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I am not your porno

Posted 02-13-2019 at 10:14 PM by Butterfly

Time for another short (hopefully) rant from the Butterfly files ...

I am so annoyed ... I am tired of being used just for somebody to get off. I don't want to be used for your fap material. My life is not your personal porno.

I don't mind talking to random people. I like to have conversations. I love to make friends. I adore talking about kink. But I am also human.

I understand that some people only come on getDare to get off, or they only want to chat to others to get worked up and have some inspiration for their personal fapping session.

And sometimes I get a thrill from chatting with people, getting them worked up, and for the select lucky few, they may even get a chance to play casually with me (usually with me Domming them) ...

What is really frustrating when people respond to my ad (the ad I have written that very clearly states that I am looking for a DOM) and start to ask me about my Domme side. They want to know the worst thing I have made my sub do, or how long I have made him wait between orgasms ... sometimes they even go as far as trying to *barf* role play with me. (No offence to those who like role play, it just isn't my cup of tea).

And like ... I am crazy open! I don't mind having discussions and getting to know each other. I like to give advice, share my experiences, and learn from others.

But I have emotions, stresses, responsibilities ... a life! I am not "on" all the time. If somebody asks me how I am, I am not going to lie. I will share with them how I truly am feeling. If they start a conversation in a sexual direction and I am not feeling it, I will be honest and let them know.

The problem is when I tell somebody I am stressed, overwhelmed, anxious, sick, etc. and they STILL expect me to be their fap material. They still want to ask question after question about the things I make my sub do, they want to know about my last orgasm, or what I would do to them if I had the chance ....

Seriously! Fuck off! Somewhere else!

(I am getting major deja vu ... I guess I wrote a blog about something very similar not too long ago ... sorry!)
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  1. Old Comment
    CagedHiruzen's Avatar
    Haha, I feel like I have seen this before too but I get that and I try not to do that to anyone. I am sorry you get treated like that.
    Posted 02-13-2019 at 10:45 PM by CagedHiruzen CagedHiruzen is offline
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    Blue Fox's Avatar
    It is crazy insane that people don't understand how to treat each other like human beings.
    Posted 02-14-2019 at 04:26 AM by Blue Fox Blue Fox is offline
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    Twisted Kitten's Avatar
    I have this issue with guys on kik alot. I told one that I wasn't in the mood, (a response to "I'm hard rn") he gets all offended, im all like "well excuuuuuuuse me princess. Its not my job to get you off!" (Zelda gif included) got him quiet. XD it felt good to finally say something instead of ignoring them like i usually do.
    Posted 02-14-2019 at 05:31 AM by Twisted Kitten Twisted Kitten is offline
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    LitDarkness's Avatar
    Who is aviable to be fap material all the time or wants to?

    You are allowed to have emotions and stresses and all that stuff. Everybody does. Your also allowed to not be in the mood. Anybody telling you otherwise can fuck off and themselves.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Twisted Kitten View Comment
    I have this issue with guys on kik alot. I told one that I wasn't in the mood, (a response to "I'm hard rn") he gets all offended, im all like "well excuuuuuuuse me princess. Its not my job to get you off!" (Zelda gif included) got him quiet. XD it felt good to finally say something instead of ignoring them like i usually do.
    This happens often. Males get it too though, way worse for females. (Because obviously quilting people makes them horny and want to play right now.)

    Too bad few only ever learn. Hopefully you taught that guy a lesson. I doubt it but, can be hopeful.
    Posted 02-14-2019 at 07:15 AM by LitDarkness LitDarkness is offline
    Updated 02-14-2019 at 10:31 AM by LitDarkness
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    CSasha's Avatar
    Please roar them away. Nobody can remain that open to everyone, including literally jerks.

    Stay lovely and open to your closest ones, and home-run-hit lifesuckers away.

    Wish you the best, Butterfly
    Posted 02-14-2019 at 10:13 AM by CSasha CSasha is online now
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    Lemuricon's Avatar
    Wait? you are not? *sarcasm*
    No should always mean no... That is one rule a lot of people don't seem to want to learn.
    Posted 02-15-2019 at 02:12 PM by Lemuricon Lemuricon is offline
 

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