Just a rainbow with some kink.
♥ 365 days of being Deschut's subby ♥
Tags anniversary, bdsm, long distance, relationship, sadist
365 days...
and approximately...
(Deschut has been my dommy for a full year* now. I can't even believe it, but it is really true! I have done so many incredibly hard things for him, but he also listens, cares for me a great deal, and makes me always feel safe, cared for, and protected.
We have had a few hard days, 3 to be exact, where one of us made a mistake, but the incredible thing is that with a short conversation, some good communication, and with love, we were able to resolve the problems and move forward even better than before.)
Deschut: When we started, the first few weeks were overwhelmingly intense, exciting and fun. It seemed at the time like it could not possibly last at that intensity, or that it must somehow be unreal.
Over the past year you have become one of my favorite people on the earth. I really think the world of you and honor your personality, dedication, enthusiasm and care. I cherish the times we spend talking about our lives, laughing together, and our amazingly perfect play.
Being your subby is sometimes very very difficult, but it is also the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I love how you always continue to push me to do more, to grow and explore new things. It is so amazing that what we have is still just as exciting and fun as it was those first few weeks, and that it continues to be so so perfect.
* Nice words is what I call the words of affection that constitute most of online aftercare.
* It was technically 4 punishments, but all at the same time.
*It has not technically been a year, it will be in a week. I started working on this over a month ago, and could not contain myself anymore before showing Deschut!
and approximately...
146,000 spanks
43,800 kiks
16,425 nice words*10,950 hours of laughing
7,761km between us
3,600 naughty pictures
1,460 hours bound2,555 edges
1,000 (number of times I think of you each day.)
336 emails565 tasks
295 reports
270 days of denial
200 nights of sleeping tasks210 hours on webcam
184 dead batteries
111 hours of fucking myself with the dildo
9 limits dropped38 new toys.
6 (times I've cried)
3 bumpy days
365 days of feeling protected, cared for and loved1 punishment*
(Deschut has been my dommy for a full year* now. I can't even believe it, but it is really true! I have done so many incredibly hard things for him, but he also listens, cares for me a great deal, and makes me always feel safe, cared for, and protected.
We have had a few hard days, 3 to be exact, where one of us made a mistake, but the incredible thing is that with a short conversation, some good communication, and with love, we were able to resolve the problems and move forward even better than before.)
Deschut: When we started, the first few weeks were overwhelmingly intense, exciting and fun. It seemed at the time like it could not possibly last at that intensity, or that it must somehow be unreal.
Over the past year you have become one of my favorite people on the earth. I really think the world of you and honor your personality, dedication, enthusiasm and care. I cherish the times we spend talking about our lives, laughing together, and our amazingly perfect play.
Being your subby is sometimes very very difficult, but it is also the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I love how you always continue to push me to do more, to grow and explore new things. It is so amazing that what we have is still just as exciting and fun as it was those first few weeks, and that it continues to be so so perfect.
I am so, so, so lucky and grateful every day to be your playtoy, your fucktoy, your subby, and your friend.
I am really strongly hoping for another amazing, fun, incredible, wonderful, exciting, mindblowing, unbelievable, perfect year!
* Nice words is what I call the words of affection that constitute most of online aftercare.
* It was technically 4 punishments, but all at the same time.
*It has not technically been a year, it will be in a week. I started working on this over a month ago, and could not contain myself anymore before showing Deschut!
Total Comments 25
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Thats super amazing! I hope im gonna be able to reach that level too
Goodluck *hugs*Posted 06-29-2014 at 08:49 PM by SweetTeen 
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Congratulations, you both deserve all the happiness the world has to offer <3
Posted 06-29-2014 at 08:51 PM by jlstockton25
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Congratulations on your year together. I hope the next year brings you both the same happiness.Posted 06-29-2014 at 09:00 PM by sonicboom1979
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This is beautiful! Congratulations to you both! I'm so glad you found each other and continue to have such a wonderful, happy, amazing relationship. I hope it continues for a very long time. You both deserve it.Posted 06-29-2014 at 09:17 PM by justJane
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I am a stat junkie I enjoyed the top part. Good luck on another great year, I know just how much you adore him and look forward to him waking up bright and early to play with you before work.Posted 06-29-2014 at 09:55 PM by Shadowice
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@SweetTeen: Thank you so much, and I hope the same for you!!
@JL: You are so so so so so nice, thank you!!!
@SonicBoom: Thank you!!! I really hope it does too!
@justJane: Pffft. You know how I feel.
@shadowice: I am happy you enjoyed it! I am a big stats junkie myself, that was one of my favorite classes in college! I really do adore him, and every single day I get so so so so so excited for him to wake up!!!
Posted 06-29-2014 at 10:14 PM by Happy Me
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1 punishment during the whole year? Impressive
Edit: Alright 4 but still...Posted 06-29-2014 at 11:15 PM by SaraMueller
Updated 06-29-2014 at 11:43 PM by SaraMueller -
I am a really good subby!Quote:Originally Posted by SaraMueller
1 punishment during thee whole year? Impressive *bows*
Edit: Oh, also, that punishment was not anything I would ever want to repeat. *hides*
Edit3: Also... I think Deschut is the best dommy ever and I am pretty constantly worried about letting him down!Posted 06-29-2014 at 11:26 PM by Happy Me
Updated 06-30-2014 at 10:19 AM by Happy Me -
Happy one year anniversary to the both of you! Here's to year(s) to come! It's so great to see what the two of you have together. I know you think the world of Des, and the way Des talks about you shows me he cares a great deal about you.
Oh, and those are some impressive numbers, it's a great idea to post them all like this!Posted 06-30-2014 at 01:39 AM by drwarschauu
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Drwarschauu: thank you so much for the sweet note!
Posted 06-30-2014 at 03:08 AM by Happy Me
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Congratulations! Wishing you another amazing yearPosted 06-30-2014 at 08:34 AM by Subbiebrookie
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So wonderful to read this, and congratulations to you both. The work, time and energy you put into each other (and yourselves) to reach this point must be immense.
Big love to you, and long may you continue.Posted 06-30-2014 at 09:57 AM by StrawDog
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Thank you Subbiebrookie and Straw Dog!
The crazy thing is that I know we should be proud we made it this far, this well. I mean, I know it must have taken some effort. But, while I am aware that we are both extraordinarily dedicated, it has seemed so uncomplicated and effortless (well, effortless is the wrong word when it comes to playing with a sadist, but you know what I mean) almost the entire time. I guess part of that is an extreme compatibility level, our personalities are so similar, and kink-wise, gah. Part of that is that both of us have a really strong aversion to drama. And the biggest part of it is that Deschut really is the best dommy in the history of ever, I am fairly certain!Posted 06-30-2014 at 11:13 AM by Happy Me
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You know my thoughts on this all, but you are wonderful and it's so very pleasing to see you've found someone that makes you so happy and vice versa. And I have to stop there :PPosted 06-30-2014 at 05:46 PM by DoingMyBest
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Lolllll. Yay! Thank you so much, he does make me crazy happy!!!!Quote:Originally Posted by DoingMyBest
You know my thoughts on this all, but you are wonderful and it's so very pleasing to see you've found someone that makes you so happy and vice versa. And I have to stop there :P
Posted 06-30-2014 at 07:55 PM by Happy Me
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Oh, this is fantastic. Congratulations to you both, so very, very happy for you! I love that you two fit each other so wonderfully well - that is so rare, and it is incredible to see how happy and devoted you are. Hope the next year is even better!Posted 07-01-2014 at 02:45 AM by naughtylittlegirl
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This is so cool. I love the stats, but it's even more amazing that you two have stayed together and that it didn't feel like work. Things like this are reassuring after hearing so many people who can't find what they're looking for.
Of course, you are completely awesome, so that might have something to do with itPosted 07-01-2014 at 09:00 AM by kittenlyss
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that's kinda awesome.Posted 07-01-2014 at 10:15 AM by silverdarknight 
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Naughtlittlegirl: Thank you so much!
You make me blush all the time!Quote:Originally Posted by kittenlyss
Of course, you are completely awesome, so that might have something to do with it
I think you are kinda awesome.Quote:Originally Posted by silverdarknight
that's kinda awesome.Posted 07-01-2014 at 10:29 AM by Happy Me
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I try to tell her that all the time and she doesn't believe me. And, since she gets the last word I really don't get to push the issueQuote:Originally Posted by kittenlyss
Of course, you are completely awesome, so that might have something to do with it I'm glad someone else said it!Posted 07-01-2014 at 11:36 AM by pet monkey
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This is pretty damn awesomePosted 07-01-2014 at 12:04 PM by Alexis Rune
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Glad to be of assistance!Quote:Originally Posted by colosubguy
I try to tell her that all the time and she doesn't believe me. And, since she gets the last word I really don't get to push the issue I'm glad someone else said it!
Posted 07-01-2014 at 12:13 PM by kittenlyss
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=DQuote:Originally Posted by Happyme127
You make me blush all the time!
*thinking happy bouncing rainbow animals at you*Posted 07-01-2014 at 12:18 PM by kittenlyss
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I have read this about 20 times, and I laugh every time! Thank you!Quote:Originally Posted by kittenlyss
=D
*thinking happy bouncing rainbow animals at you*
Quote:Originally Posted by shilohs_candy
This is pretty damn awesome Thank you!!!Posted 07-02-2014 at 03:59 PM by Happy Me
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Lol, glad to be able to cause a laugh. Although looking at your bouncing little rainbow sheep always makes me giggle. I think moving GIFs are a million times better than they could be if they stayed still.Quote:Originally Posted by Happyme127
I have read this about 20 times, and I laugh every time! Thank you!
Posted 07-03-2014 at 12:08 PM by kittenlyss
