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Posted 10-02-2018 at 02:19 PM by Butterfly Comments 8
I need a break.

getDare has always meant so much to me, but lately it has been a source of heartache.

I have been feeling hurt. I have been feeling attacked. I have been feeling so incredibly anxious.

Right now, getDare is not feeling like the happy, safe place it used to be. And so, I need a break.

I am walking away for the rest of the week. I will return on Sunday to help finish the King Election and to "crown" the King. I will

Posted 10-01-2018 at 08:02 PM by Butterfly Comments 7
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There has been a bit of grumbling about the King & Queen election and so I thought I would just try and smooth out some of the concerns.

Isn't it just a popularity contest? Well sure, of course it is. I mean how can it not be. It is all about showing support for your favorite people on getDare.

However, it isn't JUST a popularity contest.

Why did I create it?

Well there were many reasons ...
  1. I noticed that the forums were

Posted 09-30-2018 at 06:29 PM by Butterfly Comments 6
Lately I have been in a very Dommey headspace. I have a full time sub (Jaro) as well as a few casual play partners that I Top with. It seems that every time I turn around there is somebody new who I am bossing around.

I love being a Domme. I love being toppy, but at the same time, my subby side has been severely neglected the past few months. I crave that submission. I crave giving up control. I need it. I want it.

And while I am being Dommey, it is hard for me to get

Posted 09-29-2018 at 07:38 PM by Butterfly Comments 5
When we started to talk, I was in a vulnerable place. I felt isolated from my friends and family. I was in a bad relationship (but you didn't know that). I was looking for somebody to talk to, to confide in, to be friends with. I let my guard down.

I lied to you. I was not happy with my fiance. But I liked to protect myself. I didn't want to open myself up to the possibility of you getting the wrong idea. I was very clear with you that I was looking for friends only.


Posted 09-29-2018 at 06:48 PM by Butterfly Comments 9
As I sit here and write this, my chest is still tight. It hurts to breathe. I have started this blog about 10 times now and wiped everything that I have written. The truth is, I really don't know how to describe the feelings that are happening inside me.

The thing is, I thought I was doing better. It has been awhile since I have had such a flare up in anxiety. It has been years and years since I have had more than one anxiety attack in a week.

I have no explanation for
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