25F Submissive Leaning Switch AMA
 

A certain someone (*cough cough* Sir) convinced me it was a good idea to start an AMA thread!

So, ask me anything, and I will answer.

Of course I can veto anything that I feel is too identifying!

Edit: Every question I answer will remove 2 edges from those I have left to do for my denial!

Would u ever take on a 19 year old kinky sub guy

I very much tend to lean towards the submissice side myself and I tend to be able to lean dom better with women.
Either way I dont currently see myself taking on any submissives! Its just not something I have time for, or the inclination to do right now!

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how would you summarise your past 25 years on this earth from a sexual point of view?

What do you want from the next 25?

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Summary: Fun, mostly submissive, moderatly kinky

The next 25: More kinky fun!

Next 5 years: Im vetoing this question since all the answers I can think of are too identifying...

I'll admit that Im not the best at thinking of answers to very broad open questions! 😅

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What is one thing you've done for sexual pleasure you have never told anyone before?

What is your deepest darkest sexual fantasy? Not the first one that come to your mind, but the one you are ashamed to even have in your head.

Hmmm...
A question...
Well here comes mine!

It's actually less person specific and more just sating my curiosity... Here's the scenario;

Imagine you're being in a session with a dom. Like actually envision the scene.
They're being very caring... Giving you pats, ruffling your hair and making sure you get plenty of praise after you fulfil every command trying your best to abide by their wishes.

In other words they're a very soft domme, that try to avoid punishing you and they just genuinely want to make you feel good!

Now that the session is nearing to an end the question is:

Would you rather have the pleasure you hands on and melt like a cyoot kitteh, or would you rather cum woth your dom? (Simultaneously)

Its hard to think of something that Ive never told anyone before... maybe that I've used the corner of a chair to grind out an orgasm before when younger.

I will start by saying that I tend not to really be ashamed of any of my darker fantasies as I understand that fantasy is a safe place to explore those sorts of things, and that it can be healthy to do so. So its more that they are humilating to admit.
So the one I can think of after a day or so is this: Being physically forced into becoming someones sexual slave. Starting off chained to the bed naked until I was mentally broken and more willing to be an obedient pet. Forced to learn how to deepthroat to earn the right to walk again. And that sort of thing.

Would I ever even want to roleplay this intense of a senario, no. As I know it would be more than I could properly handle even with proper aftercare in the way I imagine it. But its a nice occasional dark fantasy.

Hmm I think with the headspace I would be in I would prefer to cum with the dom! Id be in a very submissive, soft headspace where I would want to please the dom very much.

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More questions for less edges
 

Kind of basic question, why did you decide to join GD and do you feel like your kinks have altered in any way since joining?

Second question cause curiosity got the best of me 😅 What does counter and H-counter mean at the end of your answers?

I had been a lurker on GD for a while and reading people's threads always made me very horny so I decided that I wanted to join to enjoy some of that directly myself!
I feel that my kinks have stayed somewhat the same, maybe they could be said to have intensified some as I have experienced them more and my inital interest has been confirmed to be a very strong interest!

😳 I knew someone would eventually ask. As part of the deal to get 100 edges off my denial edges Sir DungeonMaster wanted me to count each question answered as 5 spanks if within the day, and 10 spanks of it took 24 hours to answer. So thats the first counter.
The h-counter is 5 spanks to my clit with the labia spreader for each question/answer I find humiliating!
I dont know when I will be told to do the spanking either! Sir DungeonMaster gets to decide when!

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Ahh I see, so more like questions answered and spanks to get rid of some edges. Hopefully you get to your goal of removing 100! To help, here are some more questions :)

1. Are the counter spanks to your ass? If not, where?
2. What implement do you have to use for them? Do you get to decided?
3. Favorite spanking implement and why?
4. Favorite toy and why?
5. What has been your favorite dare to complete so far?
6. I saw your ideas of a horny kitten blog, have you gotten to experience any of those, which ones and how did it go?
7. What is your most embarrassing moment?
8. Preferred method to masturbate?
9. Strangest thing that you have had inside your vagina?
10. What is the best compliment you have received?

She already got the 100 for opening the thread. The spanks are to pay for the additional edges removed ;)

Did answering this last set of questions make you horny?
Can you still remember how you did your last orgasm?
If you were to decide how you are played with right now, what would happen (ignore circumstances like roommates and time)?

Ohh lol... maybe I was being too nice with so many questions then. But here are some more cause I saw you have over 5000 edges remaining :)

1. What questions have made you the horniest when answering?
2. Which questions have you found the most embarrassing?
3. What is your favorite lingerie?

1. Yes to my ass!
2. I wasn't told what impliment so I suppose it depends on if I'm told to do them when I dont have the place to myself! If others are home it will have to be the hairbrush.
3. My favorite does depend some on what I want from the spanking. For nice, warm feeling softer spankings the hairbrush is my favorite. For a nice sting, the ruler. And for overall most harsh spanking the wooden spoon!
4. I think my favorite toy would have to be my Gravity thrusting toy. I just love being virtually fucked by someone!
5. I think my favorite dare from the top of my head would be the cold/room tempature water spanking experiment Sir DungeonMaster made for me! I do love a good experiment!
6. I did the bodywritting which I did enjoy, but it was less embarassing than expected as I was writting myself so I was more fighting with the different pens/eyeliners to make them write on my skin!
I tried a small horny walk in my backyard during the summer with the Lush but it was too much too fast for me so that one has remained more a fantasy!
Spanktember I did! It had less traction than I had hoped but I did enjoy it!
And I currently have a bedtime spanking routine! It helps me earn edges each week, and I really enjoy it!
7. I'll admit I cant think of my most embarassing moment right now? Nothing is coming to mind which is actually great for my anxiety 😂 Normally stuff like that would remain in my head for days. I guess in terms of sexual embarassment/humuliation it would be having to beg/admit that I want someone to keep control of my orgasms after my denial ends.
8. Currrently my prefered method is with my small vibrator!
9. I don't tend to use many things beyond sex toys, so the only non traditional thing would be the end of a makeup brush.
10. The best sexual related compliment is always good girl! I also get lots of nice compliments on my hair in real life which always makes me happy!

1. Yes, they did make me horny...
2. I can't. I honestly dont think I remember what it feels like anymore!
3. I would of course be collared. Then I would be frog tied, panties shoved in my mouth, and fucked by the Gravity. Hands cuffed so I just had to take cock as I was given it, no way to adjust.

1. The question about how I want to be played with has made me the horniest.
2. The last 5 questions have been the most embarrassing. Startung with if the questions were making me horny to this question right here 😳. That "is this making you horny" one made me flush and from there it has only continued to persist!
3. The white nightgown with slits is probably my favorite! Followed by the blue crotchless teddy.

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Should give this thread a little bump in the hope others use the opportunity to make Kitten blush and help her reduce the edges ;)

So, related to recent circumstances...
1. What was the longest time you spend cockwarming?
2. What are your plans for tonight? :p

3. What is your favorite degrading nickname to be called and why?
4. What is your favorite name to call yourself?

5. Do you think the term "short term denial" in your likes is still applicable? :p

1. I've cockwarmed overnight before and I tend to sleep for 8 hours so at least 8 hours if not longer is my record.
2. Hnnnnn I plan to be apread open by my labia spreader and filled with cock to keep warm all night!

3. ....fucktoy. I like being told I'm a toy ment to be fucked and filled, it just makes me feel so owned and horny.
4. Variations of kitten, fucktoy, but specifically in a soft way. Good kitten, obedient kitten. Pretty fucktoy, precious toy.

5. ..... nooo its been such a long time now. So so long!

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Some more for you :)
 

More question to add to your spanking and getting your edges removed!

1. As promised first one in: What's your favorite scenario to daydream about while horny? :)
2. How long have you been in denial now? Do you even see an end to it a this point?
3. What is the most humiliating thing that you have been asked to do and done?
4. Are you looking forward to all your spanks? :D
5. Is your denial over when you are done with your edges?
6. Is this the only way you can reduce your edges? How else can we help?
7. Are you looking forward to your cockwarming thread??

1. My favorite tends to change over time. Currently its being frog tied and fucked. A few months ago it was my lush being inserted, told to be a good girl and try and rest, while someone teased me!
2.I had to look back some to figure this out.... looks like I had gotten permission from Gram866 back in November 2022! Since then I don't think I've had permission for any extra orgasms beyond what my thread rules allow me to ask for!! So its been over a year!! The closest Ive gotten is some very very close edges that almost have gone over! I don't see a end anytime soon...
3. I think it would be edging in an outdoor shower. Mainly it was humilating due to the very low risk and how turned on I got!
4. I am! I really do enjoy spankings a lot!
5. I ummm, no.... I begged Sir DungeonMaster to keep control of my orgasms after...
6. Anyone can give me tasks to do to reduce my edges! Either in my Edges to End Denial thread or in PMs!
7. I am! I really enjoy cockwarming! I plan to have the thread up sometime between today and Saterday. I just need to thinknof the structure to make it reasonable to finish! Im gonna try not to set myself up for a thread that I can't finish in a timely manner this time!!

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*cracks knuckles* Ok Kitten, I'm here to ask the hard hitting questions!

I see hypnosis in your likes. I've always found hypnosis interesting but I haven't explored it too much. Can you tell me about your dream scenario involving that kink?

I love ball gags, I think they're really cute. What has been your favorite experience with yours?

What is your dream humiliation scenario? I would really love to hear your fantasies on this topic.

I'll add more as I think of them!

1. I think my dream senario would be to have someone gently draw me into trance where Im empty and mindless. Triggers used to make me feel needy and empty until Im begging with sounds that can almost be considered words to be fucked.
Another fantasy is being hypnotized to feel like I'm bejng spanked when someone snaps their fingers...
I do have lots of senarios that I can think of typically but those are the two to come to mind today.
2. I think my favorite experience has been using it for a few minutes while fucking myself. I will admit I don't love the ball gag, it tends to hurt my jaw so I dont use it often or for long! (Thinking about being called cute with it in is what had my cheeks heating up...)
3. My favorite humiliation fantasy is to be naked, tied with my legs open and the labia spreader in. People then throughly evaluate my pussy and clit. Testing them for how responsive they are, how much can fit inside, how it twitches. How well I can take cock. The whole time they all talk about me and my cunt like I'm not even there for the most part. Occasionally praising me when I do very well for them, or to tell me I will get plently of practice and training for what I fail to do well...

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I might have a few questions.

1. Are all the hypnosis things you listen to custome made for you ? Or ar there rhings of the shelve you Listen too and if jes what are they.

2. Are there any permanent effects on you from the hypnosis.

3. What are your thoughts and Feelings towards "cursed humiliating Truth" by emg.

4. Whsts the most humiliating, degrading, exposing thing/dare you have done.


Thanks in asvance for answering

Is there some fantasy which always activates your subby mode?
If so, please explain. ;)

I promised to give you a nice handful of questions myself so lets start it tame

1. Whats your favorite part of your body
2. What part of your body do you not like
3. How do you keep your body haird
4. What about your pubic hair
5. What is your favorite spankin implement
6. Whats your favorite to use on you: Ass, Thighs, Breasts, Nipples, Pussy, Clit
7. ~ Who's a good girl? ~
8. What was your favorite hidden public dare you did
9. What was to most risky hidden public one
10. What is you guilt pleasure hidden public fantasy

I think it's a nice list of questions to start with ^^

1.I tend to listen to files by Nimja! Typically spanking ones and his fucktoy series! And a mix of others that are more soft hypnosis ones!
2.I used to have fucktoy triggers but I havent listened to it or had them used in a while so they arent active anymore!
3. Never listened to it so I dont have one.
4. I don't like being degraded so I haven't done any if those types of dares. As to humilating the one I liked was masturbating in an outdoor shower. I tried a walk with my lush in once but I didnt like how exposing that felt it made me feel far too at risk.

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I tend to be made subby from the attention of doms that I already have a decent mutual relationship with. In terms of fantasy, what I can think of right now is fantasies of gental doms taking care of me, making me all cozy before they start to softly fuck me until I'm all subby and they can go hard and fast.
But im sure that there are other fantasies that would get me subby that Im not thinking of.

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1. Non sexual: my hair! Its long (almost to my ass), slightly curly and red.
Sexual: I think I have a nice ass and cute tits 😳
2. I dont really have a part I dont like! Maybe the occasional acne I still get?
3. I tend to shave only my legs, armpits, and bikini line.
4. I do keep my pubic hair trimmed but I personally dont like the idea of a shaved pussy for myself. It would just make me feel too like a child personally.
5. My overall favorite would be the hairbrush. Its quiet when needed, but still firm. And its the one Ive been using the longest.
6.
Ass: Hmmm this is a hard one to decide. Maybe the belt for harsh spabkings that leave me gasping, the paddle for firm but less gasp causing.
Thighs: I don't have one. I tend not to spank my thighs
Breasts: I think the wooden spoon. It can nicely cup my breasts.
Nipples: Ruler. It gives such a nice sting!
Pussy: Wooden spoon even though it really smarts!
Clit: Ruler as its more precise and can really get my clit
7. 😳 Me! Im a good girl!
8. My favorite has been masturbating in an outdoor shower.
9. Most risky would be a small walk outside with my lush in.

Im still thinking of an answer to the last question...

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I had to take some time to think about this! I had one public fantasy (very much fantsay, fantasy) that was coming to mind but the question was about hidden public fantasy.

Going out with no panties and bra and with the labia spreader in is what eventually came to mind for hidden public fantasys! It would just be so very exposing feeling while still being something that no one else would really realize unless my nipples were hard or my own arousal started to drip down my thighs

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That does sound really hot!

as you mentioned it lets start with

1. What your favorite public fantasy
2. What are your three sizes
3. How many people did have you been intimate with
4. How many were female?
5. Ever had something with multiple people?
6. ~ Who's an obedient and pretty kitten ~
7. Which toys have you used while in public?
8. What would you do to me in a session as the dominant part. Like if you were totally in a domme mood. At least 6 lines of text for this answer, more is always appreciated C:

have fun answering c:
If number 2 is too much info, just skip it ^^

1. My favorire public fantasy is being stripped down, restained in stocks and spanked. Being teased about how wet I get from being spanked in front of so many people.
2. I dont know what this question means? So if you explain what sizes you are asking for I might still answer.
3. I ummm. Other than my dildos and gravity Im a virgin. *blushes*
4. None so far, but I am bi so there is an equal chance.
5. I have not but I think I would be interested! Both in chat online and in person.
6. Mhmmm me! Im an obediant pretty kitty
7. Ive used my lush in my backyard but that was too much for me. Mentally I didnt handle it well so I probably wouldnt do that again for a while.

I will have to think for the last question! The questions have me in a subby mood so Im not really able to think of much right this moment.

I acceidentally feel asleep before pressing send but I woke up just in time!

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Never heard of a womans three sizes? w(°ｏ°)w
Bust/waist/hip measurements |▽//)



Yeah, though smth like this might happen (*≧ω≦*)

1. What's your favorite clothing control dare that you've done?
2. What's your favorite clothing control fantasy?
3. What's your favorite color?
4. What's your preferred underwear: Boyshorts, bikinis, thongs, or g-strings?
5. What's your favorite mixed drink?
6. How frequently do you masturbate?
7. How frequently do you tied yourself up?
8. Do you like to have sex while tied up or prefer to just be teased?
9. If you were a cat, what kind would you be?
10. Who's a pretty kitty?

1. In inches
Bust:34
Waist: 28
Hips: 35 1/2
2.I'd dress you up so pretty. A cute blouse, short skirt, pink panties, a collar with a leash and some bunny ears! I'd bend you over a desk and tie you open. Pulling down the panties just enough to expose your ass. You'd be gaged with the carrot while I spank your ass until it stays a brighter pink than the panties. Taking the wet carrot and slowly fucking your ass open. When you almost cum I would take the carrot away and slide a plug into place. Pulling the panties up to keep it in better. Then your hands would be tied behind your back, released from the desk to instead be bound up all helpless. Forced to hop around like the cute bunny you are. Made to hump something until you finally cum.
😈

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Wow. I'd like to meet your dominant side in a dark alley some day. :o

I bet that scenario is going to be the subject of many edging fantasies by Kaiyo!

1. I think that would be when I was told what to wear for a spanking bent over a desk.
2. One if my favorites is someone chosing what I wear for the day- not even a sexy outfit really just something they like that I would look pretty in! But for sexy clothing control having my panties chosen for non working days, or for sleeping is a favorite of mine.
3. Pastels
4. Bikinis as they are the most comfortable.
5. Amoretto sour. Which is the only nutty flavored thing I like, oddly enough.
6. At least once a week typically when Im not super busy.
7. Not very frequently. Maybe once a month so far? Im still a little slow at it and the rope I have is too short for some fun ties. But Im getting more soon!
8. Both? Ive been teased and fucked by my lush/gravity toy while tied up before. Recently I would lean towards being fucked as my preference.
9. Hmmmm a very tiny fluffy and cuddly one for sure. Maybe a tuxido or tabby. Id say an organge cat but that seems too simple with my hair.
10. ME ME ME! Im a pretty kitty!

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1. Well, that then begs several questions: (a) what was the outfit for your spanking? (b) How many spanks did you get? (c) What was used to spank you?

Some more questions for you:

2. You mentioned that your currently are quite enamored with frog ties. What do you like about this particular tie?
3. Have you ever been tied in a frog tie? By yourself or someone else?
4. What is your favorite style of music? Favorite artist, composer, or group?
5. How did you lose your virginity?
6. Where do you Iike to go on vacation?
7. Have you ever irl sexually dominated a man? Another woman?
8. Have you ever irl been sexually dominated by a man? Another woman?
9. What is your favorite flavor of ice cream?
10. Does the pretty Kitty want some pets?

*blushing intensifies*

Ahm...
I...
....
....
*incomprehensible stuttering*



Yes please...


*starting to look for ways to get your dominant side out*

1. Do you have a way to get your dominant side out? How you get submissive has been testrd so far.
2. what's your favorite dare you have given out
3. have you ever used your gravity to face Fuck yourself?
4. And another fantasy scenario: At a house party, you are the Main attraction. What happens?

1.I honestly dont remember the number or impliment, but I do know water and clamps were involved at some point. I had to roll a dice to decide what I did until I got each number once. I may have a blog post about it actually! (I'm lazy and not going to check) I wore my collar, a cute blue thong, and a short one shouldered blue silky/satiny dress.
2. I like how helpless and restricted they make me while still allowing me to shift around a little bit and to flip myself over after a bit of a struggle.
3. Yes, by myself!
4. I like almost everything except most modern country and screamo. I favor musicals and the like the most though.
5. I haven't unless you count dildos.
6. The beach!
7. Only online.
8. Only online.
9. Hmmm I dont know that I have a favorite... I do like French Vanilla so for more normal flavors I tend to favor that to buy a container of. It tends to always work with any deserts one makes.
10. Yes please!

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1. I dont know of anything that triggers my dominant side unfortunately.
2. Hmmm I dont really remember many dares I've given. Probably would be something I dared Aloe to do. Her threads are always fun teasing things.
3. I'm not very good at face fucking. Too strong a gag reflex and my jaw doesnt like to be open wide for too long. I dont think Id be comfortable with using the gravity to fuck my mouth!
4. Im dressed all pretty by my owner for the party the only thing to make me clearly not just another guest the collar and leash around my throat. Im lead around to greet all the guests. Being called a pretty kitten or toy, a few groping me to compliment how my outfit makes my tits and ass look. Eventually Im lead to the center of the room, blindfolded and restrained so that my dripping cunt is exposed to all the guests. They all take turns fucking me and I have to guess who they are. Every wrong guess has me spanked, and each correct one they give my clit a few rubs. Once board of their game they set me up to be fucked by a machine for entertainment, gaging me with pantied when they get tired of my moans. When they want to play with ne again they have fun edging me to tears befofe they let me cum at the vefy end of the party.

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1 Guess we have some time to figure out what triggers that side c:
3 Well, at least your pussy is good at being full c:
4 That sounds like a very hot and nice party c:


Time for a new round!



1. Have you ever used diapers?
2. Whats your favorite type of panties?
3. What color underwear do you like the most?
4. What do you watch when edging?
5. What toys do you want to get in the future?

6. What toys would you like to most to use on someone else?
7. What kinks are you most interested as a domme?

8. I think we need another Fantasy question ^~^
The last one was a sub fantasy so time for a new domme one. Let's stay in the party setting

You're having a small get together with your friends at home and a Bunny Maid is seving you. (I think you might guess who the bunny maid is :p )
They're wearing their Bunny suit with ears, a maid headpiece, a small apron and red highheels matching with their lipstick.
While taking care of you they spill something over you. How will you punish the bunny. Will you do it alone in another room, or in front of the friends?

Hope you like the scenario ^^

9. Well you are more subby than switch so just flip the scenario and tell me what you would like to be done to you aswell


Such a goooooood kitty answering all these questions!

1. Nope, not since I was a baby who needed them.
2. For comfort bikini style, for sexy thongs.
3. For everyday wear typically neutral colors, boring I know! For sexy I tend to favor pastels or black.
4. I don't really watch porn so I tend to just fantasize or read stories or threads here.
5. Eek. I guess this means I have to confess to buying some vibrators, rope, nipple clamps(some individual weighted ones and some clover clamps to try that will probably be too intense for me), along with the spanking impliments I just bought... I did end up buying a cat-o-nine flogger, a thin riding crop, and the dragon tail crop/paddle.
In terms of toys I want one day but wouldnt be buying for a long time: a spanking machine and a fucking machine.
6.I always enjoy making Delany use her spanking machine. I suppose more common toys would be nipple clamps, maybe plugs?
7. Teasing and light orgasm control (saying yes or no to them cumming), spanking.
8. I would make the clumsy bunny lick up the mess they made on front of everyone. Then I would take off one of the bunny's heels to spank them with while they begged for mercy. Once I was happy they had properly appologized I would stop the spanking but they would not get the heel back for the rest of the night! This would happen whereever the spil occured unless the bunny expressed that they werent comfortable being punished in front of the possible crowd!
9. I'd be put over the knee in front of everyone. Skirt flipped up and panties removed if I had been allowed any. Then I would be spanked until I was in tears, a cute little sobbing mess. When satisfied they woukd ask the group if I had been spanked enough and if even a handful (more than one) said no the spanking would continue again until they were all happy with how well spanked I had been. The rest of the party they would all flip my skirt up or make me bend over to show my red ass off to them. Giving me a few spanks if they wanted it to be glowing again.

Hnnn my poor clit is going to hurt so much! Im a good kind of horny nervous for it. 205 is a lot of spanks to my poor very exposed clit which hasnt been properly spanked in a good while which means that my clit isnt as used to being spanked!
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