Some people. like me cant meet people in person, because we don't connect well in new situations and the people that are in our everyday lives don't fit us. So for some people it is easier to meet other people online, in groups where their interests line up. So it is hurtful to tell people that meeting others online and
forming relationships is unhealthy, because for some it is easier and more comfortable.

and for some people, these fetishes keep us sane, because it something...