I've posted an announcement in the forums and made the new site live!

I was sitting around tonight debating whether to launch today or wait for the weekend and decided to just launch the dang thing before it starts collecting cobwebs.

After a long time the secret site is a secret no more.

....> kinktalk.com

It never ceases to amuse me how people try to argue loopholes they find in the rules.

I got this well-written gem today in my PM box:
This is the sort of crap users waste my time with on a regular basis. This was from an idiot upset about his 3 point infraction (you don't get probation until 4 points)....

fi yuo cna raed tihs, yuo hvae a sgtrane mnid too. Cna yuo raed tihs? Olny 55 plepoe out of 100 can.

i cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae...

So occasionally some nut thinks I will bend the rules for him if he spams my inbox. Unfortunately I never check my e-mail (why the contact us forum went away) and the server filters out this sort of junk.

Unfortunately for these individuals I enjoy their desperation. Their abuse only brings smiles to my face. This latest e-mail is a real gem.

I'm not quite sure what pissed off user this is, but last week someone called me "Dick Davenport" and said they infected...

Dear users of getdare,

Some users have criticized myself and most of the other mods this week about "picking favorites" and "hating a particular user." Well, I have to respond to these remarks. Look at getdare this way. It is more like a school, the mods are the teachers and Depp is the principal. Think of Depp in a god-like thrown with all the power, however, since he can't always be on, the mods help out. Like most schools, most teachers will claim that there...

Manbearpig

Enough signatures for me

When someone is upset, they ask God for help. They pray to God to take all their problems, so they are happy.
I too get upset, many times, but I pray to God to give me strength to face my problems. Life is not about having no problems and easy going. Life will never have a meaning then, it would be so boring. We realize the value of good days when we have seen the bad days and only then we would cherish every second of good times.
We should not be cowards, and say that we are sick of life,...