Would you rather (Kinks)?
 

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

As usual with these things try to pick one in each case and the "whys" are just as interesting as the what's.

I would remove whip from my limit list. It's the easiest choice.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place.

What a dastardly choice! I am a little intrigued by the concept that I could only orgasm if someone took my place. I already know I couldn't go without indefinitely, so it's not that infinite denial is appealing. But not ever being able to make my partner orgasm would be quite difficult, even if making them cum wasn't something they personally felt much need for. On the other hand, if I remained in a secure relationship with a readily-available significant other, there are certain possibilities for being swapped out and sent to go listen just to get relief that could have some appeal.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

My friends, because it seems more appropriate to share with peers. It could be a little awkward, but not as much as with family, plus a few already know -- at least in general terms.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I don't believe in forcing my sexuality on others, but if they were willing or it were a question of being forced either way, I'd rather be kinky in front of them than force someone uninterested to perform for me. And of course, if they were interested, I'd have more fun getting to act out my kinks than watching them have all the fun.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I'd remove the inhibition stopping a hard limit! Probably the one involving being called certain names. It's there for a reason, but name-calling is mainly a psychological issue, so an utter absence of guilt or distaste around it would really change its nature, making it fairly easy to give up.

I was more thinking of a cuckold type relationship rather than someone orgasming for you...although you have now intrigued me with that possibility lol (edited my post though to make it clearer).

Interesting that both of you would rather remove a limit then go without a favourite kink, although hardly surprising that people on here want to be even more daring! I think I'd probably do the same to get over my public inhibition, it always looks like such a rush but too scary for me to commit too. I'd still hopefully keep enough common sense to avoid getting arrested though.

Well, I mean, I'm envisioning a world in which an evil villain waves a pair of syringes maniacally and cackles, "Once injected with this drug on the left, every time your partner approaches release, your pheromones will become noxious and inhibit them from orgasm. Unless, of course, someone with healthy pheremones is closer to them than you are (darn those cuckcakes and their meddling ways)! OR... I could inject you with this on the right (mwahaha ...oh, dearie me, mustn't risk jabbing myself here! ..ahem, where was I) ...I could jab you with this one on the right, and every time *you* approach orgasm, it will block all your pleasure receptors. You'll never cum again. Now choose your fate... or DIE! MWAHAHAHAHA."

So, you know, from there it wasn't hard to envision a corollary to the first in which, a few agonizing months after that villainous act, your partner might ask: "Sorry, honey, but you're just so desperate for an orgasm. Are you sure you don't want me to call up that cutie we met? I know it won't be the same for you if you can only peek out of the closet, watching the two of us together after I leave you achingly on edge, but you could feel that bliss again. Do you think you're ready to try?"

I imagine that a lot of it depends on the limit.

I do have several hard limits I wouldn't break for moral or health reasons, even if I could do so without guilt. I would rather give up a favorite kink than lose a limb, no matter how amazing the dare or how cool the ability to use a prosthetic limb built just for mountain climbing might be.

Psychological inhibitions that don't cross legal lines are much easier to contemplate, though! There can be some great public dares that feel amazingly risky, but pose only minimal actual danger if you're cautious and smart in your planning to avoid exposing yourself to unconsenting third parties.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Doctor roleplay. I love being the slutty doctor, but I wouldn't like to unleash my darkest side.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

Never make anyone else orgasm, they can always orgasm without me, whereas the former is absolute.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Closest friends, it would be less awkward and they may even help me out.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I would rather perform, it would be humiliating and turn me on like crazy

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

Remove the inhibition to do body writing. Something just puts me off it completely, it feels more disgusting than other stuff (e.g anal - you are literary shoving stuff up the area where waste comes out). I don't know why but I just feel that way.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

I would rather never to be able to make some one else orgasm. I can bring them close and then let them finish.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

I have no choice but to say family. I recently moved so I have no friends here yet.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

Preform them myself. I would never foce my family to do something.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would remove a limit. Probably my hate of pain, it and heavy scat eating are my only limits that I have because I don't like them.

I kinda know where you're coming from. It used to be one of my stronger limits although I too couldn't really explain why. I've always hated having my face painted when I was younger and never would dream of allowing someone to draw/write on me, let alone doing it myself. It just felt like a gross invasion of my body somehow. Not sure when I switched to actually enjoying it. My best tip would be to draw a mark on your hand and deliberately leave it there for a hour or two, or mark yourself with something that easily wipes off for a few seconds, then build up from there if you want to experiment with moving it from your harder limits. It's not too bad, the only bit I really don't enjoy now is cleaning it all off. I think that's the most possible to move from hard limits from those listed above anyway, other than whipping perhaps.

Interesting to see how evil you are Miss Arille making your friends perform your kinks :eek: Good to see most are nice/logical enough to willingly share their partner around.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
I went 20 years without an orgasm and even then I dont see the big deal, I wouldnt mind giving ut up if it meant I could still make my lovers orgasm. A huge part of my pleasure is pleasing my partner
2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
My closest friends. I don't have any, but if I did, hell maybe I could get something out of it haha
3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
I'd rather perform them
4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
I'd rather remove a limit, that limit being public

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

It would suck, being a bottom and never being able to get a guy off. But at the very least they could still do the classic porn move - pulling out and finishing themselves, and if they couldn't get off while in me, well that could mean sex lasting a long time.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Definitely friends. I don't want to think/know about my family members' sex lives or interests, and I'd rather they not think/know much about mine. It's not so taboo with friends, and I wouldn't mind them knowing nearly as much.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

There's a few friends that I'd like to see perform some kinks, but I'd never take the chance of it being forced on them.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

The first option would be so much easier, but I kind of like the idea of losing an inhibition. I'd go with removing 'public' as a limit, which could face some serious consequences, but I've had plenty of fantasies about it to make the possibility of being willing to do that somewhat appealing.

1.Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

It’s an egoistic choice but I would rather never be able to make anyone else orgasm because having an orgasm feels too good so I wouldn’t give that up.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

I would rather have my closest friends knowing about them.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I would rather perform them myself because it’s funny.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would wearing vibrating panties as a kink, I would rather give that up than doing one of my limits.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

I would rather not be able to orgasm again. I think mostly because it would be more frustrating for me to be in a relationship and not able to please my partner. I mean make sure I have pizza once every week or so and I'm happy.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Oh god my friends. A couple know that I have some interest in kinkier things but not everyone does. Plus they are way more open and it would be way less embarrassing than having family find out.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I would say that I would have to perform my kinks. Partly because being watched would be kinda hot, but mostly because I don't know if my friends share my interests and I wouldn't want them forced into something.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would remove anal from my limit list. It's one of those things that a small part of me is thinking maybe I could try it sometime. But the rest of me is scared of having a partner who doesn't take the proper time and all that. So it's a hard limit because I'm scared of what all could go wrong.

Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I'd rather never orgasm again. As an asexual masturbation and orgasm creep me out massively, especially clear up afterwards so would be better if it never happened.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. Friends, just because less judgemental and I think the shock would kill my grandparents.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). Perform them, I know they wouldn't enjoy them and that's what it is supposed to be

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Remove my favourite kink because the limits are there to protect me.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I rather never orgasm again. I enjoy giving my sexual parter pleasure.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. I rather my closest friend. My kinks are pretty messed up and I would never want my family to know.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I rather preform them l think the humiliation would just be more of a turn on.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I would never do my kink again. My favorite is cbt.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
I would rather never orgasm again. I think it's much more rewarding to make someone else orgasm. Besides, this is my subby nature.
It still would suck not to ever orgasm again though.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Rather my closest friends because I think they would be a little more accepting. But both are horror scenarios for me, honestly.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
This is a super hard one. Both options are terrible as nobody involved would like it. In this case them perform probably.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
Rather have to do one hard limit. Maybe scat. As terrible as that is, I think it would be more terrible never to be able to indulge in my foot fetish again... which would include merely looking at them.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Oooh, tough one. I would remove permanent markings, so maybe get a tatoo stating chastity slave or similar.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
never orgasm myself, enjoy giving to others to much ;p

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Friends, they already think i am a perv so.. haha. and family is too awkward.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
Dont think they would enjoy doing it, so perform myself (and then seek other friends haha)

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
hmm difficult one; but i think i'd remove face or piss as a limit.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Foot Fetish

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

I honestly would rather never orgasm again. I love making my wife cum and I like being on the edge and pent up. So as long as I could still edge and be denied that’s what I choose.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

My closest friends because they might understand where my family wouldn’t. Plus if they found out maybe they would want to play with me

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I rather preform them

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would give up being a piss slut

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. As much as it would suck, sorry. My partner is fully capable of getting herself off if I'm not able, so this would be the alternative.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Probably breath play as long as the person who was in control knew what they were doing.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
Partner, sorry future boy/girl friends. You just have to suffer for me.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Closest friends (the true testament to friendship.) plus it might be hard, but you could always replace your friends. You can’t really replace a family member. Imagine family gatherings?

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
I would perform them. They’re my kinks after all. Also again true testament to friendship, this will either destroy our 5 year bond or make us closer.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
Maybe anal? I honestly dislike it so much, but I hear a lot of people talk it up.

Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? Yes The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children yes ) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above yes or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits yes (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

i think i like the idea of being used for someone else's pleasure, regardless of whether or not i can receive pleasure from it

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

i'd pick closest friends because... i can't replace my family lol

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

i wouldn't want anyone to be forced to do anything... (except myself lol)

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

i'd remove my face limit... add some real thrill and risk into my little games...

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
As a sub, it's more important for me to pleasure other guys than orgasming myself. This happens often today, but not a lifetime thing.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Would much rather let my friends knows all my kinks. Some know some, but I don't think there are any that would know everything I get into.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
While I might like to see some of them doing some things, I wouldn't want to force them to do something they didn't enjoy. So I would perform my kinks and humiliate myself for their amusement

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

Not be able to do a kink but craving it would be cruel. Would have to go with removing the inhibition of a hard limit. What limit? I'd go with exposure since it goes with the kink I'd hate to get rid of, that of getting naked lol. To not be worried about post pics and videos, starting a twitter page with pics, maybe an onlyfans. Not be worried about friends, family coworkers and others that my google me and find lots of NSFW stuff!

As usual with these things try to pick one in each case and the "whys" are just as interesting as the what's.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
I feel like i would go insane if i never came again.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Definitely friends, as i feel like they are more understanding and i am more open with them.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
Not embarassing if im not the one doing it

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
Probably remove face limit as it is more a precaution, i dont share with people close to me or any other personal details

As usual with these things try to pick one in each case and the "whys" are just as interesting as the what's.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

Never be able to make anyone else orgasm

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

If they were willing to indulge I wouldn't really care which, if not I guess Closest friends since I don't really have much family.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I think i'd like to see them perform my kinks.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?


Remove my inhibition, I think scat as that is one I have found very hard to breach.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

Never be able to make someone else orgasm never cumming again would be torture.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Closest Freinds ... my sister doesn't deserve this... my freinds are all mature, and I honestly would be less embarassed for them to know more about me than anyone else. They are kind people who understand. I still dont tell them though :o

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

Me

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

Remove one hard limit which would be pics with face.

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
Not being able to make anyone else orgasm: I would go crazy without an orgasm and I can then serve as best as I can to pleasure, but a good alpha male can make my lady cum properly then.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Friends: it might me hard in the beginning, but maybe something naughty might happen?

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
I would like to perform any of my kinks with my friends if they are up for if

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
I can do without my kinks! So I would drop a limit.. public maybe?

As a sub this sounds muuuch more appealing!


Probably friends, feels like the safer bet for sure!


I wouldnt want other people having to do stuff against their will so I'll take the bullet!


I'd hate losing out on bondage!
I'd probably break the limit on CBT and/or Pee drinking.
CBT is on the limits for now at least cause its too much and Pee drinking is just disgusting but preferable over never being tied up again

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
I have already given up my orgasms so that was an easy answer! I am on strict orgasm denial

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
I would always choose my friends to know. Mixing family with sexual life is just too weird.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
I would rather see my friends perform them so I won't really be involved haha I would just watch

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
I would be absolutely miserable if I was in a dynamic without orgasm denial! If I had to lift a limit it would probably be pee in my mouth

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

I would rather lose the ability to orgasm and know I am able to make my partner orgasm and fully pleasure them, my pleasure is unimportant.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

I am sure I would still be accepted if they are true friends

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I could not force that on someone else plus I am used to submitting, again I am sure that if they are true friends they would still be terr for me

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

Once the inhibition is gone I would likely question why it was a limit in the first place, besides adding to what I can do is better than taking away from it

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
Why? I'm a pleaser

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Why? Who knows, we could have some fun

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?