Hi all,

In a previous blog post, I introduced the idea of doing sexual tasks to 'earn' money set aside for the purchase of kinky/sexy stuff. The trouble with that system was that it was hard to come up with a set of tasks you'd be willing to do and it was hard to tune the system so you could consistently 'earn' money to set-aside.

I have since realised that desired routines are more suited to this system, and so have devised a set of routines and rules that should work...

What do I love about being required to wear a butt plug to bed? First, there’s what I love about wearing a butt plug generally - the sense of fullness, the pressure on my internal organs. I adore the feeling as my ass stretches around its widest point, then returns to a smaller opening quickly after as it reaches the base. The mild discomfort that pervades when I am still, and the way the plug constantly reminds me of its presence when I move.

Being required to wear one by a dominant person...

I received a task in early January 2014 to write "I am a bad girl. I must follow instructions." continuously over two sides of standard paper, dressed in a "suitable" outfit of my choosing, bound to my chair & blindfolded. I've decided today to publicise it. Here's my report from that task:

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I did the writing task here, and wrote the following essay. It's 329 words, which fits into the ±10% rule that my uni had.. Don't know if it applies around here though!

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Hello all!

I've developed a (somewhat effective) system for encouraging myself to do kinky things more regularly.

It relies on a couple of things:

• You ideally ought to already have some toys
• You must be willing to give up control of your purchases of new toys

The Concept

You write down tasks you would be willing to do on some cards, one task per card. In addition, add one or more cards similar to the following: "Buy a sex toy", "Buy...

I just bought some cheap wooden clothes pegs. I cannot advocate strongly enough for them in preference over plastic pegs, though I haven't tried the plastic ones with rubber grips.

I've always had a problem getting plastic pegs to stay on me, my skin is soft but there's not a lot extra to stretch out, so they tend to not have enough to hold on to, and would be a pain to get on, and would usually fall off soon after.
Fortunately the slightly rough texture of the wooden ones is much...

Here's a list of all the toys & such I have.

Toys:

• Tiny black buttplug
• Medium black silicone plug w/ ball bearing (jiggles around and feels good!)
• Medium Lovense Hush (remote control / app controlled plug)
• Large black silicone plug w/ ball bearing
• Large black silicone buttplug (ok but a bit large for extended wear)
• Far-too-big black silicone buttplug (haven't ever tried - a bit intimated)
• Small purple silicone p-spot butt plug (ideal for extended wear)
• Stiff bead-like

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