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My sub vs. Domme styles

Posted 03-31-2019 at 06:56 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I am both a Domme and a sub and recently I have realized that while the two parts of my personality have some similar qualities, there are also quiet a few differences. So I really wanted to write a blog to try and explain.

My Subby side
As a sub, the first word that comes to mind is bratty. This doesn't mean that I am disobedient. However, it does mean that I like to have fun. I like to find loopholes in tasks, make my Dom laugh by saying bratty things, or even leaving glitter
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Flirting & Crushes

Posted 03-30-2019 at 09:21 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

So .... I am a friendly person. Sometimes that gets me in trouble because it gives the wrong message. People will read my friendliness as being flirty and I truly don't mean to do that. I just naturally come across as flirty. However, it is just a part of my personality. I don't even realize that I am doing it most of the time.


But I am also flirt blind. If
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Losing somebody ... the scariest part

Posted 03-29-2019 at 10:45 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Just something that has been on my mind over the last few days ...

The scariest part about relationships, about loving somebody, caring about somebody, letting them into your world, opening yourself up and being vulnerable is that there is always a chance that one day you are going to wake up and they won't be there.

This is especially true in the online world. It is so easy for people to just ghost you. Maybe they don't want to hurt your feelings, or they got in over
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Deathmoth

Posted 03-28-2019 at 12:00 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-28-2019 at 12:08 PM by Butterfly

For some reason people don't seem to believe that I am scary and mean. They always think I am this sweet, cute, adorable little Butterfly. But I am big, and mean and scary!!!!

To prove that, I need to introduce you to my alter ego, Deathmoth!


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Originally Posted by IHeartFun
im not sure how Jaro handles being Butterfly's sub. After 3 weeks I'd quit cause she's so scary. I can't believe they're on years.
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Suicide Prevention

Posted 03-26-2019 at 11:53 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)


I have struggled throughout my life with mental illness: depression and anxiety mostly. I have used self harm as a coping mechanism since the age of 14. Although I have never had thoughts about wanting to no longer be here, or wanting to end my life, I know plenty of people who have.

When I was 15 I had to call my best friends parents to tell them that she was
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The Effects of Edging and Denial

Posted 03-24-2019 at 04:58 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I created a thread awhile ago asking for topic ideas for blogs. One of the suggestions that came from sissyBrittx was to discuss the the effects that edging and orgasm denial has in subs physically, mentally and emotionally.

I felt like this is something that I couldn't really comment on alone, and so I sent out some PMs asking fellow getdarians to help me give a wider view on this subject. In this blog I will share my own thoughts and feelings, but will also be providing quotes from
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Blushy Butterfly

Posted 03-23-2019 at 10:50 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
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For those that knew me when I first joined getDare, you might remember that I used to be super blushy. It wouldn't take much for me to hide my face with my blanket or hands, or the move that my roomates coined as "turtling" (putting my head inside my shirt).


Just talking on the phone with Mr. Devious would make my voice go high and squeaky. Knowing that somebody
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