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    Jaro's Avatar

    Shared and used in a bdsm club

    Thank you for sharing. This sounds so hot! I am glad you trust each other so much that things like this are possible.
    Posted 04-17-2023 at 09:51 AM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    Goddess Joanna's Avatar

    Shared and used in a bdsm club

    Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed reading it. I'm glad you both had a nice celebration
    Posted 04-15-2023 at 07:07 PM by Goddess Joanna Goddess Joanna is offline
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    Shared and used in a bdsm club

    This was amazing. Such a great birthday gift! I'm glad you had the chance to share that experience.
    Posted 04-15-2023 at 02:55 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    One week until burlesque performance!

    I also wish there was a love button! I am in love with burlesque and am so excited for you.
    Posted 04-15-2023 at 02:16 PM by Heart Heart is offline
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    Jaro's Avatar

    One week until burlesque performance!

    This is awesome! I'm sure you will give a great performance. Have fun!
    Posted 04-12-2023 at 05:33 AM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    One week until burlesque performance!

    You are beautiful, and you are going to be wonderful.
    Posted 04-09-2023 at 01:35 PM by AbusiveMaster AbusiveMaster is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    One week until burlesque performance!

    I am so proud of you. I don't think I could ever do that. He *is* very luck and better not forget it!
    Posted 04-08-2023 at 07:52 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    One week until burlesque performance!

    I wish there was a love button on the bottom of blogs!

    Good luck to you Frosty and good luck to AM with the no touching!
    Posted 04-08-2023 at 04:05 PM by LochyG LochyG is offline
    Updated 04-08-2023 at 04:06 PM by LochyG (Spelling)
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    The Softer Side of Domming

    It takes security to be tender. What makes intense play so rewarding, or even bearable, in some cases, is the trust and connection to go to those places, and to stay grounded if/when things go wrong or get harder. Generally that forms in the quieter moments, or with daily, repeated things that seem unimportant until one realises they are not. As you say, I wouldn't dream of telling you to go to bed, no matter how much I care for your health and wellbeing. It's all in the dynamic, and in choosing to move toward growth. Great blog, as always.
    Posted 10-20-2022 at 11:54 AM by StrawDog StrawDog is offline
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    The Softer Side of Domming

    Personally I'm a bit wary of the self-care and life style aspects, because most things and relationships end one day, if you get used to someone else having control over the vital things of your life, it might be hard to do them after it's over, not only to find the motivation, but also things that you have to keep doing on your own might remind you of the Dom. (that's besides your point, just wanted to say it)

    Apart from this aspect, yes caring and monitoring things totally doesn't go against being dominating, I agree.

    I think some people are naturally dominating (like me, despite being mostly a sub) and others kind of have to learn how to do it. In the second case it can be tricky for those people to feel like they are on top of the situation while showing a soft side, because being on top doesn't come naturally to them, they have to act it out, they have an image in their mind (kinda what you described at the start) of what it's like instead of just having it in them. That's my guess. It requires some natural confidence and dominant personality to be able to inspire that kind of control while being soft.
    Posted 10-13-2022 at 11:28 PM by pluky pluky is offline
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    Jaro's Avatar

    Breath play.

    It is awesome to read how much 100% trust in each other can do for a (BDSM) relationship. I wish you both many such awesomely edgy play sessions together!
    Posted 11-15-2021 at 06:41 AM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    Breath play.

    I always hate when I see people posting about being a "no limits" slave because I know it isn't true. Everybody has limits. However, when you have found the right partner, you don't just erase those limits, you give ownership of those limits to that partner. That takes time, trust, commitment, communication. The two of you have built that and it is so special. I think it is so rare, and I love seeing it. Thank you for sharing it with us.

    Also, I love watching breath play porn, but I am not sure I could ever play with it because of my claustrophobia but maybe with the right person, one day I could too. I am so glad you two had time together!
    Posted 11-12-2021 at 11:22 AM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Heart's Avatar

    Breath play.

    So happy you two got time to play! I love reading/ watching breath play and exploring a new kink with the person you love and trust is the best.
    Posted 11-10-2021 at 04:43 PM by Heart Heart is offline
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    Breath play.

    Wonderful to read you were able to meet up. As you mentioned, panic response is a deeply ingrained, physical thing. That deep seated security is highly exceptional. Thank you for sharing.
    Posted 11-10-2021 at 11:18 AM by StrawDog StrawDog is offline
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    Breath play.

    There comes a point in a relationship where you get a very good feel of how the other is going to react/feel/tolerate situations. We passed that stage long ago - I don't advise most people to just decide to do what I just decided to do.

    That said, it was something I was wary of, I know my Icemaiden has issues with things about her neck and a fear of choking, so while making every effort to appear cavalier, I was more attentive than I usually am. I will add here that the choking sessions lasted 10-15 seconds, they just seemed much longer to my miniscule pet person, she was never in any danger of passing out or dying.

    While I appreciate the love and trust of my girl beyond my ability to express, the taeaway I want to leave is it is better to BE safe and APPEAR dangerous than it is to actually put someone at risk, fear is as useful a tool as actuality.

    That said, when I beat her arse until she resembled a deep purple waffle iron, that was every bit as severe as her imagination made it.
    Posted 11-09-2021 at 01:24 PM by AbusiveMaster AbusiveMaster is offline
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    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by lola.fox View Comment
    i was pretttttty sure you took out a paid site advert for it no? :P that's what has been bringing us revenue for months
    Well damn, how could you out me like this?!
    Posted 08-01-2021 at 03:48 PM by IceMaiden IceMaiden is offline
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    lola.fox's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    i was pretttttty sure you took out a paid site advert for it no? :P that's what has been bringing us revenue for months
    Posted 07-31-2021 at 07:52 PM by lola.fox lola.fox is offline
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    IceMaiden's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by AbusiveMaster View Comment
    You obviously can’t remember, as the last thing I promised you was a penguin, not a unicorn.

    Furthermore, you forgot to add that I will personally castrate the next person you Domme.

    I want a unicorn AND a penguin. Duh.


    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Cassandra View Comment
    You are so lucky you only miss an invisible ad. I do miss messages quite frequently. People send me friend requests and who would do that without any context, right? But no, can't find the message nor threads nor blog comments I saw those people requesting my friendship.

    Ugh. One of my pet peeves.

    On another site, actually mainly for watching porn, since I added an avatar (a cute face pic of me), I also get messages out of the blue. I shouldn't have put in that caption "Please write me since I am so lonely, no matter who you are. I beg you to ask my silly questions like How are you? How is your day? What do you do right now? What is your gender? Do you want some dick pics?"

    How silly of you!


    Great read. Invisible ads are confusing indeed. I bet it would be more equal for everyone if we all agreed to not give a damn clue or answer about gender.

    I am confused and so seem many other people to be. For example those who write me, despite they have heterosexual in their profile, looking for women only, while my profile clearly states non-binary, and in the details even testicles and penis.

    On the other hand, having an invisible ad is way better than having no ad section at all. Imagine people would write us asking if we want to be their boss or their slave because there was no place to go to and meet people who want to consensual engage or play with other people. Oh wait, they do. Could it be that the whole ad section has gone invisible. Or our society progressed into a state where consent isn't a thing anymore?

    Hahahaha. Obviously, it's the whole ad section!

    Great read. Sometimes I am already happy to be only spammed once by the same person.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Cassandra View Comment
    Hmm, that gives me an idea. Maybe I should add to my signature that anyone spamming me has to punch themselves into their genitals a dozen times. That'll teach them.
    Yes!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by FrostbittenSoul View Comment
    Your ads are in the Archived Advertisements section ... the link is here to one you posted 08-21-2017
    I just knew someone would go hunting and find ads that were several years old. This section also says: "All advertisements that have been inactive for two months and are closed." I completely suck with maths and numbers, but I think 2017 qualifies.

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    Originally Posted by Chephren View Comment
    I just laughed so badly.
    I just love that kind of humour.
    On the other side I'm also a bit angry and hope some of the invisible ad reading guys get the message.
    I'm glad you laughed! You have to make humour!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Butterfly View Comment
    I have never ever posted an ad looking for a slave or sub and yet I get people messaging me multiple times a week asking me to Domme them. Even when I explain that I have two subs and am not looking for another at this time, they try to convince me why they are the most special little muffin I have ever laid hands upon and how I should make an exception for them .... it just boggles my mind!

    I did once make this Looking for a new sub. But unfortunately, I think the technology was too advanced for a lot of the inquiring species. *eye roll*

    Anyways ... I hope you are well lovely, regardless of being nagged by idiots.
    Special little muffin hahahaha! I'm very good, I miss you!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Butterfly View Comment
    I know that seems like just yesterday but 2017 was 4 years ago. The US doesn't even keep their presidents that long, how can we hold people to their wants/needs from that long ago?
    Females on here can never change their wants/needs of course!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by StrawDog View Comment
    U shud b my salve bb, I can show you a rele dominate u beg for my 9inches. Or u cud b my mistress. Do u show feets?
    No feets for you!
    Posted 07-31-2021 at 11:53 AM by IceMaiden IceMaiden is offline
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    StrawDog's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    U shud b my salve bb, I can show you a rele dominate u beg for my 9inches. Or u cud b my mistress. Do u show feets?
    Posted 07-31-2021 at 09:02 AM by StrawDog StrawDog is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by FrostbittenSoul View Comment
    Your ads are in the Archived Advertisements section ... the link is here to one you posted 08-21-2017

    https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=319727
    I know that seems like just yesterday but 2017 was 4 years ago. The US doesn't even keep their presidents that long, how can we hold people to their wants/needs from that long ago?
    Posted 07-30-2021 at 05:05 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    I have never ever posted an ad looking for a slave or sub and yet I get people messaging me multiple times a week asking me to Domme them. Even when I explain that I have two subs and am not looking for another at this time, they try to convince me why they are the most special little muffin I have ever laid hands upon and how I should make an exception for them .... it just boggles my mind!

    I did once make this Looking for a new sub. But unfortunately, I think the technology was too advanced for a lot of the inquiring species. *eye roll*

    Anyways ... I hope you are well lovely, regardless of being nagged by idiots.
    Posted 07-30-2021 at 05:01 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Chephren's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    I just laughed so badly.
    I just love that kind of humour.
    On the other side I'm also a bit angry and hope some of the invisible ad reading guys get the message.
    Posted 07-30-2021 at 04:22 PM by Chephren Chephren is offline
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    FrostbittenSoul's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    Your ads are in the Archived Advertisements section ... the link is here to one you posted 08-21-2017

    https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=319727
    Posted 07-30-2021 at 03:41 PM by FrostbittenSoul FrostbittenSoul is offline
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    CSasha's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by AbusiveMaster View Comment
    You obviously can’t remember, as the last thing I promised you was a penguin, not a unicorn.

    Furthermore, you forgot to add that I will personally castrate the next person you Domme.
    Hmm, that gives me an idea. Maybe I should add to my signature that anyone spamming me has to punch themselves into their genitals a dozen times. That'll teach them.
    Posted 07-30-2021 at 02:47 PM by CSasha CSasha is offline
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    CSasha's Avatar

    My ad looking for a slave seems to have become invisible!

    You are so lucky you only miss an invisible ad. I do miss messages quite frequently. People send me friend requests and who would do that without any context, right? But no, can't find the message nor threads nor blog comments I saw those people requesting my friendship.

    On another site, actually mainly for watching porn, since I added an avatar (a cute face pic of me), I also get messages out of the blue. I shouldn't have put in that caption "Please write me since I am so lonely, no matter who you are. I beg you to ask my silly questions like How are you? How is your day? What do you do right now? What is your gender? Do you want some dick pics?"


    Great read. Invisible ads are confusing indeed. I bet it would be more equal for everyone if we all agreed to not give a damn clue or answer about gender.

    I am confused and so seem many other people to be. For example those who write me, despite they have heterosexual in their profile, looking for women only, while my profile clearly states non-binary, and in the details even testicles and penis.

    On the other hand, having an invisible ad is way better than having no ad section at all. Imagine people would write us asking if we want to be their boss or their slave because there was no place to go to and meet people who want to consensual engage or play with other people. Oh wait, they do. Could it be that the whole ad section has gone invisible. Or our society progressed into a state where consent isn't a thing anymore?


    Great read. Sometimes I am already happy to be only spammed once by the same person.
    Posted 07-30-2021 at 02:44 PM by CSasha CSasha is offline

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