Butterfly

(Please note I am writing this from my bed because I am super sick. So I will make this short and sweet.)

Today marks 8 years of being with my worm, Jaro. I honestly can't believe that it has been so long. We have been through so much together and I value his friendship so much.

I know he constantly tells me how much I have taught him and helped him grow, but I can say the same for him.

Happy 8 years my worm. Here's to another 8!

Deschut and I have both been members on getDare for a long time. While we have been aware of each other for many years, we haven't really connected on a personal level until recently.

It has been almost two months since we added each other on getDare. We have talked pretty much every day since. About 10 days after his first message, Deschut shared his shock that I hadn't yet found a Dom. We both admitted that we were way too busy and that it probably wasn't a good idea for us to chat...

Feeling safe is not something that comes easy to me. I grew up not feeling emotionally or physically safe in my environment. So it doesn't just happen naturally with every person that I meet.

But the feeling of safety is something that is really important when you are exploring a kink dynamic.

Entering a BDSM relationship can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, but safety—both physical and emotional—should always be a top priority. Here are some of the things that...

Somebody recently asked me what some of my pet peeves are. We all have little things that tend to irk us. I decided that maybe listing out some of my kinky irks would be therapeutic and maybe it would give others something to think about, in case they were a perpetrator of these behaviours! Also, please note that most of these relate to online kink relationships, though they can also make sense when it comes to other relationships, dating or even just every day life.

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Somebody discreetly asked me in chat if I could explain what a little is. I am going to give it a shot.

I want to preface this blog by saying that this is what being a little means to me. This may not be how other people identify. Labels are just a starting place. Don't let them define you.

So now ...

What is a little?
Being a little is something that you ARE! It is a part of your being, your personality, and who you are at your core. For me, being...