun Part.

I would sugest a Ritual in the beginning.
Like waking him up with a blow Job and when Heß fully awake. Get of the bed an kneel infron of it with your Arms extended hands fscing up with a collar on them. Your Gaze Touren to the grpund and thsn you anounce somthing like. If you put this collar on me im yours to comand till dste X.

I like this! Honestly realizing more and more how much I’d rather him be in control! The sexy/slave outfits in particular! Do you have any suggestions?

I’m interested in waking him up with a blowjob, but I’m not sure about a collar. Seems a little soon for that, plus not sure my pride could say those words :)

Hm
Csm be a necklace for the start.

Are you alone at home at the moment ?

Yes I am currently alone

Go undress and kneel infront of a mirrour. And lock yourself in the eys and say tjose words.

Describe how you feel etc. Afterwards please

I’m sorry, what words?

You mean for the outfits?
Depends a bit what he prefers. Is he more into the classical sexy dessous or trashy slutty stuff or are you two into humiliation?

If you put this collar on me im yours to comand till dste X. These words

He likes both. I think I’ve found some for him to pick from.

He’s not into humiliation, but I am interested. I’m not super familiar with it, but I’m open to trying

Then look espacilly for some where you think you feel insecure in, but at the same time you think he would really like them.

You can also make a wishlist of 21 sextoys you would like to put into your arsenal. leet him choose which one you buy as your birthday gift.

If it fits you could buy/bake a birthday donut for yourself. you stick then his dick through the hole and eat it from there.

I might get him something like this then, everything is just out there! My goodness

https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/wom...ddy-98898.aspx

I’ll have to look into sextoys to see what I’m interested in and what there is, but I think that’d be a good use of a birthday present. After all, I am still the birthday girl!
The donut would certainly be a yummy dessert for me and something fun for him ;)

Yeah with your breast size I would go fore something like that if I would be your bf.
maybe even crotchless like this https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/wom...ddy-90845.aspx

Ooh good choice! The back is a win for sure, shows off my best feature!

But you should let him decide what he wants to see ;) maybe he is a purist and enjoys the old fashion collar only style.

You can write also 21 one different sexual fantasies of you down. Then let him pick one. Or all as vouche.

Regarding your oral problem: I guess you enjoy it when he eats you out or? One new rule could be that you can only get it after you managed to please him x amounts of minutes first/ make him cum in the next step.

You are absolutely right, I didn’t really think about a collar being an option for lingerie, it is up to him after all!

First I’d have to think of 21 fantasies! But I like the idea.

Yeah I do, this would be good to make me wait! It still means I get pleasure but he still does first.

Do you wish that he takes more control only on a commanding/mental level or would you also enjoy it if he takes away more control from you in a physical way. Like controlling your freedom of movement with a leash?

I’m a bit open, physical control is something I’m willing to try

What about letting him control your bladder? (Decide when and how you go to the bathroom, what you drink...)

Too far for now, or would you try?

I don’t think that’s something he’s too interested in, but I like the different ideas!

Someone PM’d me suggesting hypnosis to help with liking oral.

Would love to hear other ideas!

Ever tried tocover his dick with something like chocolate cream, peanut butter or something else you like?

I’ve tried whipped cream, but didn’t like it. Maybe chocolate or peanut butter would stay on longer though!

I tried chocolate cream last night, and I’m surprised at how well it worked! I had no issues at all with the taste, and didn’t have an issue cleaning him up either. I honestly made it a game to get all of it clean. The only issue I had was him finishing, I gagged so bad then but otherwise a good experience. Thanks for the suggestion!

Id suggest a game, roll for your hole. Roll a single d6 and he gets to use the corresponding hole.
1, 4 mouth
2, 5 pussy
3, 6 ass

I know you aren't pleased with oral but this would give you a 66% chance it won't be.

Have fun!

This is a fantastic idea