Jessica's Complete Submissive Guide

Jessica's Complete Submissive Guide

I've found more detailed lists/info useful when setting dares/tasks so here's my complete likes, dislikes & limits. I'd say I like experimenting so anything weird or things I haven't done before will probably pique my interest. Please note I only do most tasks when home alone or if they're quiet.

I'd say I'm mainly submissive so these only apply to my submissive persona, when I'm domming liking some humiliation is a plus but otherwise, I'm open-minded to most kinks.

Kik: PrincessJessica_M
Chaturbate: malesub26
IntoDare: SluttyYawner

PM dares - Anyone can give and proof (pics/videos) or report will be provided

100 rules - Feel free to send me some rules, you have 100 to choose from via my "RULES" PM dare!

Storytime with Jessica - A rarely updated set of short kinky stories

If you're waiting for a dare from me, or think I've forgotten about doing a dare you've given me then remind me (after around 2 weeks). I tend to have the odd week or two off for privacy reasons and bad health occasionally slows down progress so please be patient.

Even more detailed report(!) courtsey of Jaro's sub questionaire
If you have 10-15 mins spare fill out yours

Loves - Things that very much turn me on

• Bets & Challenges (Like bets with consequences, also like unfair or uneven bets or trying to bargain out of a forfeit)
• Crossdressing (have a relatively limited wardrobe and very limited privacy but do enjoy feeling girly)
• Denial (Strong Love/Hate, see blog. Have completed 1 year no full orgasm denial so I do rather like extreme denial)
• Edging (although excessive edging while in denial isn't fun).
• Feminisation (The humiliation of acting girly but also the "freedom" of a transformation, see blog).
• Humiliation (including name-calling, as well as obviously tasks)
• Orgasms (Because who doesn't!)
• Teasing (Verbal e.g. being made fun of & more physical e.g. forced porn watching, light dicklet rubbing)
• Webcam exhibitionism (private or especially public)

Likes - Things that usually turn me on at least a bit

• Answering truths (No ID info, you can ask me literally anything else though)
• Ass to Mouth (Like the humiliation far more than I dislike any taste/ how disgusting it is)
• Body writing (Hidden under clothes only)
• Bondage (Enjoy feeling restricted etc but don't tend to enjoy tying myself up)
• Chastity or no touching (Like denial but requiring even more self-control. Without teasing can get dull though).
• Control & rules (Losing some control over basic choices is always a fun way to spice up the day e.g. underwear & clothing control)
• Degradation (Fine line, love feeling picked on or less than others but in a very playful context. Also enjoy unfair terms, a2m, general name calling etc. More personal insults like ugly, fat step closer to the line but feeling unvalued or ignored totally is over the line).
• Experimenting (depending on the task I love trying out new things, especially the weird, wacky and things that scare me. If it's not listed feel free to at least ask me. I very rarely say "No" unless it's already in my limits)
• Exposure (Without face only and still within my control to some degree).
• Forced bi (things like chatting up guys, sucking on toys or similar. I'm far more straight than bi and don't find guys sexually attractive but do like the humiliation of this)
• Games of chance (Such as dice dares)
• Golden Showers (That warm yucky mess running all over me is rather degrading but does excite my dicklet a little)
• Hidden Public (Exhibition play in private public places that require permission to access e.g. under clothes, locked toilets with no real risk).
• JOI (cock control via cam or videos)
• Nudity/ Stripping
• Pain (Mild to Medium such as nipple play or light CBT. No marks)
• Predicaments (Being forced to choose between 2 bad options or trapped in a "bad" situation)
• Roleplay (I like talking dirty and fantasy sharing generally but roleplay can be fun, somewhat out of practice)
• Spanking (Ass, nipples, balls, cock or basically anywhere else)
• Toothpaste (That sweet stinging).
• Wearing slave collar (keeps me in my place)

Neutral - Things that I haven't tried that much of or that don't particularly get me excited.

• Exercise dares (I'm relatively unfit due to ill health so soon find this kind of thing irritating or too hard pretty fast)
• Pet Play (Limited experience but can't imagine it doing a lot for me)
• Wedgies (Squashing my dicklet is fun but doesn't really do a lot for me in the limited experience I have)

Dislikes (aka Likes/hate) - Will do for dares. Things that I really don't like doing and/or am inexperienced with. I do still rather like the humiliation aspect in most cases.

• CBT (I'm OK with some but jeez just soon gets to ultra-painful levels. Do like using a soft flogger though as I can go full pelt without worrying too much about damage. My dick has very mixed feelings about this)
• Cornertime (Does make me feel submissive but also often just dull)
• Cum play & eating (Taste is horrible and makes a horrible mess).
• Ice (Brr it's cold and doesn't excite me)
• Light anal (Dislike the feeling, in fact, it's a turn-off, but like how degrading it makes feels. Fingering, butt plug or dildo available and unwilling to do anything bigger)
• Mouth soaping (The humiliation is good but the taste is horrible)
• Pain (Major, anything likely to make me cry or cause marks)
• Pee (Very small amount of tasting, like licking hands or wetting in very rare circumstances, e.g. easy to clean-up afterwards are OK. Very strong dislike).
• Restrictions with rules (No-one likes not being able to do fun things right? TV time, gaming time etc)
• Scat (Very little done and very nervous to do anything major. Forced messing, light tasting and gentle tasks are probably OK)
• Writing Lines (Boring & tedious. Will accept as a punishment).

Would like to try - When I'm brave enough anyway, or with the right introduction dare. Feel free to tickle my curiosity with something gentle from this list

• AB/DL (Have no real toys to do this, but if I did I'd at least experiment. Willing to do colouring, watch kids cartoons, suck thumb or anything else inventive you can think of)
• Hypno (Opening up my mind to be messed around with is kinda scary but something I'm very much open to try.).

Soft limits - Will do but only partially and at my discretion only (ie as a punishment, extreme lost bet or after trust has been built up)

• Face (Will show face if you do or when I trust you only)
• Holding Edges (I'm just terrible at this, a strong no if I'm meant to be in denial)
• Messy (Most messy is off limits but I would consider some, as long as clean up wasn't too major)
• Voice (No-one likes the sound of their own voice. Mine's particularly unsexy with a bit of an N.England accent and I'm pretty shy sharing it. Mic works when it wants too as well)

Limits - Won't do at all.

• Anal (Large items)
• Blackmail (any ID related info, I find it morally yucky)
• Dangerous (anything I deem dangerous, including blood, pins or breath play)
• Enemas
• Family
• Financial (including shopping for items)
• Illegal (Duh)
• Permanent (For example changes to body or long-lasting rules, although I would consider for long-term doms)
• Public (Public with eager voyeurs would be very much up my street and a fantasy of mine. However I'm unwilling to purposely include non-consenting people in my kinks or get caught breaking the law)
• Stress positions (I cramp very easily which is no fun at all. 5 minutes is usually a challenge in stressful positions like holding arms out)
• Sounding (Deem it too dangerous, nothing goes up there!)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Degradee
87% Submissive
85% Ageplayer
83% Boy/Girl
83% Voyeur
78% Rope bunny
75% Pet
73% Exhibitionist
65% Masochist
63% Owner
62% Primal (Hunter)
61% Slave
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Rigger
53% Vanilla
52% Degrader
48% Experimentalist
48% Non-monogamist
45% Master/Mistress
45% Daddy/Mommy
39% Brat
38% Sadist
37% Switch
25% Dominant
http://bdsmtest.org/r/6317131