Post your random thought at the moment
 

Ever just have a quick thought that you wanna let out somewhere, but it doesn't fit anywhere ? Well spill your random thoughts here.


For example : I am so stupid and I can only blame myself for my own stupidity.

Disclaimer :

Mean degrading post ahead.




I was just thinking that if I were to honestly set up a forfeit for myself when losing at a game or failing to meet expectations, it would probably be to force myself entering picture receiving threads from males and having to look at these disgusting strangers penises that would just keep coming.

Ha ha. That would definitely be an unpleasant forfeit for me too. True punishment.

Talking in rhyme is driving me crazy, I think my rhymes are starting to get lazy

Just keep thinking til your vision gets hazy
The rhyme will show up if you keep on chase it

My tits are getting destroyed by ladies.exposed tasks (in a good way).

BDSM tasks make me hungry after a while, like exercising 🤔

What would you think if you saw a woman in public rubbing her top, and then a clothespin falls on the floor under her ? That she must have forgotten a clothespin when her clothes were drying, or that she went out with clothespins on her boobs under her outfit ?

I would definitely be considering boobs as a possibility, but that could just be me and my mind. Does she look shy and reserved? Is she blushing with embarrassment? Almost certainly on her boobs... it's always the quiet ones!

Wondering if it's just me, or everyone sees random household things in stores and such and thinks "huh that would make a good dildo/paddle/etc"

Was almost about to tell everyone I give up the rest of task I have to do, it's getting harder and I'm losing the will.

I am starting to think there is a necessity for two types of likes/limits etc lists, one for strangers you casually play with and one for a close Dom. Not that my LE experiences had my limits stated anyway, but it had me think. For example when I didn't include scarification in my limits, I was thinking that it's something that I could easily do for my Dom if it was required, not that it has ever been, but for a random strangers it's really not worth it for so many reasons.

I kinda assumed that two or more lists was standard and that lists in signatures/blogs here on getDare only reflect a quick summary of limits for casual play and that other perhaps less restrictive limits would be used or negotiated for trusted partners or longer term commitments.

An example being pictures which many have in their signature as a limit but are willing to allow in certain situations.

Maybe part of this assumption of mine is from experience in offline meat-world play where people don't wander around with convenient labels listing their kinks and limits. Starting every play session or relationship starts with at least a quick conversation around limits. The more involved the play, the longer the discussion. Having entered into a number of long term D/s relationships over the years, all of them have had a written agreement on the arrangement including expections, limits, safewords and more. This would never be a standard agreement but something negotiated specifically for the two people involved.

Had a dream where two guys were strapped to hospital beds in a medical context and being milked by the nurse for medical reasons and hating it. I don't often get sexual dreams and this might have been my best, very clear and vivid too.

Apparently the most users online here at once was ~24k on November 30 2018. What was going on that day?

Some comment sections on LE (not mine) are too brutal for my taste.

My random thought is I’m really okay with some people (after discussion) knowing absolutely nearly everything they can about me there is NO way I could ever trust anyone not to rat me out to people important to me. So my thought is “why am I so obsessed with the blackmail threads” it makes no sense at all. Perhaps there is some deep hidden meaning to my (strange) personality!

I have no clue how one is supposed to hump a pillow, and how to feel what you're supposed to feel from it.

Sometimes when I clearly say something in a post (such as I'm sharing the last video but I don't feel like chatting) and then someone proceeds to kik me totally ignoring those clear guidelines, I visualize myself sitting them on a table in front of the text, and screaming at them "what did the post say ?! READ !!!" and then grabing the back of their head to violently push it and hit their forehead on the table, Batman vs Joker interrogation scene style.

https://media.tenor.com/mUFbyE_CViQA...ker-batman.gif

I'm feeling terribly submissive... Thinking abt to see an irl Dom today maybe but idk if it's a good idea, I'm afraid of the bad feelings on myself after the session... Why is it so complicated to deal with ourselves...?

I have them from online sessions too, it's just part of the thing, you don't have to stop it or fix it you can just accept it and let it go when it wants to.

I won't resist. I'm gonna unlock it. Why not after all...

When I am playing with someone online that presents themselves as female, why does it bother me if I suspect they are being false?

The online experience is essentially a medium facilitated by imagination. They describe who they are and what they are doing and I imagine it. Why should it matter to me if it what is described is objectively true or not? Intellectually I don't see that it should. In fact there are times when I do choose to play with sub males and other gender identities than cis-female, and I don't have a problem with this when I occasionally choose to do so.

But still, it does bother me. And I hate the nagging doubt that sits in the back of my head with many online interactions, searching for signs that either support or contradict their claim to be female. Why can't I just enjoy it for what it is?

Why must getDare limit how thankful I can be?

So they changed things on ladies.exposed, you now need an account for the extensions or something *confused*

Beware the Butterfly's sting: Miss008 Banished to the dungeons of hell

I just had a weird idea, imagine inserting a balloon in a partner's vagina, then starting to blow air into it... I wonder what it would fee like when it expands too much and explodes inside lol

If clothes where never invented would we still find the naked body attractive or would it just take more to stimulate ones eyes?
Would looking at someone privates become taboo?

Why is there not more girls like plukyl on gd.

I'm not a fan of degradation and whatnot, but those threads can be funny to read sometimes 😆

This chat command GD has gave me an idea, I'll make a dice command on my discord bot whenever I have some time to kill and the energy to do it.

Sub drop is a lot similar to after alcohol feelings for me, today I just realized another similarity, when I get that post alcohol chemical depression I get the urge to drink again, similarity when I get this Sub drop I can get pain cravings.

Every time I get close to my period people start calling my nipples puffy lol

getDare really wants to limit my gratitude... why can't I thank blog posts? Or comments on them?

I don't know if I could ever do something BDSM IRL, people who are able to do that are... very brave. How can you ever trust someone that much ? People can show you themselves in their best light but end up being an abuser or worse, you just never know. And while that's true for most relationships, in BDSM you'd be at their mercy if you happened to be wrong. Helpless at the hands of some of the most sadistic minds that exist, and who spent extensive amounts of time studying and improving the art of making someone suffer, furthermore they would know everything about what can hurt you personally, how terrifying is that ? I only "met" (online) two people in my whole life that I vaguely considered the idea of giving up control to for real, that I felt like I trusted enough, even then it's not a full blind trust, and I never felt that way about anyone I met IRL. It's very impressive that people find matches that they are able to give themselves to that way, it's really kind of admirable that they are even willing to take risks and try for themselves to find that person.

One simple word TRUST ... Once your trust your partner then it works ....when you don't it can not

Sometimes people trust their partner and they are wrong, even in vanilla couples or friendships, sometimes they only see their true colors after years.

Absolutely true .....

Unfortunately that's life

You can have the perfect partner , and then the trust is gone

Or a not so great play partner and 100% trust

Its a strange world

Very true that sometimes people are wrong about what people are like, however if someone is really into BDSM both Trust and Safety play a big part of the experience which should help negate the risk.

You need trust to know that the person has your best interests in mind, you also need safety aspect too.
Quite a lot of newbies miss this part because they expect BDSM to be like the porn they watch.

In real life you need to know a lot of safety features.

In planned hookups, I'd always expect and encourage someone to tell someone else about the meet. Also have a prep meeting before to discuss limits etc and a little catchup after to make sure everything was okay (aftercare).

I know it's not as hot as walking into a room, stripping someone naked and getting down to it, but it is needed.

Theres a lot of safety you have to consider and learn too.

E.g. The fastest way to untie someone from all the knots you've done via rope play, if they have a freak out or say the safe word (always have a safe word and I'd encourage practicing it, even when safe.)

If someone doesn't respect a safe word when things are safe, they definitely aren't going to respect it when you want to stop.

Obviously some people will prefer the 'unplanned' sexiness of it all, unfortunately its the same people that have bad experiences with BDSM.

I find the normalisation of deviance over time rather scary as it can push you to increasingly risky behaviours, but also incredibly exciting.

My orgasms sometimes are too intense for my own good, I feel like I'm having a seizure not an orgasm, I think I just hurt my injured knee tensing up and twisting like I'm possessed.