24/F/Switch Ask Away
 

Hello everyone,

I been on here for awhile now, but I want to try and be more active so I decided to make my first thread, an AMA. I won’t answer everything like personal information and etc, but I will answer honestly.


To make this a little more fun, for each post a person makes, they can also ask me to:

• Clamp nipples for 5 mins, +1 min for every additional question or
• Spank either ass or tits 5 times each, +1 spank for every additional question. You can choose the implement.

Do you prefer to be Dominant or submissive?

Hello again,

It really depends on who I am playing with, it sometimes just feels more natural to submit to some play partners and top others. Lately, I have been feeling a little more submissive, so I haven’t been topping as much. But, I am still enjoy creating and given out dares ;)

I’ll go with clamp

What’s the kinkiest thing you have done?

What’s your most embarrassing moment?

What’s your biggest sexual fantasy?

What’s your preferred way to masturbate?

Giving a blowjob in public. No one caught us, but definitely the most risky thing I have done. When we got home, it was followed by getting tied up and getting many forced orgasms. Probably one of my kinkiest nights.

One time with friends at a party, we all had been drinking and decided to a game where I ended up sharing about all my kinks with the group. It wasn’t too bad because everyone shared something, but I was so embarrassed the next day when I was sober.

The one that I would do if given the chance with an experienced top, but haven’t done yet is probably suspension rope bondage. (I don’t know if this is what you meant or like a fantasy, but one that I wouldn’t do).

With my large dildo in my cunt and bullet vibrator on my clit ;)

What about your favorite entirely unrealistic fantasy? Like, if you knew that everything would reset to how it was before after you finish, what would you want to do?

My unrealistic fantasy if everything could reset like it never happened and no one would remember would be to be a sex slave for the weekend to a group of people where they would bind, spank, tease, and use me all weekend long.

Ok, let's give you a few questions.

1. Describe your appearance in detail
2. What sounds scarier to you and why? (Forget about laws and practicalities in your answers, this is just fantasy): Being tied up naked with your hands behind your back and locked to a lightpost in public with the only way out being to beg passerby to release you or with the only way out being to wait for a four hour timer?
3. Your romantic partner has lost a bet with you and has to do anything you want within their limits for one day. What does their day look like?
4. Have you ever taken a nude picture of yourself?

I'll choose clamps. Your toy list says you've got a few different types, so if I'm allowed to say how you do the clamp time, you should use the adjustable clamps at your choice of tightness and hold the chain in your mouth. Have fun answering!

1. Med length curly brown hair, almost 5’6 (around 170 cm i think), curvy, 36D tits, and a nice ass (Leg day is so much easier)
2. Having to beg passerby for release, what if they never let me go? Like four hours is long, but I know I will be released, it sounds scarier when I don’t know if the next person to pass by will release me or not.
3. They would be cooking me food and eating me out for every meal (of course I would feed them real food too) while they aren’t allowed to cum and are constantly being teased. And I would get to orgasm multiple times just to remind them. IDK it really depends on the partner, but they definitely will be teased all day and not allowed to cum 😈
4. Yes multiple

And I don’t mind you all choosing how :)

About time we break the meta: I'll go with spanking! Use your hand for now, please and thank you ;)

• Why did you come to GD?
• If you had to pick one, what's your favourite kink?
• Do you prefer one-off dares, or longer play sessions?
• What's your favourite color?
• What's one thing a lot of people do which annoys you?
• Do you prefer denying someone orgasms, or being denied yourself?

1. I joined because it would be nice to receive and give tasks/dares. I use to lurk and thought it was about time to join and see where it would take me.
2. Definitely bondage
3. Umm that’s hard. It depends, on who it is and how busy I am. If it is someone I really connect too and we get along well then I would prefer longer play sessions. But there are a few people like that and I especially for the first time, I prefer one-off dares. Plus I feel like they are a lot easier than longer play sessions lol.
4. I always just say blue
5. I sure there is a lot of things, but for some reason when I am looking for it I can’t remember. I wouldn’t say a lot of people do this, but I hate when people don’t try and understand someone else’s pov
6. This is hard, but only because I have been feeling much more submissive lately. I would usually say someone else because it is so fun to tease someone especially if you get to cum multiple times and they can’t. Plus I love orgasms. But, lately I have been wanting to be the one being teased.

We are changing it up I see. I am gonna default them to my ass since you didn’t specify. And since it’s only using my hand it shall be very easy and done soon ;)

1) If you could go into the world's greatest and most well stocked adult toy/kink/lingerie store and take any 5 items of your choice, what would they be and why?

2) Name one of your guilty pleasures.

3) What is the strangest thing you've had inside of you?

4) If you had to give up either cheese, or all forms of oral sex for life, which would you choose?

1. Ooh this would be so much fun. I feel like I already own a good set, but it is always fun to have more! I would definitely get a complete bondage kit cause it would come with all the nice stuff that I want. One of those long distance remote control insertable vibes because I don’t have one and I like how you can make custom patters on some. Maybe a fucking machine- idk I don’t have one maybe it would come in handy hehe. The idea of an anal hook always fascinated me even tho I’m not the biggest fan of anal, so maybe to use on someone else. And you can never have too much lingerie, so I would choose a piece that really catches my eye.
2. Guilty pleasure… masturbation but like i don’t think it’s something I need to feel guilty about unless I wasn’t allowed to do it.
3. Umm… Usually I use my toys, but I know I have been told to put a few things like the handle of etc inside me. But I feel like the strangest were either my panties or a bunch of markers… I can decide they both feel a little weird.
4. Oof hard choice, but I think I would give up oral sex. I like cheese and I am not a big fan of swallowing cum and I can get off on multiple other different ways.

Right, I forgot to specify location. Ass is fine though, so I don't mind ;)
Next up though, still ass, but use the flogger!

• What's the longest you've (intentionally) gone without an orgasm?
• What's the longest you've kept someone else denied?
• Have you tried selfbondage?
• What's your favourite bondage tie?
• Cats or dogs?
• Best flirt or compliment you've ever received?

1. Probably around 3 weeks
2. One month
3. Yes
4. I am not sure. I am still exploring, but for now I will go with the burlington bowline
5. Can I choose both
6. You are so smart and passionate and you astonishes me everyday.

They are done ;)

Whats the scaries place youve been tied up?
And you tied somone up?

Do you like dominate woman or men more?

I go for spanks for you

1. I never been tied up in public so probably the living room off my old apartment. I lived on the first floor and the blinds were left open. It was hard to see because there was a huge tree in from of the windows, but still made me feel exposed and scared.
2. I don’t think I have ever tied up anyone in a scary place, just the bedroom
3. It depends, irl men, but I love creating tasks for women, mainly because I have a better understanding how that tasks feels myself and then it’s nice to adjust it to make it more difficult

I am gonna default on ass using hands ;)

Thanks for the answers so far :)

No more spanks for now though, back to clamps ;)

• What are your hobbies?
• Do you enjoy or dislike humiliation? (as sub or dom)
• Would you rather do 50 spanks or 10 edges?
• What excites you about orgasm denial/control?

Oof my nipples. Thank you. I will do these sometime later today.
1. I have a lot and also none at the same time, but I don’t want to get too personal.
2. I like it a bit as a sub, there are things I like and things I don’t. I surprisingly like it more as a top
3. It would depend on my mood, but right now 50 spanks
4. The whole control aspect and making someone so horny but not allowing release. But I personally only really enjoy it for short term use.

You're welcome! :D

• When's the last time you came?
• Last dare you gave someone?
• Last dare you received?
• Least favourite dare that you still completed?

1. About 2 hours ago :D
2. It was a PM dare, I can’t remember exactly what
3. The last task that I received was on the punished by guys by breast size thread, 36 rubber band snaps to each nipple in the shape of an X
4. I don’t remember exactly what it was, but it was a chance one and I got unlucky with a lot of anal :(

You seem so interesting!

I'd like you to do 5 swats to your butt

My question is. Do you have any fantasy related to spanking? If so I'd love to hear about it in good detail.

Thank you, that is very sweet of you to say :) Also thank you for the swats, I used my hand since you didn’t specify.

And I do have some fantasies related to being spanked because I like some impact play. The most recent fantasy I had kind of came from something I read awhile back and now I can’t get it out of my head. I want to be blindfolded and bound and then have my top/dom use an implement to spank my body (tits, ass, cunt, thighs) and if I guessed what it is correctly then I would get a reward and if I guessed wrong, a punishment. They continue using that until I could guess it correctly. Then they move on to the next implement on their list. I guess it’s kind of like a game, a pretty challenging one. Because the longer this goes on, the harder it would be for me to focus on what they are using. So it seems fun, and I would also get a pretty nice spanking from it.

Your link to your AMA in your signature is not working. A colon : after https is missing. For that mistake, take 5 spanks and then fix it :D

And my questions are
Your signature says that you are denied until nov 29th. From when?
Will this be your longest denial than ever before?
Why are you denied, and by whom?

Sorry, I fixed it. Should work now!! Also sorry, just saw this one now.
My signature did use to say denied until nov 29th and that was technically incorrect, I lost a bet and sexboy_69 owned my orgasms for that time. The longest I have ever been denied was about 3 weeks I believe, but I have gone longer without an orgasm when I wasn't active in the lifestyle and when life was busy and messy. I think that answers all of your questions. And I did the 5 spanks with a wooden spoon. :)

Clamps :)

- What's your favorite forfeit game?
- And what forfeits do you like to receive?
- Which one of your toys is the one that causes you more pain?
- Have you ever tried bladder control? (as either dom or sub) - On your list of likes says "willing to try", but I don't know how much up-to-date it is.

Thanks!

I'll choose clamps, too :)
Like the offer...

So here you go:
1. What is something you really like to do as a top, but haven't done as a sub so far?
2. Would you consider doing it as a sub?
3. If you had to choose only one side forever. Top or sub. Which one would it be and why?
4. Is there some act/kink you discovered only through getdare, but like now?
5. How do the clamps feel (I like that this question adds another minute :D )
6. Given that your orgasm are not yours at the moment, what is your level of horniness?
7: When did you last touch yourself and what did you look at or think about?

I'll use the regular magnetic ones for 9 mins

1. Favorite forfeit game would have to be battleship cause it is short and gives a lot of options for each ship sunk and etc. Chess and checkers are nice too since you can have something for each piece lost, but I am not good at chess and they both are much longer games.
2. Anything in my likes as long as it doesn't get too crazy. If it is a small forfeit for each piece lost, I like something simple like spanks. But for the forfeit of losing the game, anything like body writing for x amount of time or a simple dare/task that doesn't last too long is fine by me.
3. If we are talking about what causes the most pain in the quickest amount of time it is probably my pair of strong magnetic clamps especially if they snap off :( Tho many of my toys can become very painful depending on how they are used...
4. I have once, it wan't the best experience that time because of the circumstance, tho I am willing to try it again under the right situation.

Thanks for the questions GWD

Since you didn't specify I choose my adjustable clamps for the next 12 mins since a little nicer than the other ones and knowing what my nipples have in store later tonight.
1.There isn't a lot that I really enjoy as a top and haven't explores as a sub. So I don't know how best to answer this question, but one thing that I recently have started liking is giving out exercise tasks (to those who enjoy it specifically) I like knowing that it turns them on and on top of that it kinda helps with their exercise goals. But technically, I have done such tasks as sub before but not a part of my usual play. So I guess I don't really have an answer to this question.
2. I have done it and would do it if asked and it was not too extensive, but I don't find it arousing, nor is it really a kink of mine; its is just working out for me.
3. I feel like my answer might have been different a year ago, but right now, if I was forced to choose, I would choose being submissive (maybe because I am feeling submissive rn). But also because I think there is a big distinctions between top/ domme and bottom/submissive. I think you also picked up on the fact that I refer to myself as a sub and top but not a domme, and that plays a big part in it for me. Because as much as I like toping, I have been learning that I might like/need submitting more.
4. I am trying to think about this one and I honestly could not come up with anything that I discovered through GD and now like... sorry
5. They feel nice, and its almost time to take them off :)
6. At this exact moment, it is pretty high (maybe a 7/8). But in general, I feel like I am at a constant 6 or higher (this is when I am not super focused on something else) on a scale of 1-10 with 1 being not horny at all and 10 being I need to cum right now. Even when I am given permission to cum, I feel like I get back to being horny very quickly.
7. If you mean like my clit/pussy it was earlier this morning and I was mostly imaging being used and thinking about how desperate I was to cum, but couldn't.
Thank you for the questions!

What is your favorite part of the body to spank or be spanked?

you can add 5 spanks on your ass :)

Thank you, I will do them with a wooden spoon

My favorite body part to spank is the ass, but as for the to be spanked, I can't decide, it depends on strength and implement used and maybe a bit on my mood, its too hard to decide a favorite so I am just gonna choose all three of my favorites: I like the tits and ass usually. I also like my cunt being spanked (if it isn't too strong).

I think I simply must choose ass spanks!!

What occured to have Merlin control your orgasms until the 30th?

I might have had that coming. I accidentally opened this thinking it was your ama cause I wanted to see what implement you liked again and totally forgot I made one of these too 😅

Umm... nothing really, we were talking about my previous situation and how I was a bit upset that my orgasms were not being controlled any longer and he offered :)

I'll choose ass spanks as well :)

Did you enjoy having your orgasms controlled again?
What do you prefer and why? Orgasm control or straight out denial?

Which of your toys do you prefer for spanking your ass?
How do you like to use the labia spreader?

1. Yes, I do enjoy it a lot
2. For myself, I prefer orgasm control over straight out denial. I think straight out denial could be fun too, especially in certain areas, but sometimes I feel like it makes me lazy/ not interested especially when not getting a lot of play. I never actually tried straight up denial for too long though. I think I prefer orgasm control more because like the aspect of giving up control and also the spontaneity that there is. It is not decided by me, so it can be today or in a week or more (though hopefully not too long lol). I like that its not up to me. Plus I do enjoy orgasms and forced orgasms too which is fun with orgasm control too :D
For others, it depends on their goals and what they want :)
3. For the ass, it depends but I if I want a nice strong spanking, I prefer my wooden spoon.
4. I actually have not used the labia spreader that much. I recently got it and have used it maybe 2-3 times so far so I don't know yet, but it does leave me feeling very exposed.

Let's have spannks again :)

1. Do you like that exposed feeling?
2. How did you use it so far?
3. Would you consider using it to open up your pussy for spanking?
4. What do you think about that scenario?
Your legs frogtied, hands cuffed to the bed above your head, nipples clamped, ball gag in your mouth, blindfolded. The labia spreader in and the lush in your exposed pussy. Being teased again and again...

Uh, where did your hands go? :p

Yes, I am going to need to tally up how many I need to from today, so I can get to them before bed.

1. I did really enjoy the exposed feeling...
2. The first time, I was asked to try it out and had to edge while being spread open and imagine how it would be to be so exposed that they could see the twitching of my pussy. I tried a few more times myself to try and figure out how it would feel with different toys and to do some edges, I don't think I have used it other than that.
3. Yes, I have thought about it and would probably try it out.
4. I think this scenarios is maybe a bit unfair cause I have a feeling you know how much this turns me on. It mixes many of my favorite kinks and I think it is super hot. Just reading it makes my pussy twitch.
5. my hands are on my keyboard, I have some self-control lol :p

I'll go with ass spanks again!

1. What's your favorite toy to use with your clit?
2. What's your favorite toy to use with your pussy?
3. What's your favorite toy to use with your tits?
4. What's your favorite spanking impliment?
5. What's your favorite senario to daydream about while horny?

Lets give your tits a couple of spanks c:

- Whats the most amount of Orgasms you've had in a day/a session
- Whats you're favorite dare you have given out? Whats the most creative one?
- How do you like crotchropes (especially with a strategically situated knot)?

thanks c:

Thank you for questions and spanks, sorry it took me so long to get to them.

1. My bullet vibe
2. I like being fucked with my vibrating dildo, but I also love my Lush since it is nice having someone else can control
3. I am partial to my adjustable nipple clamps with a chain, so much fun things to do with them :)
4. It really depends, but for like a very thorough spanking, my usual would probably be the wooden spoon if I am doing them myself (Also what I used for these spanks) :D
5. Umm... usually involves bondage and being teased over and over again and getting to cum (also will add this one to my question bank to ask you, got to return the favor :p)

1. I don't know, it was a long while back and I couldn't keep count of them anymore and it was a little too much, definitely more than 7/8 in that session.
2. I feel like I am not that creative, it takes me time to think through like and dislikes and try to customize it to the person, but I really need to know them well for it to work. But my favorite dare to give out its an edging and spanking dare (edges then spanks and then edges again) and increasing edges and spanks that need to be done in each little cycle. And I like to add little fun things to it depending on their likes so that they are desperate by the end of it :D
3. I enjoy them and they are very fun. Also sometimes using them to keep toys strategically in place lol