Do you use safewords when you play? If so, which words do you like to use? What do they mean to you?

Ok a multipart question for todays blog entry as part of Butterfly's blogging thread

Do you use safewords?
Absolutely, yes. I am also a firm believer everyone should use safewords. You know your body best, you know when enough is enough. Without a safeword a partner could cause serious harm or damage to you both mentally and physically. So yes, absolutely. But I rarely...

When people get to know me, and they learn that I have a kinky husband. A husband that I met through getDare, a husband who was once my Dom, they always wonder - why isn't he my Dom now? What happened?

In short my answer is that Mr. Devious loves me too much. I know that sounds silly. Mr. Devious is a wonderful Dom, but the love and the life that we share prevent him from being the best fit for me as a Dom.

Let me explain a little better ...

Finding time...

This blog is written as part of Butterfly's 30 days of kinky blogging (thread here.


Ok, this is a really challenging first post for me. There are definitely loads of things I've never tried but I've never considered creating a bucket list. There are a lot of things I'm curious about trying but know in reality I would possibly chicken out of so it was hard to make a list of 10.

1. Messy - very broad I know. I have tried some messy tasks before and I have enjoyed them...

Dares are only accepted as an PM, but from any sex and any role.
More rules are maybee coming soon...
Just in the making / creating...


PM EDGE and I will edge the x amount that's is given to me

PM SLAVE I will be your slave for x hrs (max. 24 hrs)

PM ROLE MODEL send me any oral themed porn and i try to replay the person you say

PM PAIN SESSION you can create a play session up to 2 hrs and i will have to to it step by step...

My likes/punishments:
oral and anal abuse, BJ training, deepthroat training, nipple torture(hard and long), cbt, pain(up to hard/extrem), position training, bit of cumplay, denied, cum control and edging,
open for trying new stuff within my limits

My limits:
direct a2m, diaper, wetting, public, blood, scat, pee ore toilet games, family and friends, financial, illegal, blackmail, food, messy, waisting time.
If i find a new limit i will tell you
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Original version (in Spanish) below.

TWO HOURS BEING A DOG
I pulled my "toy" bag out from under the bed and grabbed the dog mask and tail plug to spend the next few hours being a doggy in the privacy of my own home. I also took out a dog bone that I have, and the feeder and I already went to get naked (honestly, at the time, I didn't feel like putting on a harness).

I have to say that where I live, it is currently very cold and I avoid turning on the heating...

Over the last 6 months, Sir and I have been exploring rules, boundaries, tasks we both enjoy, tasks he enjoys more than me and generally getting to know each other and develop our relationship. Luckily, it's all going amazingly well and both of us are happy.

Recently, Sir and I have been exploring different clothing for sleeping in. Determining which one is most humiliating or embarrassing for me to sleep in - which sounds ridiculous when I live alone and have no reason to be embarrassed...