Ask the Owners of Pet Ra anything
 

Hi folks

I'm the Mistress of our bitch "Puddles" aka "Pet Ra". Have fun asking me stuff :D.

What’s your favorite way to use her?

What’s your favorite sexual memory involving her?

What’s your favorite part about her, sexually?

I think I’m right in saying you own pet along with a master too. If so, how much planning do you do, the pet does not know about?

Also, is there a plan that you have to make Pet do something that she is not yet aware of? If so, I’d love to hear (welcome to send privately so pet doesn’t know).

On daily basis: I just order her to eat me out.
For punishment: Using her as my personal urinal :D.

I would say her wedding night when I fucked her husband because she couldn't. It was the perfect way to show her her place.

Her body doesn't have much to offer ;). But her tongue is quite skilled. That and her natural submission.

You're assuming right. Her Master is her sole owner but of course she has to give me the same respect ;). I would say it's about 50 / 50 while I'm more focusing on degrading stuff.

Everything we plan is communicated with our Pet. Sometimes we don't give her all the details but in general we're not keeping her in the dark and she know what to expect.

Wow! Totally see why that is the favorite memory. Was she forced to watch?

I’d love to hear her thoughts on it, presuming she hasn’t already detailed it in a post on here.

It seems like your Pet is pretty docile and doesn't really need much punishment.

How do your "maintance" sessions you have with her differ from actual punishments?

Thank you.

Hi there,

Mistress Hanna here again. It seems that the rule for "One account per person" in reality means "One account per household" :rolleyes:.


We didn't force her. She wanted to watch, I mean it was her wedding night after all as well ;).
She wrote about it in her pet-diary and I can assure you that she liked it :D.

That's true. I guess that she's a natural submissive and if she does something wrong it's not on purpose. Not because she's afraid of being punished but simply because she prefers to be an obedient pet.

A "maintenance spanking" is mostly fun (but also to remind her of her place, of course). Actual punishments are more stern, the slaps are harder and she receive more of them. Also it's followed by corner time so she can reflect her behaviour and loss of privileges.

What's your perspective on how things changed between you and Pet Ra, when friendship evolved into ownership?

Was it a natural or easy transition for you, when you started dominating, humiliating and pissing on your friend? Or should I say former friend?

Thanks to Butterfly for lifting the ban :).

I was really surprised how quickly Puddles accepted me as her Mistress. To be honest, she accepted me as her Mistress faster than I accepted it myself and "breaking" the friendship was not easy. But at one point we realized that I can't be her BFF and her Mistress at the same time. I love and "despise" her at the same time, but I also know that if we ever break apart we won't go back to being friends (like almost all lovers). But I would say we really benefit from it, because she don't have to play someone else around me anymore and I can help her living the life she want.

I would say it was an easy transition. I'm more dominant and have always been the one giving directions. Still, in the first months it took a while to change from being her friend to being her Mistress because I still respected our long friendship.
It changed immediately after I pissed on her for the first time. At that moment I lost all respect for her. I can't help it and realized it with former partners, after I peed on them I couldn't take them serious anymore. So, after that it became kinda natural for me to humiliate her.

What's the most pathetic Pet Ra has ever appeared at your eyes?

To be honest, there have been so many things that Puddles made herself pathetic I lost count. Everything was and is pitiful in it's own way.

Once we assfucked her silly with a cucumber...
Sometimes she "borrows" my tits to give her Master a titjob...
The way she pissed in a glass and toasted us before drinking it...
How eagerly she sat in the shower / her pee-area waiting for us to use her as urinal...
Standing in the forest and let us push a huge toy in her ass...
The way she starts humping the air when her horniness overwhelms her...
How violent her cunt throbs while impaling her ass on the huge cone...
Or how proudly she shows us her gaping hole afterwards...

You see why it's so hard for me to respect her? She is pathetic :D.

LOL, yes I see...

- Are you and her Master making plans for new ways to "show her her place"?

- Is there some specific element you would like to get into your relationship, just for your pleasure/fun/interest?

- Do you think Puddles is getting wet reading our questions and your answers here?

I can assure you that I am :o

- We show her every day and mostly we decide spontaneously.
Recently we invented a new game that's called "Guess what step we're on".
You see, we live on top of a 10 story-building and it's 215 steps from the lowest to our doorstep. It took Puddles long enough to count them but she managed. Now she has to take the steps down while we wait somewhere and she has to tell us what step we're on. It's simple counting but I guess it's really hard if you having a plug in your ass and kegle balls in your freshly edged cunt.
It's really funny to see in her eyes that she lost track and has to guess which step we're on :D :D :D.

- In my relationship with Puddles or in my relationship with her Master?
Puddles: Sometimes I would like she would be more of a slave / servant. But I understand that her Master trained her to be a dog because she has the mindset of one. For my own fun I would like to use her as an urinal not just for punishments but also just to degrade her. But it's fine as it is.
Her Master: I have a wonderful relationship with Stephan, I'm treated like his wife and I have the ring on my finger to prove it^^. So there is nothing I would change.

- It does and in my opinion it's pathetic how she reacts on being humiliated.

@Puddles:
You weren't asked a god damn thing, so I'll count that as speaking without permission.

@CombedThunderclap:
I've read in your signature that you love to give girls embarrassing tasks. If it counts for disobedient pets, feel free and she will write a report about it. It may take few days but she will write it.

I know your relationship is pretty much strictly private, but are there any public humiliation fantasies that you personally would love to put Puddles through?

I love your ENF-adventures and I know that Puddles really enjoy reading them.
We went to a nudist beach, nudist trail and a nudist bathhouse with her and she handled it quite well. At least until the other people are naked to and it's not with obvious sexual intentions.

We tried to recreate your adventure with pizza delivery, yet Puddles was wearing a very short dress, with her chastity belt and an anal cage that kept her nicely gaping. So if the delivery girl looked in the right moment she would have known what was going on. It was way to much for Puddles even (or because) waves of lust kept washing over her.

So, yes I would like to have her open the door naked or let her take a walk in the woods while naked and openly leashed so other people could see what a nice Pet we have. But I know that Puddles is to shy for this.

oh haha glad I could inspire some fun for you guys!!

Do you feel that Puddles feels different being dominated by a female or by a male? If yes, what are the differences that you see in her approach?

She never have been dominated by someone else than us, so I can't answer that for sure. I would say she would more likely please another woman than another man because in that case she would feel like she's betraying her Master.

Maybe in the beginning it was more an issue for her, because she was secretly bi and wanted to be straight. And then we "forced" her to embrace her secret ;).

But now I would say that it's more because of the person and not the gender.

When I ordered her to undress in front of me for the first time she hesitated, not because I am a woman but because I was her friend.
If her Master goes down on her she relaxes and enjoys, if I go down on her she gets timid because I hardly do and she know how much I despise pubic hair. So if I do something that nice for her makes her nervous :D.

But also I would say sometimes it's gender-related.
Women tend to be more cruel towards other women because we know what's more shameful and humiliating to another, physically and verbally. I'm no exception.
I love to point out her flaws like her small tits and primitive cunt.
When we pee on her I make sure to get my moneys worth while for her Master it's just a punishment.
But for Puddles it's not an issue of gender but the person.

How would you say you get your money's worth when peeing on her?

What makes her cunt primitive?

First, I'd like to thank everyone involved for making Puddles' journals public: I've enjoyed all of what I've read, and I really appreciate that such a real, long-term narrative exists here, it's thrilling to read about, and I'd argue it's educational as well! Porn should be assumed unrealistic, presumed a fantasy, but these first hand accounts, with such detail over such a long time, it's fascinating, so, thanks for putting that out there. I guess you could call me a fan? Yeah, I'm a fan.

I always find myself trying to make AMAs a little educational for everyone reading, so here I go doing that again:
What kind of principles do follow when deciding what to do with Puddles? I know it becomes intuitive after a while, you just know, but, I think it's safe to say a good portion of readers want what you have, so, what kind of advice would you give for prospective adopters of willing pets? What kind of challenges did you encounter as you became her mistress?

Oh, and please, feel free to share any peripheral details, my words elude more to the subject than the specific language of the questions, and I'd love it if I got a good story or two in reply, but above all: thanks, thanks for the lovely journals, thanks for the the many threads sharing her story, thanks for the AMA, and, thank you in advance for you reply, have a great day!

Have you done anything with her in public that embarrassed her?

What is the worst and funniest thing you have had her do at a get together or party?

I play with her anticipation. Sometimes I simply stand behind Puddles and let her wait, she know the inevitable is going to happen but not when.
Or I hump her head before pissing all over her and let her lick me clean afterwards.
Also we have a huge cup and she has to hold it while I pee in it. Afterwards I give her a nice enema with my piss. You know, stuff like that. It's to humiliate her and I make sure she is :).

The most obvious reason is the amount of hair. We had been to a nudist beach, a nudist bath house and on a nudist trail and I've never seen a woman with more hair down there. Especially women our age keep it shaven or at least trimmed.
Second is the pigmentation, her skin is just slightly darker then mine but her genitals are really dark.
Also she has a very prominent mons pubis and a thick innie pussy but her clit is still very noticeably, particularly since we decided to add a vertical clit hood piercing :D.

You're mostly welcome. We really appreciate it, especially since we had some “trouble” with some haters lately – maybe you noticed the strange outburst in votes, embedding out threads in 5* while ours are rated 2*. Well, some people live a sad and unhealthy life and feel better if they pull others down. Anyway.

To answer your questions:
Her Master mostly does some planing to make sure she doesn't embarrass us or herself in public. In the safe-space of our home we always let our gut decide.
In the beginning of our relationship I also often asked myself what I could do with her without risking our friendship but since Puddles decided that she valued her slavery more than my friendship it became quite easy. Ok, sometimes I overdid it and Stephan “scolded” / advised me. But he never did in front of her :). As you said, now I just “know”. But that was one of the biggest difficulties in the beginning.

Now we simply do what's fun for us and of course it should be fun for our pet as well. But sometimes we push her out of her comfort zone. We're keeping a mixture of pushing her in the right direction without pushing her to far and keep it fun for her as well.
What we have is, I hesitate to say “unique”, but rare and we are aware of that. But I would say the advice is the same for all kinds of BDSM-relationships.
Trust, communication, respecting limits. The sub is secretly the one in charge, she set the frame we as Doms can move in and we mustn't break it, if the sub wants to stop we must stop. That's non-negotiable.
We're proud that Puddles never had to use her safeword because we know her body language and look for the non-verbal signs she gives us if it's slowly getting to much.
Well, she's our pet for 8 years now, so it would be a shame for us if we didn't know the signs ;).

Interestingly Annaxx asked Stephan for advice for becoming a pet-girl some weeks ago, so I'll stick close to his answer:
First: If you decide to turn someone into a pet it should fit her character.
For example, a cat is independent and cuddly, a dog is obedient and docile and a horse is intelligent and loyal. Yes, there are also cows and pigs, but for us that count more as "livestock" and not "pet", so we're not a big fan of that - unless you like to milk or fatten up someone ;).

I'll just use Puddles as an example:
She's a natural submissive and had thought about being a slave by her own. But Stephan couldn't see that in her, she just didn't have the mentality for it. He saw a pet in her, which was her second option she thought about. And later she told us if she knew it would be like this it would have been her first option as well. She's the born pet.
Funnily enough, she also asked if she could be a slut. We quickly put a stop to her because that really wouldn't have suited her :D.
So she became a pet, but a cat would absolutely not be an option. She likes to cuddle, but not in public. However, she is less independent; after all, she has always been told what to do or not to do her whole life. And she was definitely not a horse.
But she is obedient and likes to learn. She has many characteristics that Stephan associated with a collie and that's why he trained her as a dog.

But we combined her wish to become a slave. While we're at work Puddles cleans, cooks and do grocery shopping – all the stuff a good slave would do. So we don't have to do that when we come home again and it gives us more time to play with our pet.
Never in all those years the „BDSM-Police“ knocked on out door and told us that we were playing it wrong ;). So, feel free and everybody should have fun.

Don't worry if something you planed do work as expected.
It gave Puddles cuckqeuan fantasy a huge boost watching Stephan and me having sex and we tried to take another step by having sex without her watching us. It was really disappointing for all of us.
But after a while we gave it another try and now it works like a charm.
Maybe it helps that I make sure she can hear me, I never found the idea of being quiet during sex appealing :D. Puddles on the other hand had to learn to become “vocal” :D.

But we as her Owners have to take responsibility in a different, much larger context than usual and give Puddles very special attention and mindfulness because sometimes she tend to bite off more than she can chew. We have to take care of her, that is our obligation as her Owners.

Puddles can immerse herself incredibly deeply in the role of the chosen animal and completely free herself from everyday behaviour patterns and responsibilities. Especially since she decided to have the 24/7-PTE in 2022.
That's what makes her (and other pets) so special. She shed everything human and embraced an other way of thinking. But precisely because she can immerse herself so deeply, mentally getting out of this role often takes longer than with other games and sometimes can led to a “drop” in between. And it can occur suddenly and then really be a shitty experience.
Puddles had two “drops” in eight years. But these were due to external circumstances and not because of pet play, but after that she needed a longer break. Even then, she no longer wanted or could stop certain behaviours. Like wearing her collar or staying naked at home, so we let her, and lately she told us that when Stephan takes her to a party from his company she always felt like an actress. Some people would say that she's a lost cause ;).

So if Puddles experience a drop, we must be and are ready to catch her and not only support but also carry her if necessary. And if she then would decide to end this play it would be ok for us.

I know that in her rules it's stated that she don't have any privacy from us and many owners keep their pet in a cace for that reason.
But like every pet, Puddles sometimes needs a place to retreat. Not just in case things get a bit too much for her (if she just need a break and don't want to stop pet play), but also for „just because“.
For this reason we decided against a cage and instead opted for a permanent dog house. We also chose it so large that Puddles can lie comfortably in it - roughly speaking, it's a 90x200cm bed in a box.

Sorry if I can't give you a model solution, every sub, every pet is unique. I guess it's easier if you find someone who's already willing to be a pet in a forum or a dating platform because then you just have to talk about what kind of pet they want to be.

Nevertheless, thank you very much for the question. To be honest, it was one of the best questions we've read in an AMA and I hope the answer is satisfying for you ;).

No. We tried to make Puddles more outgoing by giving her a semi-public task.
She had to open the door for a pizza delivery in a very short dress with her chastity belt beneath and a metal ring that kept her ass nicely gaping. If the delivery girl would have looked at the right moment she would have clearly noticed that our pet was wearing a chastity belt. Puddles was completely overwhelmed and during the talk we had afterwards she asked us to not put her in a situation like this again. So that was too much for her and we realized that this is something she will never be ready for. But that's ok.
As long it's without obvious sexual intension (like I said above, we had been to a nudist beach, nudist bath house and nudist trail) it's absolutely fine for her.

For your second question: Nothing. We make sure she don't embarrass herself and us in public.
My parents know that she's our pet and my mother have seen her crawling and eating from a bowl (but dressed). Of course we tease Puddles in public but that's pretty much all.

Any plans to get your pet spayed yet? I think that is required in Germany.

And what about the microchip?

Congratulations on the most stupid question ever.
Please do the suggested procedure to yourself so you don't reproduce :)

I hope it's clear that what I said about microchip was an ironic answer to the post that you perfectly commented.

But, speaking of serious thing, but maybe this question should be addressed to her Master, have you considered to hang at her collar a medal with her name and the name of her owner? It would be a nice reminder of her position, but maybe it could become too much uncomfortable.

I'm not into such extreme BDSM thank you.

Don't worry, you would have known already if I took it as a serious question ;).

And since "Koppel" and "P_Murrath" (two of Puddles "fans" and I think they're kinda addicted because they constantly beg for attention) thanked her for her post we kinda knew that "Futty" will get banned soon or we won't read much of her again. And that what she writes won't be worth reading.

To answer your question:
We already have thought about it and also have made plans for her medal.

The front will contain her getDare-name "Pet Ra", the web-address to gD together with her user-ID and our names as her Owners.
The back will list her "permanent specifications" like that she's permanent denied and anal-only, her "temporary specifications" like that she's forbidden to shave, but also her "leash-protocol".
Moderate: she can leave the penthouse but has to inform us.
Strict: She can't leave the penthouse without us.
Absolute: She can't leave the penthouse without us and will be naked and leashed all the time.

At the moment it's "moderate".

It is a nice reminder of her position but I don't think it will be uncomfortable, the medals are not that big or heavy.
But Puddles will get her left nipple pierced soon and we thought about hanging the medal there :D.

That's a pity, maybe you would learn some manners :)

Kinda starting to understand the haters from your reactions:/

How do you see you and Ra's relationship develop in respect to her Master Stefaan?
Are you turned that he loves you more than Ra?

Delicious :clap:

The haters reacted to Puddles Pet-Diary before I registered here and as soon as I opened this thread it got crushed in downvotes as well, long before my snappy response. My reaction is just the result.
Futty registered during a time our Pets diary got swaremd with downvotes, then after 4 weeks she made her very first post in which she asked an idiotic (almost insulting) question, which is promptly thanked by the two people that tried to pull our pet down. All this smells worse than the fish from "Unhygienix" - you know, the fishmonger in the Asterix comics ;).

For me it's fun to "argue" with those people. I do it just for shits and giggles :D.

For your questions:
To be honest, I don't know. If you had asked me 2 years ago I would have said that she would give up her pet-play as soon as they get married and then will be a respectable (but kinky) wife.
I never expected that she would ask to become a full-time pet and even less expected that she asked me to replace her as Stephans wife a year later. That totally took me by surprise.
I guess you want to know if we are competitors and I can assure you that we are not.

I know that one day it may change, Puddles (and me too) want to have children one day and I'm sure Puddles want to raise her puppies humans ;). So that will be the end of the pet-relationship but maybe we will keep our MFF-relationship. But that is a „future-us“ problem.

I wouldn't say that he loves me more than Puddles. She's his wife, at least legally and even she now has the status as a dog doesn't mean he don't love her. I love her too, even I'm not respecting her because the one doesn't exclude the other. We have a strong love triangle and we show it to her every day.

What's you favorite part on puddles?

Her mind. She's so eager to please that I would say she's a natural submissive.

For her body it's her butt. Just looking at it makes me want to spank her :D.

To put in my 2 cents. I think there is an irony that a blog about a mutually agreed yet very serious TPE relationship got many downvotes under the pretense of red flags despite there being so many open topics encouraging consensusal blackmail, scatology, and many other extreme and niche fetishes. But a real life TPE slave pet relationship is where the line is drawn lol.

I wish to express my gratitude for you and Pet Ra's interesting insights so far. I suppose I better ask a question to be inkeeping with the thread:

In one of her posts, Pet Ra mentions 'mistress despises me' or something to that effect. I don't mean any disrespect, but have you spoken about this and your feelings with her at all to clear things up, or failing that can you go into more detail and explain the reasoning?

Another question: will we be seeing any updates soon on Pet Ra's story section?

Again no disrespect intended and I am totally grateful for your lovely posts together so far.

Hi

I can assure you, we don't understand either. It started with 2 people that told her that she live a sad and unhealthy life but didn't explain any further. So we decided to not give a shit about their opinion and let them know. Guess they couldn't handle rejection and released a shitstorm of downvotes.
Now we laugh about them :D.

Thanks, I'll let her know.

To answer your questions:
We've talked about it and Puddles admitted that she slightly exaggerated. During that time Stephan was quite busy so I was responsible for her and I was not satisfied with her.
Puddles was slacking around, went to sleep late, didn't do her chores properly – stuff like that.
I won't and can't tolerate that. Maybe I was a bit hasher than I should. You know that I'm very strict, but she's fully-trained now, so our expectations in her are accordingly high.

I love her, without question. She's so happy in her submission that you can't do anything but love her for it. But I'm not her friend anymore and she asked me to do things to her that made me lose all respect for her.
So, I'm not despising her but I can't think highly of her (human side) either. I treat her the way she asks to be treated, as a pet / slave.

For your other question you have to ask Puddles yourself ;).
I know she's working on it and not very satisfied with her writing yet.

Thank you very much :).

To be honest. The only reason I opened this story is because of the low votes. And I think many fans did too, it's great marketing. Not my cup of tea but to each their own.

I've seen that Puddles proudly showed the pic of a medal, has she already been pierced?

I also have an idea for a scientific experiment: I'm pleasurably reading through her denial story, and I've read the description about how you treated her cunt with numbing cream. I was particularly impressed by how she continued leaking even without feeling any sensation.

Now, I'm against experimenting on pets, but since it wouldn't hurt her, it would be interesting to numb her and heavily masturbate her insensitive cunt, to see if, besides leaking, she could even have an orgasm, without feeling it.

It's sad that I got the idea just now, when she already had her last orgasm, and maybe such an experiment could be considered breaking her denial. My idea is that she wouldn't orgasm, but even if it would happen, she couldn't feel anything, so, by her point of view it wouldn't be "an orgasm" (and I'm sure you wouldn't miss the subtle humiliation to break her condition of perpetual denial only for other people amusement, while she can't feel anything, and what new space of playing it could open for the future).

Do you think there could be room for such an experiment?

Thanks for the feedback, I appreciate that.
To be honest, when I found out about her kink I didn't fully understand either. It was just so weird that my (at that time still) friend fantasises to become a human-pet. And now, several years later, I can't see her as anything else :D.
But it's ok if some people don't like it. Puddles found her place in live and I'm proud to be part of it, that's enough ;).

Yeah, Puddles can't deny that she's really proud to be our Pet and absolutely enjoys her live.
She got her first piercing (a VCH) in January, shortly before she had her final orgasm, because we wanted that she get a more permanent sign that we own her – she lost the privilege to keep her pubic hair about 6 months prior. She'll get the other piercings during the next months, the one through her nipple to hang her medal and a clit ring so we can attach the leash :D.
The VCH is the perfect genital piercing for a beginner because the clitoral hood is „just“ a piece of skin and don't have as much nerve endings as the clit itself or the nipple. Also the piercer told us that she has the perfect cunt for this types (VCH and clit ring) of piercing. Also the woman that pierced her noticed the waistband of her chastity belt and knew exactly what this means, guess they have some other subs as customers as well :D.

I absolutely love the idea, sadly all the good ones always come into mind when it's too late.
But this experiment would definitely break her denial because we don't differentiate between a ruined orgasm or if it feels good or like shit or if she even feels anything. An orgasm is an orgasm and we won't let her have one ever again. All she get is edges and plenty of them.
Funny thing, she was writing with someone here and her stupid hormone soaked edge-brain misunderstood something. She thought that we're going to make her cum in near future and felt so threatened in her denial that she start begging us to not let that happen ever again :D.
Lately she start trying to condition herself to not be able to cum, like building a mental blockade. I don't know if it will work but it's cute to watch her working on it :D. Also it says everything you have to know about her denial kink ;).

As I said, the idea is fantastic and we will try that, but just until she edges and not until she cums.
Let's see if she could manage to last a minute or even two – that alone would be a progress already :D. This morning she set a new lowest record, 32 seconds. From finger inside her to reaching the edge – it's pathetic :D.

I'm happy you like my idea, and can't see the time to read about the experiment, even if only in terms of edges.

About her perpetual denial, it's a lovely thing, where she's into completely. I wonder what it will happen if (hypothetically, just for fun), after some years, when she will be completely into it, accustomed, and stable as a non-orgasming pet, maybe finally trained to endure stimulation for a long time, you'll decide that it would be fun to break her state and condamn her to a single orgasm, maybe as a punishment for something really bad she did, and then put her back into denial. After all she couldn't argue: you are the owners. But I can't imagine which level of derangement would be for her, how you said, "hormone soaked edge-brain" (I love this definition), and how will react her body at the orgasm, after a so long time. But I feel like my curiosity will remain unsatisfied ;)