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Little d/Big S

Posted 02-24-2023 at 11:41 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

A lot of times when we are writing/reading about Dom/sub relationships, we will see that a big D and a little s (D/s) are used. Some people put a lot of merit into the protocol of using capital letters for D types and small letters for s types. That is totally ok. I will admit that I usually err on the side of grammar. Proper spelling, grammar and punctuation are turn ons for me (or at least making the effort to do so).

Anyways ... the point is, the reason that the D is usually capitalized
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My journey with gags

Posted 02-20-2023 at 07:01 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Gags turn me on so much. It is just another loss of control. When I watch porn, I love seeing different types of gags being used.

However, I have had gags listed in my limits for a long time. This is for a few reasons:
  1. I am claustrophobic
  2. I don't like drool/being messy
  3. It feels humiliating (makes me look and sound funny).

I have wanted to find the right person to explore this with. I have had a few Dom's come into my life and try, but it hasn't worked.

I
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Poly Love

Posted 02-18-2023 at 12:50 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I am poly and have multiple partners. I currently have four poly relationships.
  1. Mr. Devious: I would consider this my primary relationship. We are married. We met here on getDare about 9 years ago. He began as my Dom and we fell in love. I moved across the country to live with him. Once we settled in to live together, we realized that a power exchange dynamic just didn't work between us. However, we are still kinky together in the bedroom.
  2. Jaro: Jaro and I have been together for 6 years. We have
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Kinky Bucket List 2023

Posted 12-31-2022 at 12:43 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

As we enter into 2023, I thought it would be a good time to update my kinky bucket list. It has certainly evolved a lot since I first posted in 2018. I have scratched off a lot of things, and added many new exciting things to try.

I believe that if we aren't learning, growing and exploring than we are just dying and I am not ready for that!

So here is my current kinky bucket list:


As a Domme
* Domme a Dom
* Use a milking machine on a sub
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Collared

Posted 12-18-2022 at 05:23 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I met my Dom in person earlier this month and one of my favorite moments of being together was when he presented me with my collar(s).

The first collar he gave to me on our first day together. It is a day collar. It is a gorgeous bracelet that has a very discreet, hidden meaning. It spells "mine" in morse code.

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I have worn it almost constantly since he presented it to me. I love it, and love feeling his presence with me
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Is it even worth it?

Posted 12-11-2022 at 01:13 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

*please note that this blog has been written over a few days and so it may be disjointed*

Is the pain even worth it?

I met my sloth this week. It was so magical (more blogs to come, most likely). We had 4 amazing days together. It exceeded all of my expectations.

I haven't felt this much of a spark with a Dom since I met Mr. Devious. It is so scary but wonderful. I loved every minute of our time together until ...

It was time to say goodbye....
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The worst

Posted 12-04-2022 at 12:56 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

There's this man I met ... he's the worst! He likes to torture me, tease me, make me blush and squirm. He pushes me and gets in my head. He uses my thoughts, likes, desires against me. He is the absolute worst! But I have enjoyed every minute with him.

I have spent the last 2.5 months getting to know, exploring with and falling in love with this amazing man. Tomorrow, literally 24 hours from now, I get to meet him in person. I am flying across the country tomorrow and I get to be in his
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