The details behind my favorite kinks - particularly the why + how. It will be updated as I learn more about myself and evolve through my BDSM experiences. Full, but less detailed list of likes + limits can be found here.


Choking - Preferably with a hand, but a belt will do too. I don’t care for this though if it’s self administered.

Bruising - Whether it’s from spanking, caning, paddling, or cropping.. I love it all. This is one of the few...

pet-play, anal, anal stretching, orgasm control, edging, humiliation, cuckqueaning, clit + labia + nipple teasing, body writing (hidden), pee (below the neck), spanking (by hand), bondage, bladder control, light pain, semi-public

clit + labia + nipple punishment, enema, hard spanking (with "tools"), over stimulation, body writing (semi-public), corner time, not being allowed to shave my arm pits

pee (in mouth / drinking), figging, hard pain, trimming my...

In the recent weeks, thanks to industrious slaves kept anonymous to you, I got a couple of nice reports and even videos on completed tasks. Not only do I enjoy others doing tasks for me, including making both of us happy by putting themselves down, possibly even spreading the love and show via a public blog post. I also noticed I have found a certain kick in gasping sounds. I don't want anybody to be damaged permanently, and it's also not about any damage at all, but panting and gasping is a clear sign...

Jessica's Complete Submissive Guide

I've found more detailed lists/info useful when setting dares/tasks so here's my complete likes, dislikes & limits. I'd say I like experimenting so anything weird or things I haven't done before will probably pique my interest. Please note I only do most tasks when home alone or if they're quiet.

I'd say I'm mainly submissive so these only apply to my submissive persona, when I'm domming liking some humiliation is a plus but otherwise,...

I like:

• anal play: butt plugs, dildos, ..
• oral: dildos and gags, especially penis gags, deep throat
• nipple play: clothes pegs, clamps, ...
• chastity belts
• moderate pain
• exhibitionism (yes, I'm secretly a cam-slut)
• eating cum: direct, or on food, ...
• latex clothes
• high heels or ballet wedge boots
• bondage

I dislike (but if it´s not covered in my "taboo"-list it´s OK once in a while):

• strong pain
• cock torture
• humiliation
• electroshocks
• walking in ballet boots
• whips
• toothpaste

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Likes: Being a dare slave, Joi, light cbt, Dice games, Cock hero, online exposure, light blackmail, edging, panties, cum tributes, fap roullete, milovana, semi public, light public humiliation

Dislikes, Neutral, Curious about Unknown: please help me to find out!

Limits: Pee, poo, family interaction, face pics, full public, anal, everything else not listed until I know more about it

Likes: Being submissive, orgasm control, denial, chastity, getting nude, feet, going barefoot, ass play passive and active, being pegged, dressing feminine, sissy play, being watched, serve naked, pee games including drinking, bathroom control, edging, sounding, hidden public, enema, poo.

Interested in: Needles, mild pain, humiliation, bondage.

Dislikes: Cold shower, wedgies (never got the idea nor did it), sleeping dares, eating dares (meat is a limit), degradation, mouthsoaping,...