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A very short welcome to getDare

Posted 03-23-2020 at 09:10 AM by Cassandra (I love words)
Updated 03-23-2020 at 11:37 AM by Cassandra

Welcome to getDare.
Get and keep
1. Stable, personal boundaries and autonomy
2. An avatar
3. Lists of Likes, Dislikes, Limits, Toys
4. Respect, Good manners, Consent
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Stick to your rules (as long as it is healthy)

Posted 03-20-2020 at 04:46 AM by Cassandra (I love words)

Hello folks, dear readers and friends,

Very recently I had a brief reminder about play and rules again. Last times it was more about overdoing it and taking care of yourself. This time it's not about sticking to rules not only as a paragraph to stick to the rules.

I put up a new add thread, free-for-all this time. So everyone can make a promise there about what to do controlled by others, in this case via posts. And of course, when we make such a promise, we want others...
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Welcome to getDare 2020

Posted 02-07-2020 at 08:52 AM by Cassandra (I love words)
Updated 03-23-2020 at 02:16 AM by Cassandra

Hello lovely new user,

Yes, you, fellow human being!
We highly appreciate you here.
Hopefully you stay with us for longer.
I wish you the best and that you find what you are looking for.
Here are my personal tipps to improve your experience on getDare.

getDare is a community around truth or dare, possibly dipping heavily into BDSM - bondage dominance sadism masochism. It always is based on consent and consent, messaging someone included. So everything...
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Dr. Cass replies: how do I stop getting dared and punished for failure?

Posted 02-07-2020 at 04:09 AM by Cassandra (I love words)
Updated 03-23-2020 at 07:03 AM by Cassandra

Hello friends and readers,

When I recommend how to get in touch and get dared, I almost forget about the other option. Plenty of people only want to look around, have a partner, and don't want to get messaged by random strangers, let alone be dared.

One of those reached out to me asking for advice.

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How do I stop getting dared and punished for failure?
First of all, make sure you didn't post or blog anywhere to get dared recently, and anywhere you did...
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Dr. Cass replies: I get messaged by random people

Posted 09-30-2019 at 01:47 AM by Cassandra (I love words)
Updated 02-05-2020 at 05:54 PM by Cassandra

Hello friends and readers,

There's another problem I like to speak about: getting spammed by random people.

I don't mean getting stalked via message after message by the same person, in which case you should contact the mods if blocking that user doesn't solve it.


I think there's not one miracle solution to it. And even if, I don't have it. All I can do is offer my thoughts. People are people, or maybe trolls, especially on the internet. Let's talk...
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Dr. Cass replies: I don't get any responses

Posted 09-26-2019 at 02:45 AM by Cassandra (I love words)
Updated 09-30-2019 at 01:45 AM by Cassandra

Hello dear readers,

Another letter from a getDare user reached my office:

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Originally Posted by Sweetheart Anonymous
I still couldnt really reach anybody here to get responses.
With the missing pretext, it's about getting responses to the most polite messages even with an avatar!

While I might have answered that before, I try to address the issue in short:


NEVER message random people!
Never request friendship without further communication.
Never...
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Why you miss what you are looking for - and how to easily find it

Posted 06-21-2019 at 08:19 AM by Cassandra (I love words)



So you took together everything it needed, created an account, and just posted what you like to get by us other users here. But, nobody replies. So much nobody, that you start to bump your thread. Once. Twice. Maybe even a dozen times. Still, nobody replies, or at least you don't get the answer you are looking for.

Here's why, just to help you out.
There seems to be no gate...
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