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Take care of me
So, this Butterfly is sick and I guess it is making me realize just how important it is for me to have somebody in my life who takes care of me.
Mr. Devious is so wonderful at doing that. He does the housework that I don't like doing, or don't have time for. He cooks for me. He lets me sleep in, puts gas in my car, buys me medicine, put bandaids on me, and gives me snuggles.
Feeling as though I am being taken care of is important to me from a D/s stand point as well. How does that look in a D/s relationship?
There is many more I could add to this list, but Butterfly is now .... *dies*
Mr. Devious is so wonderful at doing that. He does the housework that I don't like doing, or don't have time for. He cooks for me. He lets me sleep in, puts gas in my car, buys me medicine, put bandaids on me, and gives me snuggles.
Feeling as though I am being taken care of is important to me from a D/s stand point as well. How does that look in a D/s relationship?
- Give me a bedtime. It doesn't have to be a regular rule, but enforce a bedtime at times where it is needed. (ie. I have been up way too late all week).
- Parental controls. This can help with bedtime, or even just making me unplug and give me a chance to destress.
- Remind me to take my vitamins or medication.
- Make sure I am eating properly. When I don't feel like eating, encourage me to eat something, and to eat something healthy, not just junk food.
- Ask me about my day, and really listen. Ask follow up questions and provide advice if asked for.
- Encourage me to go to the doctor when needed.
- Provide aftercare after play time. Sometimes this means having chocolate and giggles, other times it is snuggles and quiet time.
- Jump in and protect me when people are being rude, creepy or annoying.
There is many more I could add to this list, but Butterfly is now .... *dies*
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This is a lovely post Butterfly and I really love how Mr D is looking after you so well!
I love your points as well, I think they are really important in any relationship as well as a D/s.
I have to say I struggle with point number 5. I like to think I listen and ask follow up questions, not because I have to but because I really do care and am really interested. I think the part I struggle with is not giving advice unless it's asked for. As a typical bloke I know I can be too quick to suggest solutions and advice when it may not be needed. I get that I should just be listening, but I do find this hard and try my best to keep my mouth shut.Posted 04-29-2019 at 02:00 PM by MastersVoice 
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Always up for chocolate and giggles! You know where to find me gorgeous! Xx
Posted 04-29-2019 at 03:05 PM by LittleMissSass
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Did someone say chocolate?Quote:Originally Posted by LittleMissSass
Always up for chocolate and giggles! You know where to find me gorgeous! Xx
Posted 04-29-2019 at 03:08 PM by MastersVoice
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Pffft suppose you can come tooQuote:Originally Posted by MastersVoice
Did someone say chocolate?
Posted 04-29-2019 at 03:21 PM by LittleMissSass
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Woooo *takes a nibble and munches* thank you LMSQuote:Originally Posted by LittleMissSass
Pffft suppose you can come too
Hope you get well soon Butterfly! Don't worry this piece of chocolate would have made no difference to your recovery time at all. Nope, none whatsoever... oh and don't worry I didn't spill any on my tutu
Posted 04-29-2019 at 03:26 PM by MastersVoice
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Aww I’m so sorry you are sick ♥️ Feel better soon �� sending all of my love your wayPosted 04-29-2019 at 04:24 PM by Peachybaby
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Sorry to hear that you are unwell but glad that you are being looked after. Best wishes for a full and quick recovery!
ConniePosted 04-30-2019 at 07:12 AM by Consensus
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I'm glad you got Mr. Devious to care for you now. It sucks to be sick! Hope you get better soon! Remember to eat healthy and drink plenty of water.
Posted 04-30-2019 at 07:45 AM by Jaro
