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KindMistress 10-18-2020 12:51 PM

20s F - Hello!
 
Hi everyone. I'm new here, so I figured I'd start one of these so that everyone can get to know me.

I'm a girl from Europe in my 20s, that's all the personal info you're gonna get. I'm very kinky and like to be dominant in bed (which is why I joined this forum).

Anyway, feel free to ask away! Looking forward to your questions. I'm planning to keep replying to questions here for as long as I'm active on this site.

Kisses

Bobcat 10-18-2020 01:13 PM

1. what is the wildest dare you ever did
2. have you ever been nude in group
3. would you ever do a dice roll to see what you wear to a party if nude was in there
4. do you like micro mini skirts
5, what side do like the most dom or slave
6, would you dress a guy up as women and take them to a bar
7. would you put a guy on cam dress a guy up as women
8. what is the worse thing you gave a guy to do
9. what is a secret you like to keep away from everyone
10.what would you do if an older guy was nude in front of in their 50s
11.what is your favorite way to get cum
12.when did you first taste cum

KindMistress 10-18-2020 01:26 PM

Thanks for the questions, Bobcat!

1. what is the wildest dare you ever did
Didn't do a lot of wild stuff myself. I guess skinny dipping at night with some friends while drunk.

2. have you ever been nude in group
Nope, only ever with one person at a time

3. would you ever do a dice roll to see what you wear to a party if nude was in there
Call me boring, but I would not

4. do you like micro mini skirts
No, they're not comfortable, but I do like wearing revealing clothing, like big cleavage.

5, what side do like the most dom or slave
Dom, I literally wrote it above.

6, would you dress a guy up as women and take them to a bar
Not something I'm into, but if he was into it, why not

7. would you put a guy on cam dress a guy up as women
What for?

8. what is the worse thing you gave a guy to do
In person? Tying a guy up, beating him up until he was bruised (he was very masochistic) and then letting him stay tied for a few hours while I did my own thing.

9. what is a secret you like to keep away from everyone
I once had sex with a guy for money. Joke's on him, he was hot, I'd've fucked him for free if he asked.

10.what would you do if an older guy was nude in front of in their 50s
I'd be like why the fuck is this guy undressing, isn't this like sexual harassment or something.

11.what is your favorite way to get cum
Getting eaten out, no contest.

12.when did you first taste cum
My first boyfriend, 17. It's an acquired taste.

tamer6198 10-18-2020 01:49 PM

Hello mistress and welcome.

1. Whats your biggest fantasy?
2. Would you like to to have a sub roommate that you could dominate?
3. When did you know that you are into BDSM?
4. What was your first BDSM activity?
5. Whats you like about being a dom?

cj07 10-18-2020 01:55 PM

What makes you kind

Do you prefer to be nice and kind with slaves or rough with them

KindMistress 10-18-2020 01:55 PM

Hi Tamer, thanks for the questions!

1. Whats your biggest fantasy?
Does having Chris Pratt tied up in my basement and fucking him any time I want count?

2. Would you like to to have a sub roommate that you could dominate?
Will he do all the cooking and cleaning and eat me out on command? If yes, sign me up!

3. When did you know that you are into BDSM?
Honestly, since I first became interested in sex. I think the first time I discovered how to masturbate was when I was thinking about some bondage stuff. I didn't know it was call BDSM back then, of course! Just found the idea of bound people hot.

4. What was your first BDSM activity?
Tying my second boyfriend's hands, blindfolding him and riding him until I came.

5. Whats you like about being a dom?
The sense of control and power I have over the other person.

KindMistress 10-18-2020 01:58 PM

Thanks for the questions, CJ!


What makes you kind
I like to think I'm good natured, polite, thoughtful and attentive to other person's needs.


Do you prefer to be nice and kind with slaves or rough with them
I'm generally nice (unless they've been naughty), but every once and then I'll get rough, just because I can (and because it's fun)

batfinch 10-18-2020 10:37 PM

Do you always sit when you use the toilet?

tamer6198 10-19-2020 01:03 AM

1. Yes thats counts.
2. He can do it. He will do what ever you like.

And some more questions:
1. What's your favorite bondage position?
2. How's your ideal sub looks like? appirence and and behavior.
3. What's you likes?
4. What's you limits?

KindMistress 10-19-2020 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by batfinch (Post 4166165)
Do you always sit when you use the toilet?

Yes, I do. Such is life for us penisless folks.

KindMistress 10-19-2020 09:27 AM

And some more questions:
1. What's your favorite bondage position?
When topping, my favourite has to be the guy standing up with his hands secured above his head. You have access to the whole body. But it's not very practical because you have to have an overhead spot to fix the bonds, plus you can't really do some things with him standing. So the favourite practical bondage is spreadeagle on the bed.


2. How's your ideal sub looks like? appirence and and behavior.
I don't really care too much about appearance as long as he isn't obese and takes cares of himself. Beards are hot though.
Behaviour-wise, first of all he needs to be a decent human being. Nice, polite, thoughtful, that sort of thing. Second, smart and funny, those are a must for anyone who wants to spend time with me. We need to have good chemistry. And he needs to be able to learn and grow as a sub and as a person.

3. What's you likes?
Off the top of my head, getting pleasured and worshipped, orgasm control, bondage, control. Not a sadist, but giving pain can be fun. But I mean, vanilla sex is awesome, too.

4. What's you limits?
Anything involving other people, scat, permanent damage, ageplay, receiving anal would be the big things.

cj07 10-19-2020 02:38 PM

What cruelest and strictest you ever been with slave.
Do you have favorite outfit to where when a dom, every tried latex outfit
Do you enjoy locking people up in chastity
Have you experienced male and female slaves
Have you ever been the slave, what happened and did you enjoy it.

KindMistress 10-20-2020 05:14 AM

What cruelest and strictest you ever been with slave.
As for strictest, I once played with a guy online and he had to follow all kinds of elaborate rules and there were punishments for every minor transgression.
Not sure about the cruelest, I am generally quite a nice domme. I might do something mean or cruel every now and then, but I don't overdo it (unless the guy asks for it, but then it's not cruel, I guess?)

Do you have favorite outfit to where when a dom, every tried latex outfit
Nice lingerie or a revealing, but comfortable dress is generally the best. No experience with latex, but I'd love, love, love to try.

Do you enjoy locking people up in chastity
Don't have a lot of experience in this, but it sounds like fun. Not sure if I wouldn't miss the dick, though.

Have you experienced male and female slaves
Male only.

Have you ever been the slave, what happened and did you enjoy it
I have experienced a little with stuff like being handcuffed and it was fun, but it's not really my thing

cj07 10-20-2020 02:20 PM

What sort of rules and punishments.

Would you enjoying locking up someone in chastity and there only release is only when you want his penis.



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Originally Posted by KindMistress (Post 4167328)
What cruelest and strictest you ever been with slave.
As for strictest, I once played with a guy online and he had to follow all kinds of elaborate rules and there were punishments for every minor transgression.
Not sure about the cruelest, I am generally quite a nice domme. I might do something mean or cruel every now and then, but I don't overdo it (unless the guy asks for it, but then it's not cruel, I guess?)

Do you have favorite outfit to where when a dom, every tried latex outfit
Nice lingerie or a revealing, but comfortable dress is generally the best. No experience with latex, but I'd love, love, love to try.

Do you enjoy locking people up in chastity
Don't have a lot of experience in this, but it sounds like fun. Not sure if I wouldn't miss the dick, though.

Have you experienced male and female slaves
Male only.

Have you ever been the slave, what happened and did you enjoy it
I have experienced a little with stuff like being handcuffed and it was fun, but it's not really my thing


KindMistress 10-22-2020 02:18 AM

What sort of rules and punishments.
Rules about his daily schedule, masturbation/orgasm control, what he can wear, daily rituals to do, etc...
Punishments were either physical, corner time or loss of privileges (i.e. he would only be able to take cold showers, or couldn't drink nothing but tap water etc.)


Would you enjoying locking up someone in chastity and there only release is only when you want his penis.
Absolutely!

cj07 10-22-2020 01:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KindMistress (Post 4168917)
What sort of rules and punishments.
Rules about his daily schedule, masturbation/orgasm control, what he can wear, daily rituals to do, etc...
Punishments were either physical, corner time or loss of privileges (i.e. he would only be able to take cold showers, or couldn't drink nothing but tap water etc.)


Would you enjoying locking up someone in chastity and there only release is only when you want his penis.
Absolutely!

Do you the boy hated those rules seem only fair, that women control
How often you unlock it.

KindMistress 10-23-2020 11:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cj07 (Post 4169529)
Do you the boy hated those rules seem only fair, that women control
How often you unlock it.

How often? Well, that depends on how good he is. And how much I enjoy seeing him suffer :cool:

eddie91 10-23-2020 03:19 PM

Do you have a favourite safeword?

KindMistress 10-24-2020 12:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eddie91 (Post 4170618)
Do you have a favourite safeword?

Not really, "red" generally works well.

cj07 10-24-2020 02:07 AM

That sounds super fun

Have you found slave enjoy rules and you being strict with them or not

eddie91 10-25-2020 03:32 PM

Do you have a favourite punishment to give? And a favourite reward?

KindMistress 10-26-2020 05:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cj07 (Post 4171012)
That sounds super fun

Have you found slave enjoy rules and you being strict with them or not

Well, of course they do.

Quote:

Originally Posted by eddie91 (Post 4172625)
Do you have a favourite punishment to give? And a favourite reward?

It depends on the sub, the occasion, and on what's the purpose of the punishment/reward. But if I had to say one thing, I'd say spanking for punishment. For reward, it really depends.

Lightze 11-20-2020 07:27 PM

Oh Hai! =^-^=

So how have you found GetDare so far?

Is it scratching the domme itch?

KindMistress 11-22-2020 03:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lightze (Post 4202027)
Oh Hai! =^-^=

So how have you found GetDare so far?

Is it scratching the domme itch?

Thanks for the question!

I'm not really around all that much, I log in every couple of days. There are good things and bad things about getDare.

I like all the kinky people that are around sharing their thoughts and having fun. Some of the threads are fun and there are some nice people around to chat or play with.

I don't like is that a lot of posts are very low effort. And it's annoying that I gett so many PMs begging me to be their mistress, even though my signature specifically says I don't want that.

Lightze 11-22-2020 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by KindMistress (Post 4203506)
Thanks for the question!

I'm not really around all that much, I log in every couple of days. There are good things and bad things about getDare.

I like all the kinky people that are around sharing their thoughts and having fun. Some of the threads are fun and there are some nice people around to chat or play with.

I don't like is that a lot of posts are very low effort. And it's annoying that I gett so many PMs begging me to be their mistress, even though my signature specifically says I don't want that.

Pros and cons. Mmhm mmhm. **nodnod**

I've found over the years you start to learn who to look out for, for good threads.

Hopefully you get a list like that before too long! =^-^=

Thank you for answering!

KindMistress 12-06-2020 06:13 PM

Looks like this thread is dying, but I wanna answer some more questions, so let me give you ladies and gentlemen a unique offer:

From now on, for each seven posts with at least one decent question this thread gets, I will pick one of the posters and PM them a personally crafted dare (only one post by user per week counts). Let's see those questions flowing!

Bdsub 12-06-2020 06:29 PM

Well we can’t have a good thread die out so....

Have you had subs both online and in person? If so, What do you consider the pros and cons of each?

What is the longest relationship (not necessarily a romantic relationship) you have had with a sub?

Ever have more than one sub at a time?

Have you always been dominant? If so, would you ever consider trying to be a sub for the experience?

6sinz 12-07-2020 12:30 AM

That is a smart idea Mistress, i guess your being flooded with questions now :) Didnt know about your threads, of course ill use the chance to ask you some questions and im looking forward to partecipating in the other thread :D

1) Whats your favorite punishment for your subs?
2) Have you ever cum in public?
3) How/When did you realize about your domme side?
4) Did you ever squirt?
5) Do you work out?
6) Do you have any toys?
7) Whats your favorite food?
8) Do you like facesitting?
9) Are you in a relationship?
10) How did you find out about gd?
11) Hairy, shaved or trimmed?
12) What kind of panties are you wearing right now?
13) How often do you masturbate?

Thats it for now... there are a lot more questions in my mind, but ill ask them another time :) Looking forward to the answers, thanks in advance!

KindMistress 12-07-2020 10:04 AM

Thank you for the lovely questions, guys!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bdsub (Post 4219295)
Well we can’t have a good thread die out so....

Have you had subs both online and in person? If so, What do you consider the pros and cons of each?
In person is so much more intense, but also requires way more effort. Right now, I'm comfortable just playing online with people without any commitment. It scratches the itch a little without any commitment or complex feelings.

What is the longest relationship (not necessarily a romantic relationship) you have had with a sub?
Two and a half years. We were friends with benefits and briefly tried dating

Ever have more than one sub at a time?
Depends on what you mean by having a sub, but if we're talking relationship-style, then no. This lady is monogamous.

Have you always been dominant? If so, would you ever consider trying to be a sub for the experience?
Ever since I can remember. I tried some stuff like being handcuffed or spanked, but it's not for me


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Originally Posted by 6sinz (Post 4219517)
That is a smart idea Mistress, i guess your being flooded with questions now :) Didnt know about your threads, of course ill use the chance to ask you some questions and im looking forward to partecipating in the other thread :D

1) Whats your favorite punishment for your subs?
Replied to this before, it depends on who you're punishing and why.
2) Have you ever cum in public?
Does deep in the forrest with no one around (except for the guy eating me out) count?
3) How/When did you realize about your domme side?
Honestly, I've been fantasizing about being in charge pretty much ever since I started having sexual thoughts
4) Did you ever squirt?
No. I don't think I'm capable of it, but who knows, maybe someone will make me squirt some time.
5) Do you work out?
I run and ride a bicycle
6) Do you have any toys?
I had to get rid of a lot of my gear when I moved recently (didn't have anyone to use it with anyway), but I still have some "friends" I can use to make myself feel good.
7) Whats your favorite food?
This might sound unladylike, but a good burger is always great.
8) Do you like facesitting?
I prefer lying down when getting eaten out, but I did facesit with partners every now and then because it's a fun power thing to do.
9) Are you in a relationship?
Happily single at the moment, but I've had relationships before and probably will want another one some time in the future.
10) How did you find out about gd?
No idea, to be honest. I've known about it for a long time before I joined.
11) Hairy, shaved or trimmed?
I prefer shaved, but it's a pain in the ass to keep shaving, so I'm only trimmed most of the time. Every now and then I let it grow for a few weeks for a change
12) What kind of panties are you wearing right now?
Plain black
13) How often do you masturbate?
It varies a lot, but I'd say every other day on average. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

Thats it for now... there are a lot more questions in my mind, but ill ask them another time :) Looking forward to the answers, thanks in advance!


Bdsub 12-07-2020 05:48 PM

You mentioned that you prefer to be shaved but you most of the time are only trimmed as it is a pain in the ass.

How often do you tend to shave it all off?

Ever dictate to a sub how he is to groom his pubes? Set a rule to do so on a certain schedule (ex every x days)?

What is your grooming preference on a sub (hairy, shaved, trimmed etc)?

6sinz 12-08-2020 01:36 AM

So lets bump this up again!

1) What "friends" are you talking about? Can you be more specific?
2) How tall are you?
3) What hair color are you? and what hair color do you prefer in guys?
4) Whats your eye color?
5) Whats your favorite movie?
6) Do you watch porn? If so what do you like watching most?
7) Does make you answering questions on gd horny?

KindMistress 12-10-2020 06:38 AM

Thanks for another round of questions, boys!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bdsub (Post 4220231)
You mentioned that you prefer to be shaved but you most of the time are only trimmed as it is a pain in the ass.

How often do you tend to shave it all off?
Not a lot. One a month, maybe?
Ever dictate to a sub how he is to groom his pubes? Set a rule to do so on a certain schedule (ex every x days)?
I have, but it's not a big thing for me
What is your grooming preference on a sub (hairy, shaved, trimmed etc)?
Trimmed. I like some hair on guys, but without it getting messy (or getting in my mouth)

Quote:

Originally Posted by 6sinz (Post 4220501)
So lets bump this up again!

1) What "friends" are you talking about? Can you be more specific?
Sorry, not sure what you mean?
2) How tall are you?
Quite short, even for a girl!
3) What hair color are you? and what hair color do you prefer in guys?
Light brown. I used to dye it when I was younger, but I don't any more. I don't care about guys' hair colour, literally the last thing on my mind
4) Whats your eye color?
Green
5) Whats your favorite movie?
Lord of the Rings, duh
6) Do you watch porn? If so what do you like watching most?
Videos don't really do it for me that much. I prefer pictures or erotica
7) Does make you answering questions on gd horny?
Depends on the question ;)


cooperjess 12-10-2020 01:34 PM

Would you be willing to try *everything* that you fantasize about? Or rather, do you have any fantasies that you think would be too intense/weird/whatever to try out in real life?

KindMistress 12-11-2020 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by cooperjess (Post 4222603)
Would you be willing to try *everything* that you fantasize about? Or rather, do you have any fantasies that you think would be too intense/weird/whatever to try out in real life?

That's a great question, Jess!

There are definitely fantasies I'd never try in real life:
  • Non-con: this is not a huge kink for me, but every now and then a girl fantasizes about having a slave boy locked in her basement or blackmailing someone to do anything she wants for her without caring what he wants. Obviously, this is a big no no in real life
  • Permanent/long term chastity: it's such a strong fantasy, a sub giving up his orgasms/erections forever for me, but in reality, I love playing with cocks too much to not use one I'd have at my disposal. I love them fucking me, I love teasing them, I love sucking them and I love making them cum. Permanent chastity would deny me as much as it would deny the sub.
  • 24/ female led relationship: Again, such a hot fantasy, right? Having a live-in slave who only lives to take care of me, does all the chores and pleasures me in any way I want while I make all the decisions and do as I please with him. But in reality, I want an equal partner out of the bedroom, so I'd never want this in real life.
  • Multiple people: I have fantasized about being with multiple people at once, but I don't think I'd ever do it in real life.

subDanni 12-11-2020 04:46 AM

What is your favorite Christmas song? (If you have one)

Have you ever received a kinky Christmas present? If so, what was it?

Have you ever felt bad after giving a task or punishment or something like that? I mean if it was a bit hard task.

cj07 12-12-2020 09:40 AM

Do you ever mix slave relationship and romantic relationship
Do you have Christmas themed task for your slaves, like make been be Christmas tree
Do you have male slave currently, and do they know you have an account on here
How do you think your slaves would describe you.

andrew_b 12-13-2020 06:57 AM

What do you think about giving subs public tasks?

Have you given any yourself before?

KindMistress 12-14-2020 01:31 AM

Thanks for the questions, everyone!

Quote:

Originally Posted by subDanni (Post 4223052)
What is your favorite Christmas song? (If you have one)
Definitely Let it snow

Have you ever received a kinky Christmas present? If so, what was it?
I haven't (boo, boring answer)

Have you ever felt bad after giving a task or punishment or something like that? I mean if it was a bit hard task.
Great question! As a domme, you take on a responsibility. Every now and then, you make a mistake by being too harsh or acting without properly understanding what your sub needs. So yes, I have made mistakes and it has made me feel bad. The important thing is to own up to your mistake, apologize and talk it through with the sub so that it doesn't happen again. Hopefully, all of those mistakes have allowed me to grow and improve as a person. I'd rather not go into details, though.

Quote:

Originally Posted by cj07 (Post 4224602)
Do you ever mix slave relationship and romantic relationship
Yes, I did. It's a fine line to tread, but can be very rewarding

Do you have Christmas themed task for your slaves, like make been be Christmas tree
Not that I remember. I'm no much of a Christmas person, to be honest

Do you have male slave currently, and do they know you have an account on here
I do not

How do you think your slaves would describe you.
Fun, caring, strict, but fair.

Quote:

Originally Posted by andrew_b (Post 4225609)
What do you think about giving subs public tasks?
Not my cup of tea

Have you given any yourself before?
Only some hidden public ones, like masturbating outside or wearing toys underneath clothes.


Fire+Ice 12-14-2020 01:54 AM

Hey KM

1) what is your favourite picture to receive from a sub (that you've asked for of course)
2) have you ever met online or rl a dom who you wish you could make them a sub
3) if you could click your finger and every male sub wore an outfit of your choice, what would it be
4) what grabs your attention when speaking to people (either on here or just generally in life)

Red! 12-14-2020 05:12 PM

1. What's the last book you read?
2. What's your sexiest outfit and when did you last wear it?
3. Have you ever given a wedgie?
4. Can you cook? What's your favourite dish?
5. If money were no object what sex toy would you most like to buy?


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