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Am I a bad submissive?

Posted 10-27-2015 at 08:56 PM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)

I don't get off on feeling like I'm not worth as much as another person. I don't find any kind of sexual thrill in being told I'm not worthy or that I can't have something because I'm not as good as someone else. I don't like being called degrading names or being mocked for my physical features. I don't believe Boyfriend is better than me, and I'll certainly never admit it to him. I won't capitalize his name and refer to myself with lower-case pronouns to show deference.

So am I a bad...
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On Distance

Posted 10-25-2015 at 07:34 PM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)

Boyfriend lives an hour away. That doesn't sound like much, but driving an hour there and then an hour back is exhausting and my car is ancient and doesn't like doing that drive very often. Boyfriend doesn't do that drive well and doesn't like coming to my town at all because it's a college town and he has an aggressive personality that doesn't play well with stupid college kids, so I usually drive to him to keep him happy. Add to that the hectic schedule I'm keeping in addition to Boyfriend's schedule...
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Personal Preferences

Posted 10-23-2015 at 09:03 AM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)

I love my boyfriend. I know he loves me too. He's the perfect mixture of sweet and salty. He has money and takes care of himself, and when I'm able to visit him (we're not super long distance but far enough away that I only get to see him maybe once a week), he takes care of me too. He's not a prince charming; he doesn't shower me with compliments and gifts all the time and he's more likely to tease me than he is to be sweet to me. When we have sex, it's good. He's strong and commanding and he likes...
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So FUCKING frustrated

Posted 08-08-2015 at 07:22 PM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)

This is a bit of a personal tangent because I don't know anyone on this website personally so I don't feel guilty or inhibited by expressing my thoughts and feelings here. I know no one reading this will judge me for it, and if someone does, it's not going to make a difference to me.

I'm a bartender and a server. I'm also in college and about to graduate in the winter. And these past few months have been going pretty great for me. I've been promoted a couple times at work, I've been doing...
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On control

Posted 07-27-2015 at 06:34 PM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)
Updated 08-08-2015 at 07:24 PM by punishmypussy

I'm curious to see how many people like me are out there. I have always been fiercely independent. I pride myself on being able to take care of myself completely, without help from anyone. I tend to exert control over every aspect of my life, which I think is largely because I have issues about appearing to be anything less than perfect to everyone.

I don't like to leave the house without looking my best. In high school I graduated in the top ten in my class and in college I've striven...
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On cams, pictures, titles, and respect

Posted 07-24-2015 at 11:21 AM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)
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Let me preface this by saying that I've been lurking on this website for 5+ years, although I've only recently become active in any kind of regularity. Therefore you might not know me, but I know a lot of you. And a lot of what I see and experience on this website bothers me.

First of all, I don't take pictures or appear on webcams. I have a lot of personal reasons for doing so, but those shouldn't matter. What should matter is that I don't take pictures or appear on cams, and any decent...
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Likes/Limits/Toys

Posted 07-20-2015 at 12:08 PM by punishmypussy (Masochistic Musings)

Likes: Pussy pain! Pussy spanking, clit spanking, creative pussy/clit punishments, etc. Regular spanking, breast/nipple spanking, teasing and (very) short term denial.

Limits: Pictures, public, anal, bodily fluids, anything messy, permanent, weird insertions.

Toys: I have one vibrator, it's like a bullet vibe but a little bit longer. I also have a number of spanking implements: wooden spoon, wooden ruler, plastic ruler, belt, electrical cord, hairbrush, and rubber spatula....
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