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Cass' advice: Very few posts in my thread

Posted 10-16-2018 at 04:21 AM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 10-16-2018 at 06:48 AM by Cassandra

Hello everyone,

Since sometimes I am in the mood of a constructive, friendly reply to a random PM, I thought I could also share it for others:

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I am not getting much posts on my... thread.
Hi new getDare member,

Here is my advice: "those who want respect, give respect". Same is true for thread replies, adds, dares, AMAs, PM dares, blog comments, attention at all.
Give it some time. Join other threads. Comment. Be active. Contribute....
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Kink-Life-Balance

Posted 10-07-2018 at 12:39 PM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)

Hi everyone,

At certain times, I have been horny as fuck, especially when in chastity for longer, but also in general it just happens every once in a while. That's great. But, life isn't just sex, or kink, or giving up a certain amount of control, self-degration for the pleasure of others, or waste of time alone. There's also breathing, drinking, sleeping, eating, social life, being sick, being not in the mood at all, or oblegations, ooooooooor ... vacation.

Since I am...
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A Rant About Limits

Posted 07-11-2018 at 11:35 AM by BastyTheKitty
Updated 07-22-2018 at 08:59 PM by BastyTheKitty
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So, I've seen some shit on this site that absolutely should not stand, and even worse is I don't see people fighting against it. The GD community is, technically, part of the BDSM community and as such should be upholding the standards that come with this title. The biggest issue I've seen is how limits are being handled, and it's absolutely appalling. You can't just fucking decide that because you don't like someone's limits you can make them break the limits, they're there for a reason! I get it, you...
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A little disappointed with GetDare

Posted 03-14-2018 at 04:07 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)
Updated 03-17-2018 at 10:36 AM by lilith_
Tags dares, getdare, rant

I'm starting getting bored and disappointed of GD. It's so hard to find serious people on here who can keep a conversation without dropping their pants after the 3rd message they send me.
All these threads without any kind of depth have started boring me to death. It's not fun seeing a bunch of people giving edges to each other. Where's the creativity? The interesting debates? The people with social skills who don't only want to give impossible tasks?
I know there are a couple of people
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"Add to my" thread advice Part 2

Posted 02-22-2018 at 06:17 PM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 02-23-2018 at 03:29 AM by Cassandra

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15. Your rules guide the players and the game

Whoever designs the rules, determines the behaviors which are rewarded, and the behaviors which are punished. Guess which behaviors people prefer. Do the prefer rewards or punishment (not to mistake for funishments)? So yes, by rewarding what you want them to do, they do it. It's in your hands when you set up the rules.

What do you want your players to do? Do you want your friends to join or others...
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"Add to my" thread advice Part 1

Posted 02-22-2018 at 06:14 PM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 02-23-2018 at 03:25 AM by Cassandra

Disclaimer: I am just a human being without any clue, but I felt inspired to answer to NoLimitz call how to create or make a popular "Add ..." thread.

I had to create my own Loser thread by losing a vote to ChubbyShySissy, still working it off, and started some more Add-threads for other users like for lop747, for Gonzalez, for Buttaholic, for my precious pet astro alias oddjobber, and for spankmeohio. I think my first experiene posting and thereby adding in such threads was
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Stories, ads and dares - My blog is not the forum

Posted 07-02-2017 at 11:54 AM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 07-02-2017 at 11:58 AM by Cassandra

I just had a friend having her blog post removed by getDare.

The getDare staff has to remain some order, for legal and practical reasons alone, moderate and even delete some blog posts. Without it, there wouldn't be getDare at all, or at least not as pleasant as I know it and love it. Many thanks for that, especially since the whole amount of work behind this community site is rarely seen.
@getDare staff: Many many thanks! I love you for that.

I also had one of my blog...
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