The details behind my favorite kinks - particularly the why + how. It will be updated as I learn more about myself and evolve through my BDSM experiences. Full, but less detailed list of likes + limits can be found here.


Choking - Preferably with a hand, but a belt will do too. I don’t care for this though if it’s self administered.

Bruising - Whether it’s from spanking, caning, paddling, or cropping.. I love it all. This is one of the few...

So my latest blog is on why I have the limits I have. So let’s start with my Limits. A lot of these are self-explanatory, more so since I posted my 4th blog on masturbation. I don’t do pictures or videos as I don’t want people blackmailing me or posting them online somewhere for all to see as this is my private life and no-one knows about it. Likewise public is all about exposure and there are people I don’t want to have learn about my life, also I’m English. Things like stripping nude in public is illegal...

It was time...

Loves, in general:

- hugs
- cuddles
- kisses
- snuggles
- sleeping late on weekends
- my doggies

Loves / have tried and liked (willing to do again):

- hot showers
- rules
- creative writing
- spanking
- light / moderate humiliation (no name calling)
- body writing
- picture sharing (once trust has been earned)
- orgasm control / denial...

Report on Likes and limits -: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets...it?usp=sharing

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Likes: Stripping, Exhibitionist, Nude/Naked, Strip Games, Hidden Public, Online Exposure, Outdoor (Weather Permitting) Semi Public, Pictures, video.

Limits: Cross-dressing, makeup, pee/poo, mess, diapers, anal/insertion, wedgies, body writing, facials, cum eating, family/friend involvement.

Updated 22/10/2022
Any kinks in purple are done with/for my Dominant or with his approval first only.

Loves:
Spanking, Ice/wax play, restraints, Blogging/written reports/Creative writing assignments, toys, humiliation, verbal name calling and degradation mild/moderate/heavy pain, bruises/abrasions (hidden) body writing, chance games (such as dice games etc), being collared, male superiority play, interrogation, denial, humping, objectification, rough sex,rimming, used as...