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  1. Old Comment
    Blue Fox's Avatar

    Swan Song

    I am sad to see you leave, Butterfly. You have been an invaluable piece of GetDare and one of the truly awesome parts of this place. I wish you all the best with your future and hope that you find all the happiness as you move onwards. <3
    Posted 05-26-2023 at 08:20 AM by Blue Fox Blue Fox is offline
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    Come-Here's Avatar

    Swan Song

    It's always sad when one of the newer users decides to move on Our paths haven't crossed that much recently, but I know how much this place has meant to you. I don't think this is goodbye, but you have to do what you feel is best for you. So good luck, and I hope our paths cross again. x
    Posted 05-14-2023 at 04:24 PM by Come-Here Come-Here is offline
    Updated 05-14-2023 at 04:27 PM by Come-Here
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    Swan Song

    Love you, and good luck with wherever your travels may take you.
    Posted 05-14-2023 at 01:09 AM by silverdarknight silverdarknight is offline
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    Swan Song

    Thanks for being here Butterfly! May you flutter away happily!
    Posted 05-13-2023 at 06:54 AM by bluedieblub bluedieblub is offline
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    Swan Song

    That's really sad, you seemed like such an important piece of this place
    Posted 05-12-2023 at 09:55 AM by pluky pluky is offline
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    Swan Song

    All the best to you ... onward.
    Posted 05-12-2023 at 09:50 AM by FrostbittenSoul FrostbittenSoul is offline
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    Cstelle's Avatar

    Swan Song

    Your importance for this community can not be overstated, and if I were to try to say anything about it I would only wildly understate, but I'm speaking from the bottom of my heart when I whimper:
    Oh no!
    I am going to miss you so much! We've never really interacted a lot, but you have always been there, like a... well, like a rock. The anchor of gD?

    I don't know what to say. I can't imagine gD without you.

    I'm going to call you Butty one last time: Fare thee well, dear Butty. Live long and prosper.
    Posted 05-12-2023 at 03:03 AM by Cstelle Cstelle is offline
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    Andrew 25:17's Avatar

    Swan Song

    Even if I don't you much, seeing you around, read your blogs etc was quite a constant, will be weird to not see it again, anyway wish you good luck with this new chapter, bye Butterfly!
    Posted 05-11-2023 at 11:55 PM by Andrew 25:17 Andrew 25:17 is offline
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    Swan Song

    Thank you, Butterfly, for all you have done to make this community a great and welcoming one! *salute*
    Posted 05-11-2023 at 06:00 PM by wolf82 wolf82 is offline
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    DeepInnerFreak's Avatar

    Swan Song

    This is such sad news. To me you are gD.

    It will not be the same without you.

    Thank you for lots of fun times on here. Thank you for making me feel part of this community, for all the little adminy things you have helped me with and for not covering me in glitter too much

    I know our friendship will carry on outside of gD, but it's still sad to think you won't be around here.

    <3
    Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:58 PM by DeepInnerFreak DeepInnerFreak is offline
    Updated 05-11-2023 at 06:00 PM by DeepInnerFreak (Stupid spelling error. Reason: Fat fingers.)
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    Azyliux's Avatar

    Swan Song

    While I haven't been active here for very long, I was a quiet lurker for many years and have seen the huge contribution you have made to getDare during that time.

    Thank you!

    All the best for the future where ever it takes you.

    Azyliux
    Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:25 PM by Azyliux Azyliux is offline
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    Swan Song

    Good luck on your journey
    Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:23 PM by centurion01 centurion01 is offline
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    Early Butterfly gets the Worm

    I'm here! I've seen you again! I hugged you! After all this time it feels great to be back!

    But that cage.... its so small! You made me crawl in there just to test it out and I need to lie in a fetal position!

    Right now you are still sleeping and I am eagerly waiting for you to wake up.
    I am both scared and excited about what these two weeks bring!
    Posted 04-07-2023 at 05:29 AM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    Cstelle's Avatar

    Early Butterfly gets the Worm

    Jaro's excitement (earlier, in his blog) was contagious - but your is worse! I want daily reports about your adventures! I can't live without hearing how it goes! What can I do to ensure reports? What do you want to be bribed with?
    Posted 04-06-2023 at 02:09 AM by Cstelle Cstelle is offline
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    Switchy Switch

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    Originally Posted by Jaro View Comment
    This is awesome! I am so happy you found someone you are comfortable switching with.
    But what is an ottoman?
    This is an ottoman
    Posted 04-03-2023 at 09:49 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Switchy Switch

    This is awesome! I am so happy you found someone you are comfortable switching with.
    But what is an ottoman?
    Posted 04-03-2023 at 09:13 PM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    DeepInnerFreak's Avatar

    Switchy Switch

    I have definitely faced issues with partners not being able to switch with me. I generally don't have too much of a problem, but I have found more often than not a sub will see me differently after a topping session and it can make things messy. I guess it removes the Dommy façade for some. Others just are not comfortable with it at all which is totally fine. Like you I came to the conclusion it's best not to go there unless it's been thoroughly thought through and needs discussed. My last sub for example was more than eager to be mean to me on occasion. So happy that you can switch with your Dom. Personally I think it's beautiful to be able to see that part of someone. (if it's naturally there and not forced) I find you do feel so much closer to them but totally get why in most cases it does not work. Surprised to hear he did not receive a small glitter parade as he came though

    Thanks for posting, it made me smile
    Posted 04-03-2023 at 04:07 AM by DeepInnerFreak DeepInnerFreak is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    Intro to Breathplay

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    Originally Posted by DeepInnerFreak View Comment
    Another awesome example of your Dom going at a slow steady pace and building up to things for you. It's so lovely to see. My experience with breath play was to the point you reached (although we kinda just jumped into it after discussing). We were both comfortable going for the me pinching her nose and covering her mouth with her hand as we had sex. As pointed out so much trust has to be there to try this. Their life is literally in your hand(s) as you say. It's so hot though. Not sure I would ever go further with it as this did the trick and I've heard some awful stories of this play going wrong. Thank you for sharing
    I think I feel pretty similar to you. I don't think I would take this play much further, but for now this is so freaking hot and I am so excited to continue to explore this.
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 04:46 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    DeepInnerFreak's Avatar

    Intro to Breathplay

    Another awesome example of your Dom going at a slow steady pace and building up to things for you. It's so lovely to see. My experience with breath play was to the point you reached (although we kinda just jumped into it after discussing). We were both comfortable going for the me pinching her nose and covering her mouth with her hand as we had sex. As pointed out so much trust has to be there to try this. Their life is literally in your hand(s) as you say. It's so hot though. Not sure I would ever go further with it as this did the trick and I've heard some awful stories of this play going wrong. Thank you for sharing
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 04:30 PM by DeepInnerFreak DeepInnerFreak is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    Doctor Slothy

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    Originally Posted by Azyliux View Comment
    I would certainly assist in reviewing those notes carefully, Dr Sloth, if you were to post them. Purely to ensure appropriate academic rigor and to provide a second medical opinion, as I'm sure you understand.

    Did you collect any medical imaging from the session to review? If not, perhaps in a follow up appointment.

    And Pluky: Surely Dr Sloth wouldn't be old enough for you?
    Omg! Don't encourage him!
    No images were collected, just fluids.
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 03:52 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    Doctor Slothy

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    Originally Posted by DeepInnerFreak View Comment
    This does sound super fun. Not ever done RP either, but I think because of an amusing story line and all the equipment/papers/reports etc it has taken the cheesiness to such a high level it almost doesn't register. It becomes less about the RP and more about the fact that you have two people just inspecting and touching adding heightened awareness to the humiliation. Loved reading about it
    Yeah, the emotions and feelings were real and so it didn't feel so much like a roleplay. Also my participation was mostly just laying there so that made it easier lol
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 03:51 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    Doctor Slothy

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by SleepySloth View Comment
    I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Perhaps I should post the notes we took to get the medical communities opinion for my study.

    Sincerely , Dr. Sloth


    That clearly isn't necessary.
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 03:50 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    Doctor Slothy

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    Originally Posted by pluky View Comment
    I felt second hand embarrassment just reading your last description lol xD
    Gah! Right??? I literally just laid there and hid for 10 minutes after the last exam was done.
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 03:48 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    Doctor Slothy

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Jaro View Comment
    Honestly, this really does sound HOT! The combination of embarassement and being literally so exposed. I am glad to read how subby it made you feel!

    Btw, I think Dr. Slothy is a great name!
    Well I am glad to book you an appointment with Dr. Butterfly while you are here!

    Hehe, I know it is. Though the actual name on his clipboard was Dr. (his real name)y
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 03:48 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Azyliux's Avatar

    Doctor Slothy

    I would certainly assist in reviewing those notes carefully, Dr Sloth, if you were to post them. Purely to ensure appropriate academic rigor and to provide a second medical opinion, as I'm sure you understand.

    Did you collect any medical imaging from the session to review? If not, perhaps in a follow up appointment.

    And Pluky: Surely Dr Sloth wouldn't be old enough for you?
    Posted 04-02-2023 at 03:25 PM by Azyliux Azyliux is offline
    Updated 04-02-2023 at 03:32 PM by Azyliux

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