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I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed with life lately. I started a new job in January, two new dynamics within the last 6 months, some family drama and its just been a lot of adulting and stuff. You know, life!
One tactic that I have always been able to use to help me decompress when life gets overwhelming, is to submit. For a long time, I did this with Mr. Devious. However, as life has changed over the years and we have grown in our kinks, we have come to the realization that we just...
One tactic that I have always been able to use to help me decompress when life gets overwhelming, is to submit. For a long time, I did this with Mr. Devious. However, as life has changed over the years and we have grown in our kinks, we have come to the realization that we just...
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Whether you are a casual kinkster or you live a kinky lifestyle, it is so important to remember that LIFE HAPPENS! Kink and sex should not be the most important thing ever. So many things take precedence: relationships, careers, mental health, family etc. However, it continues to be something that I see people fretting and stressing over around here ...
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So many times I see threads started: add threads or request threads, that just get out of hand. Maybe the OP was only...
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A lot of times when we are writing/reading about Dom/sub relationships, we will see that a big D and a little s (D/s) are used. Some people put a lot of merit into the protocol of using capital letters for D types and small letters for s types. That is totally ok. I will admit that I usually err on the side of grammar. Proper spelling, grammar and punctuation are turn ons for me (or at least making the effort to do so).
Anyways ... the point is, the reason that the D is usually capitalized...
Anyways ... the point is, the reason that the D is usually capitalized...
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Gags turn me on so much. It is just another loss of control. When I watch porn, I love seeing different types of gags being used.
However, I have had gags listed in my limits for a long time. This is for a few reasons:
I have wanted to find the right person to explore this with. I have had a few Dom's come into my life and try, but it hasn't worked.
I...
However, I have had gags listed in my limits for a long time. This is for a few reasons:
- I am claustrophobic
- I don't like drool/being messy
- It feels humiliating (makes me look and sound funny).
I have wanted to find the right person to explore this with. I have had a few Dom's come into my life and try, but it hasn't worked.
I...
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I am poly and have multiple partners. I currently have four poly relationships.
- Mr. Devious: I would consider this my primary relationship. We are married. We met here on getDare about 9 years ago. He began as my Dom and we fell in love. I moved across the country to live with him. Once we settled in to live together, we realized that a power exchange dynamic just didn't work between us. However, we are still kinky together in the bedroom.
- Jaro: Jaro and I have been together for 6 years. We have
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