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Just a few submissive fantasies ...

Posted 05-22-2022 at 08:33 PM by Butterfly

Breath play
Breath play has always been something that I have said was outside my risk profile, however, I have always found porn with themes of breath play really hot. Lately I have been fantasizing about exploring breath play just a bit irl. Maybe I would be sitting at my computer, doing some work, and he would appear and with the simple command "hold your breath", I would stop breathing and wait desperately for him to allow me to take a breath. An even more exciting scenario is being told to hold my breath while I am edging, and maybe even during an orgasm.

Of course I do fantasize about him putting his hand over my mouth and physically stopping me from breathing, or maybe having to breath through a straw or tube so that I have to really control my breath. But that is a bit of a scarier scenario. I am not sure if I will ever trust somebody enough to go there. But the thought is certainly hot.

Pee Desperation & Forced Wetting
A big theme bouncing around my head of late. However, it doesn't have to mean just being commanded to pee my pants. Rather, I would be told I am not to use the toilet without permission. I would desperately ask to go and be continuously denied. As I start to dance around, I would be allowed to strip to my panties and sit on the toilet. The familiar position further teasing my stressed bladder. Desperation climbing, maybe he would allow me to go, or maybe, I would be forced to pee through my panties.

Another scenario might find me naked in the shower with no water running (or even more humiliating - fully clothed), standing and waiting to be allowed to pee. To add to the humiliation maybe he is on the phone with me and will hear as my piss runs down my legs and tinkles onto the shower floor, echoing through the bathroom.

Test Subject
I have never been a huge fan of roleplay, it just feels cheesy and fake, but I do like the idea of being somebodies test subject and having experiments performed on me "for science". Maybe I have to be fully inspected first. This could be a bit clinical/medical themed. But then he would perform experiments on me. Maybe we would both hypothesize and see who is closest to the correct answer. Things like:
  • What happens when you kiss while holding the body contact of the violet wand?
  • How long does it take you to cum using just a paint brush and lube?
  • How many edges can you endure in an hour?
  • How much weight can your nipples hold?
  • Is it possible to make you cum from just nipple stimulation?

Dropping me off for the weekend
One of my bigger fantasies involves the idea of Mr. Devious dropping me off at a Dom's house for the weekend. It would be a fully TPE type situation. From the moment that I walked in the door, until he picked me up, I would be there's to do with as they pleased. I would have strict rules to follow and would have no control over my own actions. I would essentially exist to please them in whatever way they wish for me to so. Some of my rules could involve a certain state of dress (or undress), having to keep myself aroused and ready for penetration at any time, wearing a plug, not being allowed to speak unless spoken to, having to be lead around on a leash, being responsible for cooking, cleaning and other household duties, etc.

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    Jaro's Avatar
    Cool fantasies!

    I'm really surprised about your TPE fantasy. It seems like pretty extreme. I understand that fantasy, I have it too, but in practice? I am not sure.
    Posted 05-23-2022 at 08:13 AM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    Originally Posted by Jaro View Comment
    Cool fantasies!

    I'm really surprised about your TPE fantasy. It seems like pretty extreme. I understand that fantasy, I have it too, but in practice? I am not sure.
    That's why it is short term, just over a weekend. I know it will be a very intense experience and not sustainable for long term but I think a set period of time would be doable for both parties.
    Posted 05-23-2022 at 08:15 AM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Thenk you Butterfly for sharing some very intimate fantasy you heve. The dropping off for one weekend in condition of TPE, yes is extrem, but in the your option can be realistic and doable with right conditions.

    Given mutual trust and all safe play code of BDSM respected, in the fantasy you tend to immagine he is total stranger to you and Mr. Devious, only a stranger for you (maybe friend of he but you not know) or some one you both know?

    Take care
    sabina
    Posted 06-07-2022 at 09:57 AM by Sabina Sabina is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar
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    Originally Posted by Sabina View Comment
    Given mutual trust and all safe play code of BDSM respected, in the fantasy you tend to immagine he is total stranger to you and Mr. Devious, only a stranger for you (maybe friend of he but you not know) or some one you both know?

    Take care
    sabina
    I don't think a total stranger would work. But I would be happy with either scenario where it was somebody that just Mr. Devious knew/vetted and he was a stranger to me or that he was a mutual friend of ours.
    Posted 06-07-2022 at 07:11 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
 

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