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Changing my dream fantasies

Posted 06-17-2018 at 07:29 AM by CSasha

They say when writing a story or a novel, you have to learn to change your vision of it. Because when you bring it down into words and details, breath life into it, make it real, you get reflections and feedback. How you imagined things isn't right an healthy, so life points out that you have to change. Change your perspective, yourself, your story. As long as you don't, you will fail.


Since decades I bring up certain fantasy scenarios when I am in bed trying to sleep. They reflect what I wish and long for in my mind, but they also include many flaws, misperceptions, shadows I still have. Lack of love for myself, in multiple ways. I think it started with having my teddy bear as cruel master which I even played out in bed when I was a small child. When I was nearly out of school it was mainly in my mind and a cruel mistress. I don't know when it transformed but today it is one of many worlds with me as yamma in a three-gendered society. I only included some of it in this story. At one point I even wrote down the very sexist rules.

In short, alpha dominate in numbers and privileges. betas come next and yammas are rare and have the least rights. I think it was an expression of my needs to be abused like betas do abuse yammas, and then having kind of earned the right to be loved by the mistreatment, being romantically cared, courted, tendered and mostly gently and passionately fucked by alphas. Over the most recent years while also taking family stem therapy session, hence learning to love, that has changed. In my fantasies beta have become more balanced, not pure abusers anymore, but more Human with love to yammas. yammas themselves started successfully fighting for equal rights, society became less sexist and unfair, and alhpas became more flawed, diverse and therefore Human.

I take that as an expression of successful self-development. I believe living out your kinks can help us embrace the healthy balance. Being consensually mistreated, abused, punished to open up for aftercare and love. Or similar for tops from the other side.

What do you think?
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    Thanks for a very interesting look inside your thoughts, Cass! I truly agree with the last paragraph - a change in your desires and fantasies definitely signifies personal growth. And aftercare is just about the best thing ever. I've always enjoyed being treated to a rough fucking and a face-slapping session to the point of tears, then being cuddled and having my hair stroked afterwards.
    Posted 06-19-2018 at 08:17 PM by 420jenni 420jenni is offline
 

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