2020 was a heck of a year for all of all...in different ways with different challenges, for all that survived it we can consider ourselves warriors or extremely lucky!

For me the year started with me coming out of a haze, rebuilding a life and soul that had been broken.

I spent time with friends, going out and socialising, climbing and exercising, dealing with a certain Toxic Ex in the office...

The beginning of the year brought my first taste of travel for...

The last minutes of 2020 had me submerged in pleasure, swept away by one orgasm after another. The first day of 2021 brings a new promise—a year of denial.

When I joined getDare in October, kink was mostly about anal fun and the pleasure of pain—spanking, clamps, the idea of giving someone the power to hurt me and love it. I rarely went more than two days without an orgasm. On lazy days, I used to have more than one over the course of a day. Pleasure was uninhibited. When I submitted...

In my last blog post I told my coming out story. I came out as a crossdresser to my partner of 2 years and surprised to say its been a weird few days for the 2 of us.

The past few days have been full of emotion for both of us, there have been so many questions and I have tried to answer all of them as truthfully as I can.

My partner is still very confused and has been very truthful in saying that she's not completely comfortable with the idea.

Her first 3...

Hello this is my deny me with exercise blog from my thread! I’m going to try and update here as often as I can

For anyone who didn’t follow the thread starting today (January 1st 2021) I am going into denial until I finish the exercises listed below. Once I’ve finished all the exercises I’ve got another 70 days of denial added on for punishment for not replying to everyone.

Exercises are:

1. Jumping Jacks - 1340
2. Push ups - 1320
3. Crunches - 1280
4. Squats - 1400
5. Bicep

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So firstly to make this clear, I am not talking about GD with this post...I am not opening that can of worms!

But through the therapy I have had this year, I can call myself a survivor for some of the relationships I've endured and some of the people who have come into my life only to try and ruin it.

I think everyone has at some point encountered someone toxic, whether it be at home, in the workplace or in relationships, maybe even some of your friends have turned out to...

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Masochist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
100% Degradee
99% Pet
93% Experimentalist
92% Slave
89% Ageplayer
83% Brat
77% Boy/Girl
76% Primal (Prey)
63% Voyeur
52% Non-monogamist
9% Vanilla
7% Switch
6% Primal (Hunter)
4% Rigger
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Dominant
0% Sadist...

Today marks my 5 year anniversary here on Getdare, and what a 5 years its been.

Most people who know me on the site know me as an avid crossdresser who likes to dress up whenever I have the chance, I've made so many friends here on GD who have seen me in a whole host of outfits. GD has been a massive source of confidence boosting for me and people such as MaidJay and Ethancole have been so amazing and people Like Victoria85 have been so inspiring to me, so I thank everyone Ive spoken...