I am a 46 year old, straight male Dom or Master.

I play casually on getDare as a dare and task giver, and generally participate in kink discussion and learning. I rarely (never) accept dares or tasks, but I love giving them out so my likes and limits here are as a Dom, Master, Top, or general Dare Giver.

I have experience with many forms of BDSM kink but my primary kink is submission and control. This means that I am generally willing to take account of your personal kinks and...

This post won’t be about anal. Ok, scrap that, there will be something about anal. I mean, I have a reputation to uphold.

It’s about much more though—about what makes me tick, what drives my likes, and why I’m going to glare at you if you come near me with a ginger plug. Unless you’re Dungeonmaster, in which case—Yes, Sir.


The Torment Of Pleasure And The Calm Of Submission

My list of likes is like a smorgasbord of treats that can lead me straight into submission....

I was asked recently to put up a more detailed description of my likes and dislikes and I thought it was a wonderful idea to those who would like to know more. This is an addition to my originally “About, Likes/Limits and Rules” blog post, so please check this one out too before you send me and dares or tasks.
Obviously, those are essentially just guidelines, so you know why I like/dislike certain things and what would fit best for tasks/punishments. How you use that information in the end if...

Likes:

- Self-bondage
- Some orgasm control
- Pee-holding
- Some pain
- Ageplay
- Small amount of breath play
- Light anal
- Losing control
- Parental controls
- Rules
- Semi-Public

Dislikes [Used for punishments]:

- Ruins
- Hard spanking
- Denial
- Corner time
- Kneeling
- Humiliation
- Edging

Limits:

- Orgasms...

These are not in any particular order of how much kitten likes/dislikes them

Likes-bondage, petplay(kitten), pee holding, precum, orgasm denial, teasing (no edging), eating without hands, rules

Dislikes (punishments)- cumplay, cum eating, pain, pee, humiliation, body writing, edging, being naked, messy, corner time, spanking, line writing, mouth soaping

Limits-pic,cam,scat,public,illegal,blood,friends,family

Willing to consider trying new things, if it's a problem I'll add it to my limits

Work in Progress (continuously adding and adapting)

Loves: PM Dares/Receiving and Giving avatar/signature/profile changes

Likes:
trying new things, Trap/Trick dares, Loss of control, power exchange, games of chance

*Teamviewer/Anydesk, Account Takeover, Parental Controls

Maybe: Hypnosis

Dislikes/Punishments: writeforme tasks...

About

I'm 25, female (cis) and pansexual. I've always been somewhat submissive, though I don't necessarily need it in my dating life. I've gathered a bit of experience in the past years, though nothing long-term. I'm rather busy right now, so I probably won't be active 24/7 but you can always send me dares and tasks, I'll do them when I can.
I'm in a relationship right now and my girlfriend is more vanilla, however she is okay with me being on here, which means I'm not looking...