A post written as part of Butterfly's blogging thread.

This is quite an easy question for me.

No I don't watch porn. For me, being asexual, I find the act of sex disgusting/revolting. Like just the idea of it causes me to shudder. So quite simply, why would I want to watch someone else have sex?

I'm also fully aware that a lot of porn sets unrealistic expectations of what sex is like, and for someone who has never had sex - I don't really want to have preconceived...

A post as part of Butterfly's blogging thread

I don't think I really have any fears. I will try pretty much most things. The things that are i my limits tend to be there not because of fear but due to my asexual nature or the fact they could ruin my "real" life. I could lose my job or lose my family or be arrested. You know real life problems.

I have sent photos to owners/dominants who I am in a kink relationship with after trust has been developed so I suppose...

A post as part of Butterfly's blogging thread

I look for someone I can get along with and talk about general things in life rather than just kink. They have to understand my feelings around sex and masturbation as an asexual. They don't have to necessarily agree with them, but at least understand why its hard for me. They need to have similar kink interests and they need to be quite firm with me. I can be cheeky and try to push boundaries and get away with things - I need someone to be...

A post as part of Butterfly's blogging thread.

This is an easy question to answer. I was a very very innocent 17 year old planning my birthday party and was searching up truths and dares for truth or dare, and this site came up. I didn't get much further than the front page as I was writing up a list of different dares and truths using the selector. But there were some very odd/kinky ones that I never wrote down for use with my friends but sort of kept stored in my brain.

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Do you use safewords when you play? If so, which words do you like to use? What do they mean to you?

Ok a multipart question for todays blog entry as part of Butterfly's blogging thread

Do you use safewords?
Absolutely, yes. I am also a firm believer everyone should use safewords. You know your body best, you know when enough is enough. Without a safeword a partner could cause serious harm or damage to you both mentally and physically. So yes, absolutely. But I rarely...

This blog is written as part of Butterfly's 30 days of kinky blogging (thread here.


Ok, this is a really challenging first post for me. There are definitely loads of things I've never tried but I've never considered creating a bucket list. There are a lot of things I'm curious about trying but know in reality I would possibly chicken out of so it was hard to make a list of 10.

1. Messy - very broad I know. I have tried some messy tasks before and I have enjoyed them...