Do you think Jaro did something wrong? Did he make a mistake? Say the wrong thing? Maybe he failed a task that you gave him?

Do you think he deserves a punishment?

Oh well! Shit out of luck.

Only Icey and I can punish our worm. He is ours.

We take punishment very seriously in our dynamic. We only punish Jaro if he has deliberately done something wrong, or if he breaks a rule.

We are not responsible for the way that he acts...

Warning - this was written for the September writing contest and is not a cheerful read. (But it does have a happy ending. Sort of.)

When a person is asked what their earliest memory is, it is usually something light hearted. Maybe playing with parents or older siblings. Getting up to mischief during their early years or playing with a pet. Mine are not like that. My earliest memories consist of being beaten by the one person who was supposed to love and protect me the most. One of the...

This blog was written by Butterfly and myself.

One year ago, Jaro and I joined forces with the lovely IceMaiden. To be honest, I was a bit nervous. I love Icey, but I wasn’t sure how a three person dynamic would work, especially when it would include blackmail.

I was also nervous. I had been in a three person dynamic before but never with blackmail involved and I knew that Butterfly and Jaro had been together for a long time already: What if they decided they didn’t want...

When I applied to be a mod, I did so because getDare means the world to me. This site has changed my life. I have grown so much as a person by exploring and meeting the people I have here. And of course I credit getDare for meeting my husband, Mr. Devious as well.

My life would literally be completely different if I had not come across getDare and decided to sign up. So I wanted to give back.

The other reason I applied to be a mod was to help people. I like being somebody...

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