Feeling safe is not something that comes easy to me. I grew up not feeling emotionally or physically safe in my environment. So it doesn't just happen naturally with every person that I meet.

But the feeling of safety is something that is really important when you are exploring a kink dynamic.

Entering a BDSM relationship can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, but safety—both physical and emotional—should always be a top priority. Here are some of the things that...

As per usual today, Saturday, was my dildo day, where I set out to get my dildo in my ass while thinking about a straight married guy that I know professionally. Rhys could take the place of the dildo anytime.
I used my mouth gag device today for the first time and it felt amazing. If Rhys wanted to come round and use me to satisfy all of his s&m urges then using my mouth gag to silence me, would be exceptable.
S&M sex acts doesn't have to involve sex, so Rhys can still come round,...

I know a guy called Rhys who is straight and married, but there's just something about him that I seriously want to explore. I'm into S&M, a sub, and I think Rhys would make a fantastic dom. Rhys could use me to satisfy mine and his s&m urges. S&M doesn't have to involve sex, so Rhys could come round, use me, then go back home to his wife without actually 'cheating'. If only Rhys would know about my s&m interests, and then come round to my place and act them out on me!