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If you guessed by now that this is a rant, you are right. At least, a little bit.

Small update: I just had two wonderful kinky sex dates with the same person on two different days. And hopefully this is going to continue with more sessions next week. Jealous?

Well, I am happy, and...

Hello friends and readers,

As time went by, I recently discovered a new sexual limit for me: people who don't play with people with a penis.

I have nothing against talking to and interacting with people who don't play with people with a penis. It also might sound like a very uncommon limit.

But that's how it is. I had enough and now recognized that I indeed don't want to ever play with people who don't play with people with a penis anymore. Nothing personal,...

Since I locked with a keyholder for a longer time, some rules may be added.

I use the Chastikey app for drawing cards.


Current rules

- Complete For the next 7 yellow cards I draw I have to inform my keyholder and complete 50 deepthroats before drawing the next card. (added 6th September 2020) 7/7

Inspired by knorke's blog post. Many thanks for the perspective.


More often bottom than top, I go through phases of submission, domination, and not much desire for kinky play at all. That's why I have been unable to keep up a long-term BDSM partnership, in what role whatsoever. For me, the most important aspect of my tasks is to do it for others, due to others, "forced" or better spelled decided by others. I love to please and satisfy people. That works better when I...

I have never done more denial without chastity then just a few hours on my own, pleasuring myself without orgasm on purpose. I admire those who can deny themselves for days, week, and months on end without help by a chastity device. I don't know if I could do that, never tried.

But, I have explored chastity a bit so far. Besides locking myself on my own for getting tasks done, and to arouse myself, my longest chastity time so far was a good two weeks.

I have acquired many...

Restricting myself to just three per category

Self-reflection:
I prefer to play with thoughtful, literate, careful people.
I am passioned for games in many kinds.
I am mean and sweet as a top and also like that taste as a sub.

Loves:
Deepthroats, Anal, Degradation

Experiences:
Anal insertions, light pain, chastity

Hates:
Excessive cold, Repetition, Clinical stuff

Limits: Permanent, Illegal,...

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I lost overview over the exact application of my home IPL device and the areas, especially related to the recommendations.

I can now say it definitely works in regard of significantly reducing my body hair. I am not sure about how long-term this is. I have several spots where hair has grown back and long, but it's spots and up to small area, still significantly less and I still now have hair-free areas who weren't hairfree before. But being...