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humiliation survey - likes/dislikes (not a task report)

Posted 04-21-2022 at 04:00 PM by SilverBlue
Updated 07-30-2022 at 05:42 PM by SilverBlue

Disappointed? This is just a survey thing taken from the forum post https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=390576 if you want to do it yourself. It's posted pretty much 'as is' but I've marked my choices in bold.


When choosing your the answers, you can either just highlight items on the list. It is particularly helpful if you indicate which items make you especially wet and squirmy by appending one or more exclamation marks (!).

NB: In the following I use the term "Owner" as a generic term to refer to any of: Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress or Top.

So now, enough with the explanations, onto the humiliation profile in all its glory!

I Core information
What do you look like? (You're expected to tell me what size your tits are, at a minimum.)
Dark Blonde/Brunette, longish straight hair, big smile, slim/fit build, 174cm tall, 89cm hips, 63cm waist, 87cm bust (32D)
What race / ethnicity / nationality are you? European descent.
Are you shy or outgoing? If Iím around the right kind of people, Iím outgoing.
Are you religious? (If so, what faith?) Not really.
Something I can call you by: Fucktoy usually.
Heterosexual, Bisexual or Lesbian? Hetero.

Who you've fantasised about humiliating you?
(Pick one or more options from the list below)

Your Owner (Master/Dom etc)
Someone with power over you (police, soldier, doctor, teacher, boss, relation, friend, bully)
Someone you owe money or favour
Someone who you need something from
Any man or woman who your Owner lends you to
Your blackmailer
Your rapist
Your abductor
Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy

At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realise that humiliation made you wet? Just need a number here. Early teens, 13-16 it developed in my head.

II List of Humiliations
Indicate what items in this list turn you on. Add exclamation marks (!) if it makes your face glow red and your cunt drip uncontrollably.

1. Being Controlled / Owned

Being ordered around
Being made to perform tasks
Being denied orgasm
Not being permitted to wear panties
Not being permitted to wear a bra

Being told what clothes to wear every day
Having to be naked in the house
Being told what you are allowed to eat
Being told when and where you can sleep
Having to eat off the floor
Having to crawl on all fours
Having to ask before you can go pee
Having to pee outside
Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned
Being tattooed to show you're owned
Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly

2. Being put on display

Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public

Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work
Having to bare your tits, ass or cunt in a public place
Being made to dress in a costume for him (schoolgirl, maid, etc)
! Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round
! Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round

Having pictures of you posted onto the web
Being put on display as a whore in a shop window

3. Being treated as a sex object

Being casually groped by your Owner whenever s/he wants
Being groped in public by your Owner
Being groped in public by a complete stranger
Being treated as nothing but a set of holes
Being treated as nothing more than a pair of big tits
Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible

Having to take it up your ass
Having to take it down your throat
Being slapped across your face with his hard cock
Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag
Being gang-banged
Being whored out
! Being used as a party favour
Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre

Being raped

4. Being verbally degraded

Being talked to in a condescending manner
Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion
Being called dirty
Being called a slut
Being called a whore

Being called worthless
Being called stupid
Being called a cunt
Being called a bitch
Being called a pig
Being called a cow
Being talked about to others
Being talked about to others as if you're not there
Having any of the above names written on your body
Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called

5. Being physically hurt

Having your hair pulled
Having your face slapped
Having your tits slapped
Having your cunt slapped
Having your nipples pinched or clamped
Being bent over and having your ass spanked

6. Being disciplined

Being castigated for doing something incorrectly
Being scolded like a naughty girl
Having to write lines
Having to stand in the corner
Being made to apologise for your behaviour
Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment
Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom
Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display

7. Being treated as unimportant

Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your time deliberately wasted
Being ignored altogether
Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant
Him reminding you of your feminist beliefs as he orders you around like a maid
Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's
Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner

8. Having your orgasm controlled

Having to ask permission before you can cum
Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming.
Being made to edge throughout the day to keep your cunt wet and ready
Having to ask permission to touch your cunt
Being locked in a chastity belt
Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (specify length)
Only getting cock in your mouth or ass

9. Being shamed about your body

Being told you're too fat
Being told your tits are too small
Being told you're ugly
Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you
Being compared to other women and told how you fail to measure up

10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation

Having your hands cuffed behind your back
Being kept in chains
Being gagged to stop you talking

Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked
Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will
Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use

11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things

Being spat on
Making you piss yourself
Being pissed on or in
Having to swallow your Owner's piss
Having piss in or over your food
Having cum in or over your food
Having you go out in public with cum over your face
Having you spend the day with cum in your bra and panties
Being gagged with your used panties
Being fucked with a paper bag over your head
Being fucked with your used panties over your head
Being fucked with your head in the toilet
Making you lick the toilet seat clean
Making you hump the toilet
Having your Owner sit on your face
Having a toilet brush shoved up your cunt or asshole to clean it
Making you lick his/her shoes clean
Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes
Being hosed down like an animal
Being made to lie in mud
Being made to spend the night in the barn

12. Controlling your other relationships

Having your private life discussed with family, friends or work colleagues
Having intimate pictures of you, shown to family, friends or work colleagues
Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues
Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues
Giving him/her access to all your computer accounts - email, Facebook, blogs

13. Race play

Having your race treated as inferior
Being made to fuck other races who you wouldn't normally (SB:Variety is the spice of life)
Being called racially insulting names

14. Gender play as humiliation

Making you have sex with a woman if you're straight
Making you have sex with a man if you're a lesbian
Treating all women as inferior to men

15. Your position in your relationship

Letting your Owner have sex with other women
Having to watch or listen to him/her have sex with another
Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want
Being told by your Owner how much more s/he enjoys sex with the other woman
Having to move into the spare room because his lover is now in your room
Having to clean his lover's home as well as yours
Having to buy her clothes, gifts and jewellery
Having to clean her cunt and his cock with your mouth after they've made love
Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to her
Not even having an Owner: you're just the live-in maid for another couple

16. Generic Humiliation

Being laughed at
Being told by your owner what s/he intends doing to you next
Being told that making you feel mortified makes his cock hard
Having to beg him for something you need or want
Having to beg him _not_ to make you do something you don't want to do
Being humiliated to tears
Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on
Having to thank you the person after they've hurt or used you
Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault
Being taunted because your cunt gets wet when you are humiliated

It's pretty fucking hot just reading through that list, don't you think?

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Total Comments 5


  1. Old Comment
    lotusdriver81's Avatar
    That's an interesting insight into your mindset.
    Posted 04-23-2022 at 05:27 AM by lotusdriver81 lotusdriver81 is offline
  2. Old Comment
    Disappointed a little but it was definitely some good insight in to what turns you and and makes you wet which is also pretty hot.
    Posted 04-24-2022 at 08:08 AM by SirD SirD is offline
  3. Old Comment
    SilverBlue's Avatar
    Originally Posted by SirD View Comment
    Disappointed a little but it was definitely some good insight in to what turns you and and makes you wet which is also pretty hot.
    That was kinda my reason for posting it.

    Also because I occasionally get asked what my likes and dislikes are, and this list seemed to cover most kinks.
    Posted 04-24-2022 at 05:12 PM by SilverBlue SilverBlue is offline
  4. Old Comment
    LochyG's Avatar
    I really enjoyed this as a read, like others have said a great insight into what makes you tick
    Posted 04-25-2022 at 01:43 PM by LochyG LochyG is offline
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    bananabob's Avatar
    Very interesting SB! The one that suprised me was being hosed down like an animal. I wouldn't have guessed that one for you.
    Posted 04-25-2022 at 04:54 PM by bananabob bananabob is offline

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