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I'm not enough but at least I'm boring enough

Posted 09-05-2018 at 11:43 PM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)

I have always had the feeling that I am not good enough. In sports, art, theater, school, appearance but also now this stupid feeling has expanded into my kinky side. First of all, let me tell you that I understand that what I am about to say is complete bullshit, however I can't stop myself from getting sad over this.

Lately I have been a little sad over the fact that I am boring, more specifically a boring sub. I have heard endless reassurring that this is not the case and that I shouldn't
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I want to be submissive

Posted 08-26-2018 at 10:51 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)

I was about to write an ad about finding a Dom, but I had to erase it 4 times because it didn't feel right. I have tried this before and it never worked, so I decided to rant about it in a blog (where less horny clueless "Masters" will read it). THIS IS NOT AN AD.

I miss being submissive so much. I really crave being controlled, having to ask permission even for the simplest thing like using furniture, I miss having rules and having structure. I miss being bratty and then getting
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My Humanity

Posted 12-17-2016 at 04:59 PM by techiegirl (Memoirs of a Dork)

We've all gotten that message from a Twue Dom declaring us to be their newest slave. There are so many blogs on this subject, the ridiculous messages we'll get with orders to refer to them as Master. It's like they don't see us as human. Just another potential slave. Doesn't matter if you're a dom or a sub, they've decided that you're a slave, their slave no less, and they are the greatest master you're ever going to have.

We all know those annoying messages, but that's not my subject...
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To Grow and Learn

Posted 11-20-2016 at 09:25 PM by techiegirl (Memoirs of a Dork)

I wrote an advertisement in the Master/Slave area on this site like a bagillion years ago. Okay, it was like a year, but so much can change during that year.

I've recently been debating writing a new ad, putting my name back out there since I'm single and ready to mingle. How do I even begin? How do I explain in a simple advertisement the changes I've felt in a year?

I read through my last ad, my only honest ad, and yes those were all things I believed to be true. I believed...
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Fight me, ya punk

Posted 07-23-2016 at 03:13 PM by techiegirl (Memoirs of a Dork)
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I recently became involved in the local scene and I've been going to munches, buying toys, and playing with strangers. One thing I seemed to have forgotten, and I think people just tend to let this slip their minds, is that submission is fucking hard. Yes, dominating/topping/owning someone is difficult too, but I'm going to talk about the strength needed to relinquish control.

People submit for a host of reasons. For me, one of the main forces that draws me towards the S side of a D/s...
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Being a sub: Oh the irony!

Posted 08-12-2015 at 01:33 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

*Warning: This blog may not have an actual point, it may be kind of ranty, I really don't know how it is going to turn out or if it will make any sense*

It isn't a secret. I am a sub. Yes, it is true that I sometimes switch, and I had a 3 month relationship with a wonderful sub earlier this year, but the majority of the time I am a sub. I have identified as a sub since I was 16 and learned all about D/s and BDSM.

I love the feeling of giving up control to somebody who I
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Admonition from top to bottom. Chapter one. The nature of the relationships

Posted 05-09-2015 at 10:23 AM by vladimir_bz_lion
Updated 05-16-2015 at 02:48 AM by vladimir_bz_lion

Come and sit down at my feet, pet. Today, before the end of this conversation, I'll let you ask questions without prior request. Someday you'll have to decide to become someone's slave. If you have, of course, a lot of courage and desire. Often it seems that these two qualities of soul enough to become a slave girl, but it's not quite so. I often think that the main role in taking on the status of play ambition or laziness, one of two things.

What distinguishes a good slave? The desire...
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