Random ramblings of a vivacious horny individual.
Hey Slut: I dare you to read this.
Posted 07-27-2011 at 10:23 AM by bodacious
Updated 07-27-2011 at 03:39 PM by bodacious (GRAMMAR MISTAKES)
Updated 07-27-2011 at 03:39 PM by bodacious (GRAMMAR MISTAKES)
Ok, I love being called a dirty worthless piece of shit slut as much as the next girl, but sometimes guys need to realize where the line is. I'm not always going to be in the mood to be degraded and verbally abused. Especially if I've never had a conversation with you before.
So, if a guy who I've never talked to, never saw in the forums, never even knew existed radomly decides to send me a PM saying "i dare u 2 add me on skype nd b my slave" I'm inclined to ignore your ass. In fact, I respect myself too much half the time to even respond and correct guys like this. (I've gotten this 'dare' several times and people that send these types of PMs reek of the stench of horny little newbies trying to bust a nut.)
And for all the guys who send girls PMs like that, stop. It's not original or daring. It's annoying. And you can't be surprised when a girl says no. In fact, some guys try to take it a step farther, and act like you're so below them that they can order you to do something to make yourself worthy. Direct quote from a person that seriously pissed me off:
"I'm not here losing time, so if you want a real punishment, you must send me a photo from you naked, doggy style, one finger in the ass, a banana inside pussy, no need to show face if you don't want.
If you do this, I'll punish you. "
ARE YOU SERIOUS? BRUH, lemme correct you. I do not know you. We have never had a conversation before. I mean, doggy is my favorite position and most of these are in my likes, not my in my limits.. But I don't know you.I do not owe you anything. Basically, you're giving me a menial task before something else, because you think I'm gonna waste your time? The fact that I replied to that bullshit without cussing your ass out is because I'm a nice little subby.
Let's see, what else makes me mad? People who add my skype without talking to me first. And the first thing they ask, "wanna cam?" And then I look at their bios and they're 15. If you're under 18, don't even fuck with me. Seriously, I'm actually going to take it down soon and delete all the people who only ask me to cam with them. It's pointless. I'm a person, not a voice command porno.
Ok... the point of this rant was to tell guys how to properly approach a female.
1. Talk to her. We can usually tell when you just want to cyber. Even so, you'll get more bonus points and more than a one time fling if you try to befriend first. Let your true intentions be known, but don't act like she owes you something.
2. Be amusing. There are more guys than girls on this site. Acknowledge this. Set yourself apart from the crowd. Approach a female like a person because she is a person. Make a decent conversation.
3. Don't talk to me if you can't use proper grammar. This particularly annoys me so I thought I would include it. I tolerate mistakes and typos - especially if it isn't your first language, but ignorance to the English language is not a good first impression.
4. Lastly, if you don't care to know me as a person, then don't talk to me. Especially if you're going to be rude.
With all that said, this is supposed to be fun. Don't make it so someone regrets checking their PMs or looking at responses on the forums. Just, enjoy yourself and people with similar kink.
Thanks to all the wonderful sluts who read this
So, if a guy who I've never talked to, never saw in the forums, never even knew existed radomly decides to send me a PM saying "i dare u 2 add me on skype nd b my slave" I'm inclined to ignore your ass. In fact, I respect myself too much half the time to even respond and correct guys like this. (I've gotten this 'dare' several times and people that send these types of PMs reek of the stench of horny little newbies trying to bust a nut.)
And for all the guys who send girls PMs like that, stop. It's not original or daring. It's annoying. And you can't be surprised when a girl says no. In fact, some guys try to take it a step farther, and act like you're so below them that they can order you to do something to make yourself worthy. Direct quote from a person that seriously pissed me off:
"I'm not here losing time, so if you want a real punishment, you must send me a photo from you naked, doggy style, one finger in the ass, a banana inside pussy, no need to show face if you don't want.
If you do this, I'll punish you. "
ARE YOU SERIOUS? BRUH, lemme correct you. I do not know you. We have never had a conversation before. I mean, doggy is my favorite position and most of these are in my likes, not my in my limits.. But I don't know you.I do not owe you anything. Basically, you're giving me a menial task before something else, because you think I'm gonna waste your time? The fact that I replied to that bullshit without cussing your ass out is because I'm a nice little subby.
Let's see, what else makes me mad? People who add my skype without talking to me first. And the first thing they ask, "wanna cam?" And then I look at their bios and they're 15. If you're under 18, don't even fuck with me. Seriously, I'm actually going to take it down soon and delete all the people who only ask me to cam with them. It's pointless. I'm a person, not a voice command porno.
Ok... the point of this rant was to tell guys how to properly approach a female.
1. Talk to her. We can usually tell when you just want to cyber. Even so, you'll get more bonus points and more than a one time fling if you try to befriend first. Let your true intentions be known, but don't act like she owes you something.
2. Be amusing. There are more guys than girls on this site. Acknowledge this. Set yourself apart from the crowd. Approach a female like a person because she is a person. Make a decent conversation.
3. Don't talk to me if you can't use proper grammar. This particularly annoys me so I thought I would include it. I tolerate mistakes and typos - especially if it isn't your first language, but ignorance to the English language is not a good first impression.
4. Lastly, if you don't care to know me as a person, then don't talk to me. Especially if you're going to be rude.
With all that said, this is supposed to be fun. Don't make it so someone regrets checking their PMs or looking at responses on the forums. Just, enjoy yourself and people with similar kink.
Thanks to all the wonderful sluts who read this
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God. I love you for this <3Posted 07-27-2011 at 12:32 PM by CollaredBlondie 
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THANK YOU SO MUCH! I'M SO GRATEFUL I USED CAPS LOCK! and then it got annoying. Really, though. Thank you.Posted 07-27-2011 at 06:55 PM by meeacaroline
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I'm glad you guys approve.
Posted 07-27-2011 at 09:25 PM by bodacious
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Posted 07-27-2011 at 11:38 PM by SlutPuppy
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Well said. Way too often do I see idiots thinking that just because someone says they're a slave or a sub, that they can automatically order them around. Then when anyone with sense tells them no, they try and say how the sub/slave isn't a "real" sub/slave, but only a fake, as a real one would do as they're told.
It's all crap in the end, and the first thing anyone who wants to be a dom or master should do, is show others respect. It's like anything else in life, if you wish to be respected, you have to show you respect others, and the only sub or slave you'll ever get by being a charmless nurk is either a fake that's actually a guy wanting to get off, or someone just desperate to be used but not actually interested in anything serious. (and generally, the only pictures they'll send will be of other people)
The saddest thing though, is that the idiots that send that crap wont ever read this, because they mass PM people normally, and if they only get one response out of 100, that's enough to keep them happy, while the 99 who told them to get stuffed wind up feeling that's what most people are like, as those mass PMs tend to go to newbies.
Your last line is correct (well, second to last line) it's fun, and that's what it should be. Consensual fun between people who respect each other, with tops who look out for the bottoms.
Also, report anyone requesting cam/pics if they're under 18 for sure.Posted 07-28-2011 at 07:03 AM by pranadevil 
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It just shows that people don't understand female and there submission...
To me it is a gift that the girl decides to give.. many Dom/mes just thingk if you say your sub/slave think they own you already...Posted 07-28-2011 at 12:43 PM by intoxicated
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great post!
i agree with everything.
More people should read this
so we can raise awareness of
stupid space consuming PMSPosted 07-28-2011 at 05:07 PM by scarlite
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Wow... the fact that people think that is just another sign that they know nothing about this lifestyle. I just wish more people took the time out to educate themselves before they just jumped in - and I wish they would remember that there are people in these sub suits (people with limits and common sense).Quote:Originally Posted by intoxicated
many Dom/mes just thingk if you say your sub/slave think they own you already...Posted 07-30-2011 at 08:30 AM by bodacious
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awesome post
totally agree!Posted 07-30-2011 at 02:01 PM by princessjessie
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Just happened to check out some of your blogs and this one seriously needs stickied, or be set as a forced read for people before joining. Im not a girl but Ive heard from lots of them that they get tasks like this often.Posted 01-22-2013 at 04:15 PM by Shadowice
