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    Some of my issues with getdare

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    omg yes this one happens to me too and it’s always kind of disturbed me but I didn’t know why. But thinking about it bit more it’s like, I didn’t consent to be part of your play and you’ve involved me involuntarily.
    I think this is what's known as coercive control.
    It's obviously a way some people use to try to 'make you' converse with them. Through you being polite and responding, or through giving you a guilt trip.
    Just try to ignore them and don't worry about their games.
    They don't deserve your attention if they behave in that way.

    Oh ... and don't feel obliged to respond to this comment
    Posted 11-12-2023 at 04:40 PM by sq34ky1 sq34ky1 is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

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    They also sometimes try to force you into participating into their kink by stating your non reply IS a reply, for example some perfect stranger wants you to say if yes or no he can cum, and if you ignore them they state that your lack of reply will be taken as a no, now you're put in the position of someone denying orgasm without your consent :|
    omg yes this one happens to me too and it’s always kind of disturbed me but I didn’t know why. But thinking about it bit more it’s like, I didn’t consent to be part of your play and you’ve involved me involuntarily.
    Posted 08-20-2023 at 11:15 AM by SluttySarah SluttySarah is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    They also sometimes try to force you into participating into their kink by stating your non reply IS a reply, for example some perfect stranger wants you to say if yes or no he can cum, and if you ignore them they state that your lack of reply will be taken as a no, now you're put in the position of someone denying orgasm without your consent :|
    Posted 07-23-2023 at 08:30 PM by pluky pluky is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    Number three is not a kink thing and not specific to girls, not even close. Like, sure, the women of getdare will have to deal with a higher percentage, but the number of male subs who don't accept "no, I'm straight, I'm sub, I'm off-limits" from me is disgusting. And you see it happen in chat too... We're not kink dispensers, just go watch porn...
    Posted 07-23-2023 at 04:36 PM by DoingMyBest DoingMyBest is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    I know that a number of people agree with you! The site has its faults in regard to issues. There are people who just don't care about reading limits and etc. Or, they cannot understand the purpose behind them. The site, is just taken seriously only by a percentage of the people.
    Posted 07-15-2023 at 09:05 AM by MasterDaddy02 MasterDaddy02 is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    Yes, totally agree about 5. Also the liars and the fakes can be tiresome. Kinda feel it’s almost totally KIK centric, which is sad as I only use Skype. Also feel a lot of threads are just about instant gratification, so no real opportunity to get to know how someone really “ticks”.
    Posted 07-14-2023 at 06:48 AM by Masterwants Masterwants is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    I think I know some of the blogs you mentioned. I always assume they are just sex fantasy, or at least is partically fictional. Because the things described are way too dangerous to actually do it in real life. In my mind being caught by the police won't be the worst thing that could happen if they actually did what they say.

    However I do have some issues with the "lairs" on here. My issue is towards the ones that either would never finish dares yet always come back and begging for more, or the ones that aren't really who they say they are. I think those are worse.
    Posted 07-14-2023 at 05:09 AM by Garry0993 Garry0993 is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    Are you sure 5 wasn't fiction in some cases ? But yeah someone was claiming to work naked in their blogs and I didn't the feeling it was supposed to be fiction, I was a bit perplexed.
    Posted 07-14-2023 at 04:13 AM by pluky pluky is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    I agree with Qwerty: point 3 happens to girls, and represents, IMO, the transposition, in GD scale, of the sexist wave that's sadly taking place in today's society (non)culture. For some people (too much, for my tastes) it looks like time is running backward, females are classified as 'angels' or 'sluts' (easy to shift from angels to sluts, impossible the opposite), and the 'sluts' are meat to satisfy any desire of anyone (not to talk about LGBTQIA+ world).

    It's sad to say, but the saddest thing is that I feel like in the society the common response to this phenomenon is veering towards puritanism, leaving the people that wants to live its sexuality freely, without inhibitions and constraints or violence, in a no man's land where they are hit, in different ways, by both sides.
    Posted 07-14-2023 at 03:19 AM by redcamel redcamel is offline
    Updated 07-14-2023 at 03:24 AM by redcamel
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    Some of my issues with getdare

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    Well. I don't really read stories here so can't say much to number 5.

    But I agree with the other points.
    3 is indeed a kink thing, at least for me it is a bit, though that works out really bad if it's combination with 1 and they don't have the slightest clue what you like, dislike or they directly want you to break a limit.
    That makes sense, I thought it was something like that. Still feels like people shouldn't assume it will be appreciated though!

    But regardless, glad to hear from others that they have similar experiences - hopefully it'll get better!
    Posted 07-14-2023 at 01:55 AM by SluttySarah SluttySarah is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    Well. I don't really read stories here so can't say much to number 5.

    But I agree with the other points.
    3 is indeed a kink thing, at least for me it is a bit, though that works out really bad if it's combination with 1 and they don't have the slightest clue what you like, dislike or they directly want you to break a limit.
    Posted 07-13-2023 at 10:51 PM by VeronikaAnalSubSlut VeronikaAnalSubSlut is offline
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    Some of my issues with getdare

    I think that 3 really only happens to girls on this site, as I have not had any problems with that. I do agree with all of your points though.

    One other anoying thing that I have noticed that is all of the people spamming threads just trying to get dares without putting any effort into giving out good dares to other people.
    Posted 07-13-2023 at 07:31 PM by Qwerty4569 Qwerty4569 is offline
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    Anal Training Schedule

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    Originally Posted by VeronikaAnalSubSlut View Comment
    Great to hear your making progress.
    I was never a fan of glass toys the fear of them breaking always deters me from it. Even if the possibility is basically zero.
    Anyway, keep it up
    Thank you!! I was sick for a few days but I've started the training now It's still really hard for me to take the 2.25'' large hush plug, not to mention the new 2.36'' plug... I feel a little embarassed I still can't take the 2.25'' plug easily since I've had it for months but it's also so big I'm surprised I can take it at all. I think the big hush plug is a bit too long for me. I'm pretty small lol, so the 2.36'' plug is actually sometimes easier to work in me. If you have any advice or fun ideas for me I'm always willing to try!!
    Posted 06-14-2023 at 08:39 AM by SluttySarah SluttySarah is offline
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    Anal Training Schedule

    Great to hear your making progress.
    I was never a fan of glass toys the fear of them breaking always deters me from it. Even if the possibility is basically zero.
    Anyway, keep it up
    Posted 06-02-2023 at 11:23 PM by VeronikaAnalSubSlut VeronikaAnalSubSlut is offline
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    Toys

    Well take a deep breath and ease it on in there lol. I'm also working on upping plug sizes. Its not easy at all so I feel for you lol
    Posted 02-27-2023 at 12:50 PM by lotusdriver81 lotusdriver81 is offline
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    Toys

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    Wow that lovense is big. I can imagine it being tough to get that in.
    Yeah, only got it in me once and it took sooo long and even then it was a little forced and rather scary! Planning on only using it after some more practice with the other 3 plugs.
    Posted 02-26-2023 at 09:49 AM by SluttySarah SluttySarah is offline
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    Toys

    Wow that lovense is big. I can imagine it being tough to get that in.
    Posted 02-26-2023 at 06:27 AM by lotusdriver81 lotusdriver81 is offline
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    Got a new toy (and small update)!

    I'm having a similar problem with my anal-snaking toys. I have a 19 in. hose dildo with a fixed width of 1.5 in. And I can plow that right past my sigmoid bend pretty much every time now. There's another part deeper up my colon that I find harder to get past. even when I do, the last 3 or so inches at the bottom put so much pressure on my pelvis that I can't bare it for more than a couple of minutes. the other problem I'm trying to fix is getting those two other sphincters inside my colon to stretch as much as my asshole. I have no problem taking around 8 cm in width. would love to know where you purchased that dildo!
    Posted 11-10-2022 at 01:32 AM by sugarbb sugarbb is offline
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    Got a new toy (and small update)!

    Does it feel like your really full and desperate to poop?
    Posted 06-08-2022 at 11:15 AM by lotusdriver81 lotusdriver81 is offline
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    Got a new toy (and small update)!

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    Originally Posted by lotusdriver81 View Comment
    That looks like quite a challenge. How uncomfortable is it?
    I haven't gotten this one yet (going to pick it up in an hour or two) but the previous one which was 10cm shorter did leave me feeling incredibly full, and inserting the last few beads was rather difficult because it had to work around my sigmoid bend. The few times I managed to get it all in I tried to hold it in me for a little while but because the base is quite thick, and how deep it was in me, I could never keep it in for more than a few minutes before having to push it out. It's also surprisingly heavy and incredibly flexible so when it's all lubed up, unless I get all of it in, I have a tough time keeping it in just using my sphincter muscles.

    So I guess it's definitely pretty uncomfortable to keep in me, especially if it's in really deep and the beads are large. But it feels incredibly pleasurable inserting and pulling out each of the beads since I can feel my sphincter expanding and closing around each bead.
    Posted 06-07-2022 at 02:50 PM by SluttySarah SluttySarah is offline
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    Got a new toy (and small update)!

    That looks like quite a challenge. How uncomfortable is it?
    Posted 06-07-2022 at 10:04 AM by lotusdriver81 lotusdriver81 is offline
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    ME!

    I am also curious what prompted you to become an anal only slut
    Posted 04-23-2022 at 02:30 AM by imperator imperator is offline
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    ME!

    " like to think I'd be the last person you'd expect on this kind of page"

    Quiet, shy, nerdy girls being massive perverted freaks isn't actually all that uncommon. You've bottled up your desires due to your upbringing and they've fermented and festered, finding this kind of a cute if depraved outlet. Its why Im always on the lookout for quiet, shy, nerdy girls, cause when I push the right buttons, I get hit with a geyser of repressed sexual energy :P
    Posted 04-21-2022 at 04:33 AM by imperator imperator is offline

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