I am not sure if I just take it the wrong way, but ever so often seeing something like or "dare me" or "and waiting for dares" I think: 'What a pity." Alright, there are many users only giving out (PM) dares, but my impression is, there are way more people who desire to get some than users who could ever give out those numbers. On the other hand, and that's how I see friends with PM dare lists get a lot, is not only linking them in their signature and being active on getDare...

Hello and welcome new user to getDare,

You are probably very eager to get to know some more people with the same kinks as you, or who have the kinks to complement yours. Here's a quick advice how to and how not to do it.

0. Danger danger! Read the getDare Survival Guide.

1. Change your avatar and your profile picture.

2. Click "Blogs" in the menu, and then "Post to your blog" on the left. Create one blog entry with your Likes/Dislikes/Limits...