When people get to know me, and they learn that I have a kinky husband. A husband that I met through getDare, a husband who was once my Dom, they always wonder - why isn't he my Dom now? What happened?

In short my answer is that Mr. Devious loves me too much. I know that sounds silly. Mr. Devious is a wonderful Dom, but the love and the life that we share prevent him from being the best fit for me as a Dom.

Let me explain a little better ...

Finding time...

This blog is written as part of Butterfly's 30 days of kinky blogging (thread here.


Ok, this is a really challenging first post for me. There are definitely loads of things I've never tried but I've never considered creating a bucket list. There are a lot of things I'm curious about trying but know in reality I would possibly chicken out of so it was hard to make a list of 10.

1. Messy - very broad I know. I have tried some messy tasks before and I have enjoyed them...