Hey hey...
It's been a while since I did a blog...or really much of anything of value on this site, so I thought I'd do a little writing

I remember discovering GetDare a long time ago, the site was a lot tamer and smaller then, more of a community of slightly kink curious folk who played more harmless games, sometimes I miss those simpler times...

This site I can say is the reason I discovered a kinkier side to myself, or should I say a big factor in making me...

I've been back I guess a few months now...focusing on my WamPalooza thread (please check out bets and challenges for this fun messy game!) and dabbling here and there...
The last couple of days I've actually had some time at home, life got busy once restrictions came down!
I decided to try and be more active, reach out to some people...and in an attempt to get more interest in my game I've been trying to invite people who would be interested...

It is a bit of a quiet week,...

So after exploring some other sites...do you know what I found?...

Even though this site has it's faults, it's still the best place to run games and have fun with it's unique mixture of people and good forum structure!

So I'm back and I want to help make this a fun and messy place again, so I will be testing my feet into making some messy posts again and trying to run some messy games here and there...we shall see if things take off, though a lot of the messy lovers seem...

2020 was a heck of a year for all of all...in different ways with different challenges, for all that survived it we can consider ourselves warriors or extremely lucky!

For me the year started with me coming out of a haze, rebuilding a life and soul that had been broken.

I spent time with friends, going out and socialising, climbing and exercising, dealing with a certain Toxic Ex in the office...

The beginning of the year brought my first taste of travel for...

So firstly to make this clear, I am not talking about GD with this post...I am not opening that can of worms!

But through the therapy I have had this year, I can call myself a survivor for some of the relationships I've endured and some of the people who have come into my life only to try and ruin it.

I think everyone has at some point encountered someone toxic, whether it be at home, in the workplace or in relationships, maybe even some of your friends have turned out to...

Hello reader...I am not a morning person...you may ask why I am writing at 8:30am if this is the case...?

Well, firstly, being on this site I look for interesting people to talk to, in fact being here is one of my main social interactions right now...with the holiday season and me being trapped in Warsaw during a Lockdown...well it's hard to see people right now, everyone has their own life...and mine, well it is not so rich right now, I feel a little isolated and this is one of the reasons...

Merry Christmas!

This year, I think we need to say that more than normal as many of us will be having a hard time of it this year, we may have lost loved ones or friends, we may have been ill, we may have faced hardship with work...we may have been trapped inside more than normal...it's been a hard year for everyone.

The British spirit is to keep your chin up, we shall endure until we have better times upon us...things can always get worse, so let's focus on making things...